my ex and i broke up a little over a week ago and its been so hard for me… it seems that EVERYTHING i do reminds me of something we did and she is always on my mind.. i expressed how i feel to her still and she just says "well still be friends and ill still hang out with you" but i dont wanna be friends.. just everything she did.. she gave me the butterflies every time we kissed and i wont get over that feeling.. its so hard.. what can i do to either try and get her back or get over her.. HELP

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This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

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I’m just not interested anymore. I go out on my own and well I don’t get butterflies in my tummy for him anymore…

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2 weeks before my wedding my husband told me he didn’t want to marry me (had to go through with it cause of the $$ and people involved). I have went through emotional abuse, drinking, physical violence, controlling issues, and sexual issues with this man. There was absolutely nothing right in our relationship. I finally decided I wanted a divorce and I walked out. Had finally gotten enough self esteem that I didn’t need him and that I could make it on my own. I have a good job and can financially support myself. For temporary – I went to my parents house to live and my dad has cirrohsis…and after all he has been through I came home to him and my mom fighting because he was drinking again. I moved out young because of this problem and I ran from it again because I didn’t want to be there so I went back to my husband. I don’t love my husband at all. But he promised that he would start taking meds and change the way he treated me. Things have changed a little but I still have so much hatred built up for him for the things he has done to me. I met a guy on a work trip back a few months ago and we talk every now and then. We both really like each other but he lives pretty far from me. I get butterflies when I think about talkin to him. I fell out of love with my husband so long ago because he never treated me like he cared one bit and now I feel so stupid for sittin around and letting it happen. I want my life back! I am 25 yrs old and a really good person. I just want to be happy. My husband is trying to manipulate me into staying and saying I can fall back into love with him. I have been goin to therapy to try to get all this figured out but personal experience or opinions would be appreciated.

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He is my first boyfriend and we’ve been dating for 3 months….and every time I see him I don’t get butterflies in my belly like I use to ,and I don’t want to dump him.Like there hope that I can get feel that way again.Whats wrong?and how can I learn to love him again?

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