Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?

Tags: aim, breakups, Calm, christmas, days before christmas, emotion, heartfelt letter, last chance, Met, what the heck

Just recently i’ve been seeing a change in my wife’s behavior.After constant arguing over the lack of sex, huggs and kisses I was able to get her to tell me the truth. She admitted that she does’t love me anymore. This of course broke my heart. I was there for her from the day we met. I helped her through so manny of her personal problems with her family and finances. I work hard with the thought of her and the baby in mind. I only want the best for us, but we are struggling.When i first met her i was more of a hot head. I hung out a lot, went out drinking. Is it possible that she fell in love with me in the past but the new calm me is not what she wants. She doesnt like to talk about this, she refuses to see a counselor, but at the same time she wants to stay with me. She tells me that she cant leave me. That im her best friend and im all that she has. She still refers to me as babe, and that messes with my head.She swears that it has nothing to do with another guy. And this is the tr
I tryed to get her to come with me to see a marriage counselor but she wont go.She say’s she knows what she feels and she doesn’t need them. Its so weird, she found a new apartment for us to live in. When i told her i couldnt live with her she cryed. She can easily move in with her sister or mother. They’re all financially secure.But she still wants me to stay with her. But just as friends. I told her that there is no way i would accept her going out on dates while im living with her and she continues to get angry over that. Constantly reminding me its not about men.And she’s not interested.How can i get her counseling if she wont go.
i really appreciate all of the responces. It really means a lot.

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Are you dying to know how to win your ex back?

It can be a difficult endeavor, because some of the necessary methods seem somewhat counter intuitive, but if you want to learn how to win back an ex, you have to consider all of the things that are mentioned in this article.

The most important thing to do to learn how to win your ex back is to calm yourself down before all else. High emotions are not going to allow you to focus on learning how to win your ex back.

Instead, you are going to want to take a strategic angle to handling things. Drop the desperation and start thinking logically when determining how to win him or her back once and for all.

If you want to learn how to win your ex back, you need to accept and agree with the split. This may seem hard to do but it is vitally important to rekindling things in the future.

If your ex is against future contact, then letting him or her know that you are okay with the breakup may disarm this attack and make it easier for you to talk to him or her in the future. This is an important part of learning how to win ex back.

The next step is simply to live your life.. Go out, have fun and spend time with friends. This will show your ex that you are willing to move on. It is going to force your ex to realize how they really feel about you.

If your relationship really is meant to be, your ex will realize it. If they do not realize it, then perhaps it is not actually meant to be. This is a pretty simple concept but still difficult for many people to completely grasp.

Now you are going to want to limit contact as part of learning how to win ex back, because limiting contact sends a psychological message to your ex boy or girlfriend, forcing them to deal with you outside of their normal day to day life.

If you force yourself down their throat, then they are not going to respond well to your presence in their lives. If you limit your contact with them, they will find themselves missing you, thinking about you and wondering how you are doing, and this will force them to come to terms with the future of your relationship.

Following this simple system will help you learn how to win your ex back. It may seem complicated at first because it is hard to avoid someone you care about, but these steps are absolutely vital in allowing things to be rekindled in the future. With patience and love, you can rekindle a relationship and learn how to win your ex back.

Tags: Calm, Desperation, emotions, Endeavor, love, Necessary Methods

Well me and my ex have been together for 10 months. He kind of has anger issues but I know how to calm him down and that was kind of the main thing that was bugging me.Also, I was feeling avoided so I broke up with him. Then about a week or two later, I told him I wanted him back and then he said " I don’t know". And he said that we can be friends with benefits. And now, has a new girlfriend who he has been dating for like a month now! He said he loves her so much and sometimes, I think he’s trying to make me jealous. And on my birthday, I was excited and here he is talking about his bitch ass girlfriend and his birthday in Jan. What a fucking bitch! UGH. I’m so mad. Just typing this gets me angry.
I know, I know, this is all my fault. He probably wouldn’t have dated her if I didn’t break up with him.
What the hell? His father is dead. he died when he was just 4.

Tags: 10 months, anger issues, bitch ass, Calm, friends with benefits, fucking bitch, girlfriend, hell, new girlfriend