I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for about a week. Everything was going great but then out of nowhere he stoped calling me and ignored my calls and text. After getting really annoyed I tested him asking if he wanted to break up but I got no response. So is this relationship over? I know it seems like a stupid question but he never told me he wanted to breakup.

P.S. There is nothing wrong with his cell phone becuz I texted him "hey" from a different number and he responded.

Tags: cell phone, Hey, relationship, stupid question

So, I am bisexual. I was going out with my ex boyfriend in September 09. He asked me out; we’re in the same school and he is the reason why I came out to the entire school. He lives kind of far away and I understand we couldn’t see each other as much as couples should, but I noticed that he never tried his best at school to show affection; He was out to some of his friends, but not everyone – not out like me. We either had to meet up in the bathroom and just hug and kiss, but that’s it. So one day my parents decided to take me and my brothers to Starved Rock [some really nice attraction in Illinois] and i remember that day because it was our anniversary. [it was in November] My parents made plans about going there a week before the way we actually had gone and so I let my ex know about it, i asked him if he wanted to come but he refused because he said he would feel uncomfortable being with my parents and stuff and I asked him why and he said because we’re a couple, and i told him it’s not like they’re going to know. I respected his decision and just left the situation alone. So, the day came and I sent him a message through facebook congratulating ourselves cause it was a month being together. I left to starved rock with my family [it's like 2 hours away from my house] and that was my day. By the way, he has no parents, he was deported from Colombia to Chicago and he lives with a friend of his, and he does not have a cell phone. The phone he used when we spoke was his friend’s. So, i remember coming back home at night and he sent me a message on facebook telling me that he was mad that I didn’t call him or anything. [i tried contacting him from starved rock, but there was no signal and i wanted to do it in the morning before i left, but i remembered him telling me to never call his friend's phone cause his friend didn't know about him] so I was hurt because it was not my fault that i couldn’t communicate with him, and plus he chose NOT to come with me to starved rock which would have been a PERFECT place to spend an anniversary at. Then, he was telling me how he fantasized about my straight brother, who also goes to our school and that he thought my brother was cute and everything. That wasn’t the only time he told me that. I was really mad and i ended the relationship that same day. Every since, til now, he sends me a message through facebook again and he tells me how he wishes he can go back into time and how he would make a great boyfriend; he basically wants me to give him another chance… but I’m not sure if i should buy it or not. I don’t know. He has a history of telling people at school that he thinks they’re hot and stuff, and I also heard that he’s asked people out but they said no. What should I do? I am so confused. He was my first boyfriend, and i still have feelings for him, but i don’t want to get hurt.
HELP!

Tags: affection, anniversary, Boyfriend Help, cell phone, colombia, couples, entire school, Ex Boyfriend, facebook, kiss, parents, starved rock

After 3 months of being separated my husband and I are getting back together. I had some issues that I finally worked on and got worked out and he saw this and now wants to get back together. He’s been telling me he loves me and he can’t wait for our future but about a month ago he cheated on me. I forgave him finally and we talked and decided to work on us. Well, hes been finally back to how he used to be. Love-able, sweet and always wanting to talk to me, protective, and just amazing. But yesterday on our way back home he didnt have his cell phone and he was sitting in back so i gave him my phone and my friend texted me and he found out i told her that he cheated and he was really mad. shes one of my best freinds and i told her, another bf, and my mom… other than that no one. But do you think this is gonna affect him wanting us? He hasn’t talked to me at all today.

Tags: bf, cell phone, freinds, love, mom

I went to jail for contempt of court for child support for 45 days back in March, we lost our baby in February, and things have been sour ever since I had to go to jail. She tells me that she can’t get over that and she wonders everyday if the police are going to come knocking at the door for me again.

What makes things worse is she is cold as ice towards me, I try and try to show love towards her and she doesn’t even care; she says she loves me, and is in love with me still but doesn’t know why and why she should stay. Last night I broke down finally and begged her to just be close to me she didn’t even care she turned over and went to sleep I sat there sobbing uncontrollably for about 4 hours and she didn’t even care. She is the most important thing in the world to me and I love her with all my heart and soul, what can I do to rekindle that love we had and make things work; I don’t want to lose her and I have no one else to turn to. Any advice I would appreciate it
She said that my job as a bounty hunter is all I have and have ever had; she said all I have is what I am chasing after.. But she is the one I want and she said that I spend too much time on the computer and the cell phone for work, what can I do
As for me not paying child support it is a long story and not my fault, I was in Argentina when my ex wife filed for adoption of my 2 boys to her new husband, they posted service in the paper and I was never able to appeal it or fight it; when I called the family court they said my child support obligation was through; the reason I went to jail for 45 days is for not paying arrearages that built up because she was on assistance from the state and I have to pay all that back.

It has nothign to do with treating my kids bad, I wanted to see them and when I came back from my assignment they were adopted right out from under me.

As for me changing careers, I have been doing this all my adult life (bounty hunting) and I make exceptionally good money doing it and I am well known internationally as one of the best there are, she knew this when we got together and it comes with the package. She just wants me to give her what she isn’t giving me and I don’t think it is fair

Tags: adoption, adult life, alot, argentina, arrearages, Bad Times, bounty hunter, bounty hunting, cell phone, changing careers, child support, child support obligation, cold as ice, Contempt, contempt of court, heart and soul, job, love, money, Sat, sleep

My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for three. I’m aware that my husband abuse alcohol. Recently He was arrested for drinking in public. I was the one he called collect every single day. I was even the one who done all the running around for him while he was incarcerated. He came home and started drinking more and he even tried to cheat on me. I threatened to leave him. He begged me to stay he he would change. I gave him another chance. Now another problem came up today,His pay check didn’t come in the mail and we are behind on our rent so now hes pissed off. He left the house and won’t answer his cell phone. Can my marriage be saved or should i just let it go?

Tags: abuse alcohol, cell phone, husband abuse, mail, marriage, pissed off, single day