This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

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My story is long, cut to the chase I have been with a guy for 6 years. 3 years of it was long distance relationship. I loved him and he was my first love as I was his.
about a month and half ago we broke up in agreement. and Here I am. I can not cried,it been 6 month since I last cried ( not really a crying type).I always put everything in me , hold every pressure and problem inside.and I am afraid of shattering , I am afraid of thinking about what has happened. I think It hasn’t sank yet in me ( or may be it has and I am jut holding it down) and I am afraid of ending up in pieces when starting dealing with it. its like carrying a giant hole in me and it hurts. It hurts so bad that I want to puke my guts out. the problem is I am not emotional type. I am so cold and heartless all the time. ( or maybe I just don’t know and don’t like to show emotion)
Please if anyone can come up with something tell me. I really need help. I need to start grieving and move on some how, I think.

Thanks,
G

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They say that Sagittarius love to chase back it mostly feel like I’m chasing him how do I get him to chase me .I’m a Leo by the way

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How to win your love back can be a hard task because it goes against every instinct that we have.  For instance, when a woman walks away from a man, it is in his nature to chase her down and recapture her.

Men love the chase.  They love to be on the hunt.  But, when a woman has walked away, she needs space, not a chase.

As hard as it is for men to recognize this, it is sometimes the only way to win love back.

That means that when a woman leaves you, be very careful about what the next actions you take are because they could be crucial in whether you get her back or not.

For instance, don’t call, email, or text the woman.  Let her contact you first.

Women always need to talk.  She won’t be satisfied until she’s had a chance to bring closure to the relationship.  But, let her initiate this call.  By waiting for her to make the call, you have let her know that you are not desperate for her.  This gives you the upper hand.

Now, you may be wondering if this will show her that you don’t care.  But, the opposite is true.  How to win love back begins with a recognition that sometimes women really do need space to figure out what is going on in the relationship.

Sometimes women need to make a “grand gesture” to illustrate their independence.  This can take the form of walking out or saying “I never want to see you again.”

But, if she is in love with you, she doesn’t really mean this.  What she’s really saying is “let me have some time to process what just went on.”

If you have done something to hurt her, you need to be contrite when she calls you.  You need to show that you are ready to make a change and that you value both her and the relationship.  But you need to give her the space she needs to process the hurt.

However, sometimes women make these “grand gestures” simply to get attention.  If you’ve got a game player on your hands, you need to take control right now and let her know that you are not going to put up with her antics.  One way you do this is to not play the game.  And that means not to chase her every time she goes away.

There are many reasons that women walk away from you and tell you that they never want to see you again.  Sometimes they are hurt and sometimes they are just trying to be manipulative.  In either case, you don’t want to be the first one to call because that puts you in the position of being desperate.

Instead, let her call you.  That way, you have some control over how the call goes.  Be sympathetic to her needs, but don’t put up with any bull.  That’s how to win love back.

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How do you break up with someone you love? Break up with your boyfriend can be the most devastating thing in your life if you were truly in love. How can you get through this situation?

First of all, you need to determine whether the relationship is truly over. There are a number of ways to get an ex boyfriend back.

You don’t want to chase him. You want to give him some space, especially in the first days after a break up. So, don’t pester him with calls or texts. Instead, let him call you.

If he doesn’t contact you right away, don’t stress about it. Instead, after about a week, call him yourself. But, keep it casual. Don’t go all weepy on him and ask him to get back together. Also, keep it short. Five or ten minutes should suffice.

If you are still in love after this amount of time, you need to consider making more fundamental changes.

For instance, do you need a makeover? Would a new hairstyle or new clothes attract him back? Do you need to lose a few pounds?

Also, consider whether there were aspects of your personality that drove him away. Were you always nagging him? Did you drop all of your own friends and hang around with him exclusively? You may have been crowding him.

If you have identified areas where you can change, you need to do them. It may take time, but if he is truly in love, break up won’t last.

But, you also have to be prepared to move on. Fortunately, any changes you make to win your ex boyfriend back will also help you attract a new guy. For instance, learning not to nag a man will help you keep any new boyfriend. And, your new more glamorous self will be sure to attract lots of attention.

Use the time between boyfriends to find out what you really want in a man as well. What was it that attracted you to your ex? Did these qualities hold on over time or did they annoy you after a while? Did you go for someone on the basis of looks only to find out that made for a very vain man? Did you like his sarcastic sense of humor only to find out that he turned it on you?

You should also use this time between boyfriends to figure out what you want in yourself. What can you improve – not for the sake of a guy – but to make the quality of your own life better? This may mean getting back in touch with your girlfriends, taking up a class, or going to church again.

Remember, a love break up do happen. Sometimes you can get back together and sometimes you can’t. The important thing is to be able to roll with the punches and move on to the newer, better you.

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