I’ve been with my husband for 6 years (inlcuding dating). I’m in my early 20′s and so is my husband. I love him deeply but don’t know if I want to be here anymore. I met someone else last week and spent most of the week with them, hanging out all day and getting to know each other and eventually sleeping together.

I convinced myself to leave my husband (so I tried) and then I slept with him, came home and admitted it. Now my husband is considering taking me back.

But I don’t know if I want to work things out. I’ve developed feelings for this other person and can see myself living a good life with him. But I’m afraid to hurt my husband again. I don’t deserve my husband after doing this to him and if I could do this to him, I mustn’t be "in love" with him. People tell me you can cheat and still love your partner, but how can you. How can you hurt that person so much? I don’t understand and I don’t want to stuff him around. What do I do?
I don’t want to continue on with this guy if I decide to stay and I’m not seeing him right now. I know I need to work out my shit, but what I guess I’m asking is does a cheater deserve another chance. My view is he deserves better than this, but on the other hand I don’t want to be a quitter (even though I did quit the second I decided to cheat).

Tags: 6 years, cheater, Dating, feelings, love quot, M 105, Met, quitter

i was with my ex for 2 1/2 years. i was so in love with him. to be honest, i still am. even though i’ve just found him to be a cheater on alleged cheater websites. although to be fair i had suspected he cheated on me several times. he was my whole world. i thought we’d always be together and that i truely was the only one.
we have a baby together. who he doesn’t support.
i must be crazy to still have feelings for him after all the things i’ve found out recently. to realize that he lied about everything. i trusted him and believed everything he said.
i feel physically weak and sick. and have headaches from thinking about him all the time.
my friends say what is this hold that he has over you? just move on. but i’ve been finding it so hard to do just that.
he’s the love of my life and was my first serious boyfriend.
he just upt and left, left me holding the baby.
im so sad. so down. heading towards depression.
is there hope for me. to stop this pain and find happiness again?

Tags: broken heart, cheater, depression, feelings, Friends, happiness, headaches, holding the baby, love, Love Of My Life, Move On 98, several times

i am interested in a guy who just got out of an 11 month relationship with his girl… he insists they are completely over.
i do believe him, shes a (unt & cheater
i know hes interested in me too, we’ve talked about it.
should i go for it? or are rebound relationships doomed to begin with?
he’s 21.
and i like him, a lot. im just not ready for heartbreak and such…

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Hi, do you think that once a cheater they always are? My cousin is letting a text message get to her that her ex sent just when she was about to move on, I tried to tell her that she did good by resisting him but she keeps thinking about him now that he is trying to come back in the picture.

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My wife and I just recently got married a few months ago but she has cheated on me in the past..twice. Recently I found out she ran into one of the guys she cheated on me with and they started talking and when I found out, the hurt that I felt when I first found out came back. I know some of you probably wonder why I ended up marrying her but its because I really do love her more than anything in this world and we were able to work through it. But ever since I found out about this recently I cant stop thinking about it and wondering if shes cheating again. I get the whole "once a cheater, always a cheater" and I’m the type of guy that normally would never put up with this. I’ve been in one other relationship where I’ve been cheated on and the second I found out I left her, but with my wife it’s different. I can’t imagine being without her. I don’t really believe in divorce and I don’t want to be that guy, but I’m just worried. I’ve been so good to her, and given her everything she’s asked for and more. I know she’s made mistakes, but she’s really a good person and I’m afraid if I leave her it will be the biggest mistake of my life..I just can’t handle being hurt again.

Tags: anything in this world, biggest mistake, cheater, Cheating, divorce, good person, love, mistake of my life, one of the guys, quot, relationship