My girl and I were just fine. Well, we took a short break a month ago, but Thursday she acted like she truly loved me. Then I see she is talking to this guy on myspace, I ask her about it, and eventually (on Friday) she tells me that he is interested in her and vice versa. She brought up the fact that I hadn’t dated many girls and she was nervous about us moving in together because of that. So, she broke up with me. We were together for 2 freaking years and she truly acted like she loved me. Now we are exchanging email and she keeps telling me things like "I find him amusing because he is more outgoing", etc. She say’s while I was close to perfect, she can’t pass up this opportunity with him because the chemistry is amazing. I don’t get it, she hasn’t even met him yet. She hasn’t even met this guy and he is nothing like her. How can she just do this a day after being completely in love with me? I don;t know what to do because I’m so shy and it’s hard for me to meet people. I feel very alone right now. I wasn’t shy with her though, I could be myself with her for some reason and I think I’ll never find anyone like that again.

Tags: Breakup Girl, chemistry, girls, love, myspace, quot, short break

I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. When we are together the chemistry is perfect and every outside influence concerning her family and friends are completely supporting our relationship and view me as "the one." The only problem is her ex-boyfriend. They dated for about 3 years off and on while he lived for away partying all the time and taking her on an emotional roller coaster. He’d tell her he’s not ready to commit because he’s scared and therefore their "thing" was solely physical every time he came to town. A couple months ago, he came back to town lived with her for a couple weeks (he had nowhere else to go) and started treating her like they were a real couple. Well when he left back to party city, he cheated on her. That was when she had enough, she was heartbroken and decided to move on. Thats when I came in the picture about a month later. Everything since then has been perfect. I have never been happier in my life since we started dating. The only problem is her ex-boyfriend is now freaking out after he heard that she has moved on with me and is telling her he is in love with her, wants her back, wants to have kids with her, and all the things she wanted to hear in the last 3 years she’s known him. Nobody, not her friends, or her family like this guy, nor has he ever made an attempt to even meet her family. I know he has the upper hand over me because of all the things they’ve been through, but where do i go from here? She is now confused about what she is supposed to do. I had a conversation with her about life and these situations and honestly, i’ve played all three roles before in the past at different times, and I know the psychology behind it and how these things work. I also told her exactly how I feel about her, how I want not only her in my life but her family and friends as well, and how genuine and pure my feelings are for her. Time has no effect on intuition or the feeling you have inside when you just know who you are meant to be with. It certainly doesn’t take 3 years of a physical off and on relationship to figure it out either. This guy is telling her that sometimes you have to lose something to figure out what you lost and everything else in the book.

So where do I go from here? She wants to stay together because she knows what we could have, but her past with him and her feelings are too much for her to handle, and she feels like she needs a break to figure out what is right for her. But this would entail her talking to him and maybe seeing him in person. Do I step aside and let her make a mistake? or what do i do?

Tags: 3 years, chemistry, couple weeks, different times, emotional roller coaster, family and friends, feelings, gf, intuition, love, party city, partying, psychology, relationship

sex therapy is the last chance i have to save my marriage but i don’t even feel like going. how can you expect to save a marriage when you are not even attracted to the person? we have zero chemistry & sadly, i can’t even remember why i was attracted to him in the first place. i know i was drawn to him because i knew he would take care of me….but i’m older now & don’t need a caretaker. (i was 19 when i married, now i’m 23 and he’s 30).

i actually recommended sex therapy a few years ago but that suggestion was brushed aside. now we are separated (for 7 months) & now he wants to try. he says he’ll do anything.

he is a good man with a heart of gold. i love him more than anyone…..but he just doesn’t get my juices flowing.

so, should i visit a sex tharapist with him, even if i don’t want to? the only reason i’m considering is because he’s really truly willing to do anything…& i feel rotten for not returning the favor….plus, i don’t feel right getting a divorce w/o trying
PS: I have already cheated on him. he knows about it and took me back with open arms, as it was an eye opener for him—-he realized he was not taking care of my emotional and sexual needs.
isn’t it too soon to be feeling the "7 year itch"? i’ve only been married 4 years and started feeling it after a year.

Tags: 7 months, amp, caretaker, chemistry, eye opener, getting a divorce, Gold, good man, heart, heart of gold, juices, last chance, love, marriage, Marriage Sex, Marriage Therapy, Sex 101, Sex Marriage, sex therapy, sexual needs, suggestion

So we had our ups and downs, then I gradually force myself to not like him so that I can break up with him then things got better, he’s much nicer person now and is asking me to married him, like I do love him, but I felt there is not chemistry now, he is really good to me and I dont want to put him down so please how can I love him again like I used to .

Tags: chemistry, love, ups, ups and downs

although it still saddens me to know that Noah is still unsure of whether he wants to get back with Luke, i still have high hopes of the two of them getting back together^^ i sure do hope that they make amends and get back together<333 hehe… i can still feel and see the chemistry in their eyes:D GOOD LUCK, NUKE!!! i love you guys!<3

Tags: chemistry, good luck, high hopes, lt, noah