My boyfriend and i broke up. He broke up with me, saying his feelings changed, however, he thinks they will come back he just doesnt know when. He wants to remain close friends which leads me to believe he still has feelings for me even though he says he doesnt.
I have been scowering the internet trying to find ways to get back with your ex boyfriend because i am very much in love with him and want to make things work. Deep down inside my heart i know we can get things to work again.
The only thing i have kept on reading was that if you cut off all contact with him, for example, not texting him over and over again or not texting him back when he texts you (my ex still texts me saying hey and goodnight and stuff) that he will wonder why you arent texting and in the long run HE will realize what he is missing and want you back? Is this true? has anyone first hand experienced it? If so, how long was the phase of not talking or contacting? I was planning on giving it a month and calling him on his birthday and trying to start fresh from there?
please let me know any little bits of details you know on this or any other type of approach that has worked for you in getting your ex boyfriend back.
I dont want him to see that im not texting back and answering and then just completely move on. I want him to realize what we had was amazing and miss me just as much as i am missing him now.
thanks in advanced!!!

Tags: 100 Ways, close friends, Contact, feelings, goodnight, heart, little bits, love, texts

Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months. We were extremely close to eachother and our familys and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. We still kiss eachother and "hookup" and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I told him im starting to like him again and I have feelings for him, and he said he has feelings for me as well, but he doesnt want to hurt me again. I have already felt the pain and i know i could NEVER feel that bad again. So if he treats me like this why can’t I just be his girlfriend again? Maybe he doesn’t want to be tied down, but what’s the difference? Because right now we are "friends" but friends don’t "hookup" if you know what i mean. But i truly want to get back with him, whats going on here? :/ ohh & he calls me baby, and brought me in front of his family again like it was no big deal. It sucks because i get the urge to tell him i love him, but i can’t

Tags: 4 months, 9 months, amp, close friends, cuddles, Ex Boyfriend, familys, feelings, girlfriend, hookup, juniors, kiss, relationship, Urge

To make a long story short, my best friend and I of 8 years dating for approx 8 months. We made a mutal choice and called it quits on the relationship because of maturity and well other differneces (maturity on my end) we remainded close friends. After, I joined the army, and he started to date a woman (whom i was never 100% fond with) but i respected his choice in women, and attempted to move on…

During part of my training, some 6 months later, i got a phone call from her, asking me what happened when we broke up. i told her, and then a few days later, she packed up and left (pregnant..)

About a month later, we got back together, and I moved him cross country, he lost his job, and we got engaged. He then went to see his ex and take a paternity test. The child turned out to be his and he left me cold.

Him and this same woman, who became preggers under uncertain terms are to marry next month. She is a hateful spitful woman! (more to follow)
And doesn’t really respect him as i have for so long. I spoke with her ex husband, as we have become friends (nothing like that!! he has a girlfriend…)
and he told me what happened with them. Now, I know her pretty well, and knew that she was after him when we meet her and her husband almost a year ago.

But, for some reason, i just can’t let go of him. It will have been 9 years of friendship next month, and 1 of those years we were together. we seemed so perfect!!!! But, he told me, when he marries this time, it’s for good. and now that he is with child..i know it’s for good.

I want to be happy for him, but it kills me to see him with someone who hurts him so much. How can i be that supportive best friend and liveunbroken hearted??

Tags: 8 years, army, best friend, close friends, Country 104, cross country, few days, friendship, girlfriend, job, letting go, maturity, paternity test, phone call, relationship, uncertain terms

My boyfriend of over 2 years and I broke up on Sunday because of some stupid drama that I didn’t start. He blames me and I embarrassed him in front of family and close friends. He tells me that he still loves me and we talk. I’m trying to think of a creative way to express my love for him and let him know that I still care about him and remind him why we fell in love in the first place.

Any creative ideas that would blow his mind away?

Tags: amp, close friends, Creative Ideas, love

It’s been 3 months since my ex girlfriend and I were together. Before we got together we were close friends(we’re in our late 20′s). So after the breakup; she broke up with me. I feel I lost a close friend and girlfriend I guess. Everyone is telling me the more time that goes by the better it’ll be. Well she wanted to still be friends with me and contact and talk with me. But I felt it was worthless in some ways and wasn’t allowing me to move on. So almost 2 weeks ago I stopped talking with her and didn’t respond to the last email she sent. All of this hurts so much, but after the first week of not talking to her I felt good and proud of myself. But coming up on week 2, I feel horrible. Should I expect these back and forth feelings? This is my first breakup with a girl that has affected me like this. I had been dumped one other time and it didn’t make me feel like this at all. Any advice to cope with the pain? I feel like a crying baby but I still have this attachment.

Tags: close friends, crying baby, email, ex girlfriend, feelings