I have been with this person for ten years and we are still not married. i have a ring but not marriage. He constantly keeps bringing up it’s me who is prolonging it however, I see evidence that he is still enjoying women, the club life, etc. Don’t I have a right to happiness, honesty, loyal, compassion, faithfulness? I recently move out of the house with him and into my own however, he still comes over and calls but I still feel sad because he not fighting to be with me. It seems like he is trying to make me his friend and i can’t give myself to him like that and it may not be for a long time for that matter. i don’t know how to handle this situation at all. i love him, he don’t love me the same anymore.
Tags: broken heart, club life, compassion, happiness, honesty, long time, love, marriage
I’ve been dating someone for 4 months, everything has been smooth, easy and wonderful. A lot in common. Same morals, blah.. blah.. blah. He’s recently divorced (I know, my 1st mistake) and has a child with her. This is the 2nd time she had left him, filed for divorce this time. Told him that she felt no compassion for him on their honeymoon that he went through a lot to plan out and make special. No intimacy between the 2 before she left the 1st time and certainly not the 2nd. She now tells him she wants another chance, he has since told me that he isn’t considering her, that I’m everything he’s ever wanted and have made him happier than he’s ever been, I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m a wonderful person, BUT… he needs some space. He feels lost and empty. Doesn’t know if he can love again. Wants time alone to work on himself, get his head back on straight. Hasn’t called me since. Is he contemplating her? Or did he get scared? Will he be back or do I need to move on?
Tags: 4 months, blah, blah blah, compassion, divorce, Ex Wife, hasn, honeymoon, intimacy, Lost, love, mistake, morals, wonderful person
So after getting my heart broken with a girl I absolutely fell in love with, it came to a point where it would never ever work out for us ever again. It is tough but I want to continue on with my life. I miss her love and compassion for me, and honestly I miss feeling that. Should I start looking around again right after this break up? Or just go with the flow? Wait?
Tags: compassion, heart, How To Deal With A Breakup, love
