Every time I’m around my ex he always flirts with other girls when he knows im there, two of my best friends have all their lessons with him, they say he never does it when I’m not around. He takes pictures and makes videos and tells me what he does when I’m not around, but he always has his arm around another girl, or compliments them when I’m there and makes flirting videos when I’m not there. He’s best-friends with two of my other exs and they’re all spreading stuff about that is a bunch of stuff I used to do or is a bunch of lies. Half of my friends say I should ignore it and just move on because he obvious don’t want me if he is always trying to hurt me. He has a go at me all the time and makes out everything I do is always wrong if it’s not what he wants. He always trys and avoids people talking about me but he is always slagging me off himself. He blames me for us always fighting and has moods with me where one minute he wants to spend every second with me, sometimes we end up getting off if he wants it… I love him… he says he loves me. But other days he can be so harsh. Like calling me and emo, w.hore, s.l.a.g, s.k.e.t… he calls me beautiful then tells me he wished we never dated. I don’t know what to do. If me and him start getting off he sometimes starts doing sex movements, but I’m not sure if I’m ready for it. Even though we’re not dating I feel like sex is the only way I can get him back. He tells me to bring a condom when I’m ready which is usually the day before he does the sex moves even though were not dating and then plans to see me the next day even if it means blowing off his friends. He sometimes acts like he loves me but other days he tells me to f.u.c.k off and leave him alone. I beg him to forgive me and try and prove how much I love him but he sometimes ends up chucking me out of his house or threatening me with getting a new girlfriend, deleting me, reporting me or spreading stuff about me. I’m so confused, my friends say I’m better off without him and my best mate tried to convince him to tell me but he ended up telling me he loved me. My bestest friend has the same problem with her boyfriend, can anyone help ?

Tags: best friends, compliments, condom, doing sex, Ex Boyfriend, exs, flirts, girls, hore, Moods, new girlfriend

I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex. They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.
I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.
I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon. He admitted that he was scared and holding back. How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?

Tags: compliments, Fall In Love, falling in love, Faults, four months, freedom, heart, powerful thing, pretty girl, relationship, rush, time frame

Its been 8 months since we had sex. I’ve tried everyting, wooing her, flowers, going out on dates, compliments. I’m not bad looking and have had a few offers from other women but turned them down. I really love my wife. Any ideas?

Tags: 100 Sex, compliments, flowers, Love Ideas, Sex 101, Wife Sex

it’s a sad poem i guess and i wrote it after this guy dumped me and i felt really depressed.but i’m over it now and i jsut want to see what people think?
here it is……………………..
FADING MEMORIES by me
memories that fade away
like the sunset
into the horizen….
fading memories
dying memories
sad memories
when they used to be glad
lonely memories
lonseme memories
romantic memories
cherished ….
thoughtful notes
sweet long letters
soulclose conversations
and unfufilled dreams
perfect compliments
perfect love
or as if it meant or seemed that way
but it’s all unreal
because memories fade
like dust in the wind
like sand on a grave
and all turns dark
unhappy and lifeless
when all u have is memories
to hold onto
but that slip away

Tags: compliments, conversations, dreams, dust in the wind, fading memories, Guess, long letters, love, love poem, M 111, Perfect Love, romantic memories, sad memories, sad poem, sunset, thoughtful notes

I had an affair over a year ago when I was out of state working for a month and a half (the affair lasted about 3 weeks), we broke up after that for a couple months, then got back together.

He has cheated on me twice (that I know of) about 3 years ago, I let it go and forgave him, however he said he never had s*x with anyone else, just kissed so what he did was way different.

We have been married for 6 years, together for 8, I am 23 and he is 27. I still love him but he is not the same, I can tell he doesn’t really love me, he won’t talk about it, what are some things I can do to help make him love me again? I want this marriage to work, we have a 5 year old daughter together.

I do not work anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. I already do all the "wife" things like make his lunch for work, have him supper ready when he gets home, keep the house clean, I rub his back when he’s going to sleep. I do alot for him and still I get nothing.

I have put up with a lot from this man and I mess up one time and he can’t seem to get over it. He has done much worse if we add up everything. So how can I get him to realize that it was a mistake, it’s over, I love him and I only want to be with him? I want him to forgive me and try to find the love he use to have for me again, how can I work on doing that? He doesn’t want to go to marriage counseling. Any suggestions? No critisisim please.
Thank you
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
I will up the compliments, thank you for that.
I came clean with him about it when he asked, I could of EASILY lied and gotten away with it but I didn’t want to lie anymore.

Tags: 3 years, 6 years, Advice, compliments, Find Love, Love Affair, Love Marriage, lunch, marriage, marriage counseling, mistake, month and a half, sleep