i was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he put me through hell, i did everything for him i ditched my family and friends without realising it, he has knocked my confidence and know iv found out he has been cheating on me and know i want to get him back and hurt him . . . how do i do this?

Tags: 3 years, Cheating, confidence, Ex Boyfriend, family and friends, hell, Realising

So its been 6, almost 7 months since I broke up with my ex. He’s even dating someone new (for 2 months now) and I’m still having trouble getting over him. He use to call and want to see me even when he started dating this new girl, but now he’s slowly forgeting about me. I feel like I’ve been losing confidence. Its hard for me to like someone. I’ve always been in a relationship w/ someone…w/ my last ex it was 3yrs.
I was also prego with his baby 6 months ago but didn’t go through with it. I think that could also be why it didn’t work out. I feel horrible about a lot of things. I always thought I was a good gf… I just don’t know what to do anymore.

Tags: 7 months, baby 6 months, confidence, Getting Over An Ex, gf, new girl, relationship, Stupid Idea

Lots of people have like love poems and sayings Not like short quotes. But ones about love. If you have any please share

Examples

im just a girl whos in love
with the most ..
amazing,
cutest,
funnniest,
nicest,
& completely perfect
guy in the world

or like
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??
It isn’t love, it’s like.
You can’t keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??
It isn’t love, it’s lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off??
It isn’t love, it’s luck.
Do you want them because you know they’re there??
It isn’t love, it’s loneliness.
Are you there because it’s what everyone wants??
It isn’t love, it’s loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??
It isn’t love, it’s low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don’t want to hurt them??
It isn’t love, it’s pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??
It isn’t love, its infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??
It isn’t love, it’s friendship.
Do you tell them everyday they are the only one you think of??
It isn’t love, it’s a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??
It isn’t love, it’s charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they’re sad??
Then it’s love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re strong??
Then it’s love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts??
Then it’s love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there??
Then it’s love.
Do you accept their faults because they’re a part of who they are??
Then it’s love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death??
Then it’s love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple because it’s LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others.

Random stuff bout love like that.

Tags: amp, charity, Confessions, confessions of love, confidence, facebook, Faults, favorite things, friendship, heart, infatuation, loneliness, Love Notes, love poems, loyalty, Lust, palms, quotes, sake, sayings, share examples, true heart

I’m 29 and dating a 35 year old man who is about to finalize his divorce. They have been separated for several months. He has 2 step children that he loves dearly and he has been a father figure to them most of their lives. The end of his marriage was due to several things – lack of affection, wife was alcoholic (even got arrested twice), verbal abuse (from her when she was drunk), and to add insult to injury she had an affair and told him about it.

He tells me he loves me, that I’ve spoiled him by treating him so well, that I’ve really helped his confidence and that I’m the best woman he’s ever known……sounds great right?

Well, anytime I hang out with him, his phone is blowing up – texts, calls, from the ex wife. She doesn’t know about me because he’s afraid she will take the kids away since he has no legal rights as a step parent. Whenever she doesn’t get her way from him – like asking him to go grab a beer with her and hang out because she’s "bored" – she starts threatening him, telling him she’s going to let his dog loose, and "you’re not going to see the boys again!"….highly manipulative. He hasn’t ever given in to her threats when he’s been around me, but he still very much "plays" nice with her.

Its getting really irritating to be hanging out with him and his phone starts blowing up with texts, etc. I don’t know why he can’t just tell her that he’s with friends even if he’s afraid to let her know that he’s started dating already. Which is ironic since SHE is still dating the guy she had an affair with – and she talks about that relationship to him. Yet – he’s afraid to tell her the truth.

To put it bluntly – I think she has him by the balls. He is a very rational, calm, nice guy – and she’s the complete opposite. I think she knows that she will always have him right where she wants him because he loves her boys so much. I’m mad at him now for allowing her to have so much control over him. But I realize that isn’t my problem to deal with or handle…..

The one thing I know I DO have control over is whether or not I want to continue to see him. I’m starting to feel like he has way too much baggage for me to want to deal with right now. I don’t want a guy who is p#ssy whipped by his ex wife who treated him like crap.

What do you think? Am I not being understanding enough?? I have NEVER complained to him about this – I have always stayed out of their business because I feel it’s not my right. But I’m annoyed.

To knowguy: I’m using "crude" terminology just to get to my point faster. I feel that I have been very understanding with him. Now I’m feeling fed up. I wouldn’t ever tell him "hey you p#ssy whipped jerk, grow a pair!"….I’m putting it bluntly for you all.

Tags: affection, balls, best woman, confidence, divorce, father figure, Insult, insult to injury, marriage, nice guy, old man, relationship, Step Children, texts, truth, verbal abuse

I have told my boyfriend everything about me. There is not a question about me he cannot answer. But, he never tells me anything about himself. He is 12 years older than me and is divorced from a 13 year marriage. He often makes comments about his ex-wife, and makes insults towards her husband of 3 years. I truly believe he in love with her, but he denies having feelings for her at all. He refuses to tell me anything about himself at all. I finally brought up to him that I think he is blocking people to ensure he does not get hurt. I told him he can have the same confidence in me as I have in him. He said he will never tell me anything. I just feel like all of these hidden feelings he has is really hurting our relationship. He continually analyzes me, yet he refuses to let me in at all. He can never be honest or serious and I really feel like he doesn’t really want our relationship to go any further due to him being hurt in the past. I don’t need to have intimate details of his past, but I need to know that he trusts me the way I trust him. I feel like he doesn’t even have real feelings for me because he doesn’t want to be hurt again. What can I do to get this to work out? Or is there anythign at all?

Tags: 3 years, anythign, confidence, hidden feelings, insults, intimate details, love, Love Relationship, marriage, real feelings, relationship, relationship work