My husband and I are trying to stay together, there’s been no cheating and there’s still love, and we have a 9 month old baby. We’ve just been arguing so much and I don’t know how we’ll get along in the future. We’ve been to counseling and are going to go back. I read all the horror stories of failed marriages on here, but I’m wondering if anyone has a story of a saved marriage; I need some inspiration!
it’s naive to think trying counseling with a different counselor is a waste of money when there is a baby involved. and we’re aware a marriage takes work, kinda obvious from my question we’re working at it.

Tags: Cheating, counseling, Counselor, divorce, horror stories, inspiration, love, Marital Problems, marriage, month old baby, waste of money

My wife and I have be married for about a year and a half. We’ve had alot of problems during that time. We broken up with each other too many times. It has taken me losing her to relize that she was the best thing that ever happened to me. I’ve tried everything I know to try and win her back. But she dosn’et belive anyhign I tell her. I didn’t treat her like I should have, she tried so hard to make it work for us. I didn’t hit her but I know I made her hurt with the stuff I would say to her. But now I really want to make this work. But she has already started the papperwork for divorceing me. I haven’t been served yet, but I know its coming soon. I really don’t want this divorce. I want to contest it, but I don’t know if that would do any good. What are my options if I do, if I contest ,can I ask the judge to order some kind of counselor to help us with our problems. Or is there anything else I can do to try and save our marriage. Thanks for any advice

Tags: belive, California Marriage, Counselor, divorce, Divorce California, Divorce In California, marriage

We ll want I read in the newspaper about Chris Brown saying I will kill you punching her in her face biting her ears and so it look like the beating a about 1 hour and Rhianna may not want to testify against him he love him so much it look like she want to give him another chance and he saying he seeing a counselor do what your think?

Tags: chris brown, Counselor, ears, love, Rhianna

My husband is going through a really rough time and I am at a lost on how to be supportive. Long story short, he is struggling with the problems of the real world as once upon a time (before me) he lived life in the fast lane and money was easy to obtain. His transition into reality is not going well as he does not fully understand why he cannot get what he wants when he wants it. I’m not sure if it’s so much that he does not understand as oppose to not having the patience. As a result our marriage is suffering. There have been numerous counts of infidelity on his part which obviously puts a strain on the marriage in addition to the other stresses of life. According to him, he is not happy with not being the provider in the home and just not happy with himself as a person so he looks for instant gratification elsewhere. He has recently made an appointment to see a counselor which totally goes against what he believes so maybe he truly is trying to get past this tough time. As for me, money was never and still is not an issue as I was raised to take care of myself and my responsibilities. I am married because I want to be and fell in love, not because I need another income to support me. I do not hound him about not making as much money or not being able to contribute more because I knew what I was getting into when I married him. I knew there would be obstacles and I was fine with that as he is very ambitious and has lots of potential. I don’t know what else to do. When we go out I try to give him my card to swipe or hand the money to him so that it is as if he paid but he does not want to. It insults him if I offer to help him. I am supportive of his business that he is trying to get off of the ground by helping out where he needs it in addition to my full time job and the 4 kids at home. He’s never home so I do it all. Any advice would be appreciated. And no I am not one of those women that think they can fix a man. I did not look at him as needing to be fixed.
It is my problem as well as his, that is why I am asking what more can I do to support him or how can I support him differently. If I looked at it like it were his problem and not mine, we would not have gotten married in the first place.

Tags: appointment, Counselor, Fast Lane, full time job, infidelity, instant gratification, insults, life in the fast lane, love, marriage, money, much money, obstacles, one of those women, patience, real world, rough time, stresses, Suffering, swipe, transition

I’m trying and trying to get over how my ex treated so bad at the end. It’s just killing me and feels like my heart is repeatedly stubbed. I have no clue what I have done to deserve all this. I had never betrayed him or been mean. I loved him so much. I tried to go out with friends, started new things and meeting a counselor…. positive stuff I could think of. But open up the wound from the recent past at counseling later brought me flashbacks and I’m spending so much time crying on bed. I just want to live my life again, but all the fear, anxiety, and loneliness are just squeezing my chest. Do you think someday this will end and I can trust guys again?

Tags: Clue, counseling, Counselor, fear anxiety, flashbacks, heart, loneliness