I know this is a dating question, but I’m asking in this category because the answer are more mature.

Saturday I buried my cousin who died on my front door step New Years Morning and I hadn’t talked to her much since the day he died (she was at my house when he died).

Yesterday, I text her to tell her I missed her and she kept quoting a line that I posted in a comment on Facebook this week. It started, "I’m single by choice…" Whatever it was, I was in a long dialogue with friends & various relatives. My girlfriend isn’t on my Facebook friends list, but I have it where friends of friends can read my posts. She said that her mom was reading my posts and brought it to her attention.

She kept asking me "are you single by choice." I explained that the conversation wasn’t that serious and I was referring to not being married right now. I also explained that who I’m dating is none of my family’s business on Facebook. My immediate family knows who I’m dating…and if they didn’t before they know now because my cousin died on my front porch the morning she was at my house.

Even after the explanation she wouldn’t let it go. Then she text me later that night and said she wanted to end it, because the relationship isn’t working for her. My response was, "Ok"…then I went to sleep.

She text me later last night and early this morning telling me that she missed me and didn’t want to break up & that she was expecting me to fight for her. My response was, "You didn’t ask my opinion, you told me that you wanted to end the relationship. My response was ‘ok’. If a woman says she doesn’t want to be with me, I usually believe her."

Now she wants to get back together. I’m not sure it’s worth it. I’m 36, and she’s 29, if that has anything to do with it.

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Ok well, He goes to a different school but he plays baseball and football with my cousin. Thats when I see him. We went out for 3 months then went out on our first date. Then his friend that HATES me started making up rumors and I dumped him because people lied and told me it was my ex who spread the rumors, not his friend. Now I see him when I go to my cousins games and all i want to tell him is I want him back. But idk how. Should I text him or call him? Or tell him in person? What do I say? He likes another girl. I think he’s trying to make me jealous. But I told him we need to take a break when i dumped him. Soooo to me the breaks over. I want him back. I’m REALLY shy around him. Idk y though. Im only 13 and hes 14. So how do I ask him out again without sounding desperate? Thank you and PLEASE answer soon. XOXO Kat

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ok i just need some advise i just recently lost my ex fiancai to my cousin wich when he comes back from virginia beach his ass is getting stomped into the concrete becuase i know he’s just useing her for a fact. but i need soem advise on how to switch her attention towards me without me seeming to pushy. anyone have any tips?

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me and my ex broke up because he wanted to go out with my cousin.. what do i do to get him back. i love him so much.

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So i got reconnected with my ex a couple days ago and we have been talking since then. I need lyrics to tell him how i feel. I still do love him and he still loves me. But there is one little twist…he has a wife and kids. And his wife is my cousin. I just need something to tell him that i missed him and now that he’s back my feelings for him are back as well. Please help. The more songs, the better. Thank you!

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