Ok well, He goes to a different school but he plays baseball and football with my cousin. Thats when I see him. We went out for 3 months then went out on our first date. Then his friend that HATES me started making up rumors and I dumped him because people lied and told me it was my ex who spread the rumors, not his friend. Now I see him when I go to my cousins games and all i want to tell him is I want him back. But idk how. Should I text him or call him? Or tell him in person? What do I say? He likes another girl. I think he’s trying to make me jealous. But I told him we need to take a break when i dumped him. Soooo to me the breaks over. I want him back. I’m REALLY shy around him. Idk y though. Im only 13 and hes 14. So how do I ask him out again without sounding desperate? Thank you and PLEASE answer soon. XOXO Kat

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I dated my ex for about a year and a half. We were each others everything. Wee never fought or had any arguments or anything like that. Everything seemed perfect. Then out of nowhere, she broke up with me. Told me she wasn’t happy, but we agreed to stay friends. We kept talking, and then suddenly I stopped hearing from her. I finally got a hold of her, and she told me she found someone else and she went off on me because I wanted us to still stay friends. We got into a fight, and she told me to never talk to her again. I don’t have any chances to see her or talk to her. I stay in touch with her cousins a bit (they want me to come back..) but that’s about it. Anyone have any advice on getting this girl back in my life?

Tags: Advice, cousins, ex girlfriend, Stay Friends

my aunt, shes a 42 year old divorced women that lost 127 pounds. she eats diet pills like candy. and her ex husband gave her no sex, she has people over at her house at different times of day she finds them online and since she has told me that these men mean nothing to her and not to be attached (as well as her children) she wants nothing to do with my mom (her friend for over 30 years!!!) she isn’t even my real aunt shes just been my moms best friends since middle school. she wants nothing to do with me, she said she HATED ME! for no reason and said she didn’t want me around anymore because i was a bad influence on her kids, she told my uncle not to let me see my baby cousin (i spend every day of my childhood with my cousins, i walked over to there house every day after school and that was the way it was for 9 years!) only to get back at my mom! my mother only told her that she needed to spend more time with her kids. she wants nothing to do with her kids that are 10 and one is almost 13, when my cousin "beau" went to his moms house last she replaced his bedroom with her "craft room" he sent me pics on his phone. got rid of his bed and throw out all of his stuff! he cried and he NEVER cries! so my aunt took him to his dads house and they see their mom like ever 4 to 5 weeks, i haven’t seen my baby cousins in 8 months and i feel like im going to die! but god damn it i love my aunt sooo much! im tide between my hate and love for her.
but the thing is i am home schooled and don’t know other kids. i loved going to pick them up so i could play with the other kids before their parents picked them up, i have known my baby cousins for my HOLE LIFE and its like as if they died, i can’t see them!!! i am acting as if they are off the planet and im morning their deaths! its terrible, how can i see my baby cousins again! my mom won’t tell me talk to my aunt there for i can’t convince her to let me see them!!!!!
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Hello everyone….

I’m posting this question because I’ve reached
a real low point in my life.

I’ll be 42 in July and…. I am desperate to get
married & have children.

Some background…..

Had a serious relationship from age 23 to 26.
Mutual (and friendly) break-up….. We both just
grew apart.

Dated another guy from 27 to 28. Liked him,
thought he was a nice guy, but was never actually
in love with him. We parted ways, again on friendly
terms.

Dated yet another guy from 29 to 30. He, too, was
nice, but he had been married before, and he told me
he didn’t want to have any more children.

So I broke up with him, too.

And now….

From age 31 to this day (10 years later), I have
NOT been in a romantic relationship….

(My, but the time has gone fast!!)

I’ve tried just about everything….

— asking friends if they know anyone for me

— going hiking with the Sierra Club singles group

— taking golf lessons, sailing lessons, tennis lessons
(mostly other WOMEN there, looking for a man, too!!)

— trying online dating sites (match.com, eharmony, etc.)
(Have had about 18 or 20 blind dates through these, but
not met anyone.)

— trying church groups for singles, and even "all-church"
events just to meet people, in general.

— volunteering with a number of charities, in town.

— getting to know people at work, etc.

NONE of it has "worked" (resulted in being asked
out on a date.)

(Although, I have made an awful lot of nice friends,
in the process.)

About me…. I am 5 foot 7 inches tall, slender, no
stunning beauty, but not bad looking, either…. kind,
funny, nice (enough) personality, etc.

I just don’t know where to turn, now…. All my friends
(and cousins) my age are all married with multiple kids
by now….

Does anybody have any ideas for me??

Thanks so much, in advance, for your help.

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