I have a 4 month old baby and ever since I got pregnant with him my marriage has just gotten worse. My husband insists I stay at home with the baby but also insists on living beyond our means by building a stupid garage that we can’t afford. We can’t hardly buy food or diapers and pay our bills but he insists on buying building supplies on MY credit card (which was only for emergencies). I have told him we can’t afford it, but he just thinks I’m being negative and unreasonable. That is one example. Tonight I was putting our son to bed and he was almost asleep and my husband comes barging in the room to tell me something in a loud voice and woke up the baby. When I Ssh’d him, he made me feel like crap and I ended up apologizing. Those are just two examples, there are a lot worse. We are constantly at each others throat. I don’t want to leave him, but sometimes I feel it’s my only choice.

Please help me. I am so hurt, and angry and sad. I’m typing this because it’s after midnight and my husband said mean things to me (while trying to put the baby to sleep for the 2nd time tonight) and went to bed. I don’t want to sleep next to such a jerk right now.

Tags: Baby Born, Baby Love, Baby Sleep, Baby To Sleep, crap, credit card, diapers, emergencies, loud voice, marriage, month old baby, Pregnant, Sad, sleep, Ssh, Typing

My wife always says "I’m in and out, no big deal." But I like to enjoy a good crap. I grab a magazine and sit there for awhile relaxing. Why don’t women enjoy this too?

I heard once that men enjoy it more because as the deuce is coming out it massages the prostate and relaxes you.

Any ideas on that?

Tags: crap, deuce, M 105, massages, Taking A Dump

I went out with my sister-in-law this weekend. She is a smart, talented, hardworking, BEAUTIFUL woman. Her ex husband sucked the life out of her and never appreciated her.

Now she’s dating, and the guys that she goes out with use her up and then want nothing to do with her.

I see this all the time; a phenomenal woman will get with a guy and within a few weeks he is treating her like crap. Once he’s sucked all of the life out of her, he moves on. It seems like once a man has a woman hooked, he starts doing shady crap and when she calls him on it, he treats her like she’s "crazy" and "insecure" and "needy".

It’s to the point that I hate men! A man will try to flirt with me and I’m absolutely DISGUSTED! The thoughts that come into my mind are, "Yeah…you want ME to give YOU my happiness and worth. You want in my pants; you want me to clean your house and cook your dinner, while you go out with your boys. If I complain, then I’m a B****. If I ask for help, I’m a nag. You want me to take care of you in bed and out and I get nothing in return. Yeah, keep flirting, Loser".

I pretty much think how DARE he flirt with me!?! On the other hand, I see women. I see how they’ve been hurt. "Sl*ts" aren’t bad women; they are women that have been hurt by men so many times that they don’t care any more. They get their physical needs met and move on, because you can’t expect anything from a selfish child.

I actually told this to my husband the other day. I told him that I like him and I love him, but I just HATE men. This is genuinely how I feel. Men find a beautiful, vibrant woman, use her up and dump her out with the trash.

I don’t even understand why ANYONE would want to pursue a relationship with a man. I think if my husband turns out to be a run of the mill life-sucker like the majority of other men out there, then I’m turning lesbian.

Behind every B***h is a man that made her that way!
Ok, to be less general: why are GOOD men such a rare find?! There are some out there; I’m actually married to one of them. I kissed a lot lot lot of frogs before I found him though, and I see my girlfriends (married and single) just get used and used and used.

And to the men with the rude responses about my question: You are exactly the losers that I’m talking about! I bet you left some beautiful vibrant woman miserable in your wake. Good job! See if you can ruin a few more lives before God finally rids this planet of you.

Tags: bad women, beautiful woman, crap, Dating, happiness, loser, Many Men, Men Suck, Men Women, phenomenal woman, quot, relationship, selfish child, Sister In Law, sucker, trash, vibrant woman, Women Men

I am european my lovely boyfriend is indian Sikh…we are together 9 month…i feel our realtionship is getting colder and colder…i love him…i am trying to do my best…i know he loves me…he is my first man…the same as i am his first woman…i want our relationship continue…how can i attract him…how can i make him look at me different.
We have been through so much of crap i am changed but still he doesn’t trust me. Its very hard. I don’t know where to start.Our biggest problem is that we don’t understand each other.I think the problem is our culture differences. If anybody could give me advise or at least cheer me up…i just need support.
Thanx in advance!

Tags: Cheer, crap, culture differences, first man, first woman, love, realtionship, relationship

And don’t hand me that protecting marriage crap either. If you want to save marriage, ban divorce!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A9FJui4.UhtF8ngBzQHsy6IX?qid=20060927211016AAt7Equ

During my last post Christians complained I was judging them by the actions of a few. Or they claimed that ‘those people’ are not true Christians–funny that’s not how ‘those people’ tell it. Yet, Christians pass judgment on gays, Muslims and Jews, etc ad nausem all the time.

The only difference is when someone gay does something stupid…they are ridiculed by they gay community. Religious people greet stupidity with silent approval and allow it to continue in their name.

So if I’m not supposed to judge you on the actions of a few and we really do have freedom of religion, what makes it okay for you to do it to me or an entire community? Why do you feel so righteous when you vote away potential privileges for others?
papaof whatever….I don’t live that far away from dry ridge…don’t make me come up their and smite your pc TRY ANSWERING WITH SOMETHING OTHER THAN CUT & PASTE FOR A CHANGE.

Tags: amp, crap, divorce, entire community, freedom, freedom of religion, gay community, gay marriage, Gay People, Gay Person, Gays, jews, Judgment, marriage, marriage ban, Marriage Divorce, muslims, privileges, question index, stupidity, true christians, Vote, yahoo, ylt