So me and my ex liked each other for about 4 months. After an argument over why we hardly ever got to see eachother she cut off alot of contact and said she wanted to be friends for now we didnt hate eachother it was just a sort of its the best thing for now move. So we kept talking daily as friends but not near as much. After about 2 weeks she ends up dating her 6 year best friend. I asked her what happend and she said she didnt know. she said it wasnt about me or how i looked or treated her or my personality that it just happend. I was upset but i told her i have no hard feeling that shes with him and that i wish them the best of luck.

Whats weird though is daily if she sees me on facebook she’ll ask me how ive been and whats new and just casual talk as friends. its been 6 days since theyve been together and she still talks to me. But whats weird though is that she didnt change her text signature to his name like she did mine first day we got together. And she doesnt post smiley faces on his facebook like she did mine. Could this just be a rebound relationship for her? Im pretty sure she still does have SOME feelings for me. But the signs ive seen is that she doesnt like him as much as she did me when we got together. And im pretty sure that i wasnt her rebound relationship when we got together. the last guy she talked to was 3 months before me and tried to use her for sex so she kicked him to the door.

Does it sound like shes in a rebound relationship? Im ready to move on but im going to still try to limit contact with her. She ALWAYS initiiates it. My current plan is to start talking to other girls and continue to try to give my ex time while i search for someone. If she comes back before i find anyone ill take her because i still like her. But if i find someone im completely moving on. What does it sound like shes up too? And whats the best thing to do to get her back? Talk to her? Be a close friend? Use no contact? What should i do?

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Ever since I went out with my first girlfriend ever (which turned out so horrible, she broke up with me and just turned out to be a total asshole, totally crushed me), I haven’t been able to love… like my current girlfriend loves me so much, but like logically I love her, but emotionally I just don’t feel it, and haven’t with any girl… I don’t know what it is. I think the emotional side of me was damaged when my first girlfriend destroyed it. Help?

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My ex n I broke up bc I thought he was cheating on me n then on valentines day he doesn’t even care to wish me, so I figured that he has someone else in mind, n it’s over, n plus his parents bitched at my parents like crap, n thts y my mom wanted us to break up no matter wht. I cant tolerate my parents insult, so i broke up with him, n he doesnt even care to respond n i also was quite sure he was cheating on me. Heres me carrying a broken heart, ready to give up on life etc…. all tht melodrama girls go though with a broke heart, adn then this guy walks in to my life and make my life wonderful n a desire to live again develops, n he falls in love with me asks me out n we r dating. But jst then after a month I find out tht my ex never cheated on me, he loved me like hell he had to go somewhere for his wokr n thts y he cudnt wish me valentines etc, but abt his parents bitching tht was true n well he didnt even knw tht his parents were rude to my parents. I felt so bad when i told my bf all this he was upset yet he told me that I can go back to my ex if i want to. Here is the real question what would u do if u were me? This happend 3 years ago, n i made my choice n i want to kn wur opion as what u might have done!

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well i dont like my current bf nd we dont c each other during the summer time…unlike my ex he’s best buds wit my brother.so he stay’s the night sometimes.but i rlly like him nd i cant break up wit my current bf till school starts(august 31st).should i wait nd break up with him at school or hav a friend do it that see’s him and call my ex and ask him back out?

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Hi,
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up because of his wanting to go with his ex-girlfriend to the movies without telling me. Now that we are broken up, he has been texting me, his now ex-girlfriend, for advice on his current girlfriend. I feel like he just wants to flirt with me behind her back, and I don’t respect him for it. I want to give him good advice, but I don’t want to lead him on. What do I say?

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