i belong to orthodox Christian family.. i was 15 yr old when i met this guy.. he was a SMS frnd.. we met just once and exchanged our love for each other.. a month later, i learnt tat he was cheating on me.. i stopped calling him and i was surprised he never called me back.. fr another month..! i was going crazy..! i sent an angry e mail to the girl with whom he had a secret relationship.. that made him really wild and he yelled at me horribly and we never spoke fr 2 years.

he came in again.. this tym thro a social networking site..! i was so stupid i fell fr him again.. now, i would lik to tell yu sumtin abt him before yu can judge anything,
he lied to me that he was actually in frndshp wid tat girl and i insulted him by yelling at her.. so tat is y he had let me go fr 2 yrs..!
from then, we whr in stable relationship for 3.5 yrs.! all these yrs, he told me his father demanded him to stop dating a christian girl(he is a telugu brahmin.. who smokes, drinks, eats non veg.. yet his father calls him self a typical orthodox brahmin.!! how awesome.!!) or else he would stop him from going to college.. and he chose to stop college than to stop loving me.. how swt!( that was a big fat lie ppl..! only now i found out he hasnt even cleared his +2 exams..!

i feel so bad coz he used to blame me and literally cry at times whn i fight wid him saying he gave up his education fr mysake and i wouldnt understand his love…

i had fought wid him a 1000 tyms.. all because of his lies… stupid lies.. he says he lies to make me feel better… that doesnt make me feel better., whn i find out it was a lie, it makes me feel awkward..!

he was so possessive and i had to end up having no frnds as he always kept complaining abt them.. i love to hang out.. he hates going out..! i gave up that too..! i love to go on a lng ride by bus.. he hates bus..! he hates going to de beach.. i loved beach.. abv all, i stopped reading bible because it kept waring me not to get yolked with a unbeliever.. i stopped praying coz i wanted to hide frm god.. i stopped taking communion because i was with him as how man and wife would be.. i spent all my pocket money on this lavish jerk..!

i believed him so much.. he used to do anything fr me… he even cut his veins and took mouthful of dirty mud to make me talk to him(whn i was mad at him)

recently, he says he has lost his love fr me.. and tat he feels i am nothing more than headache to him.. he yells at me almost all the tym.. its lik im talkin to a possessed man.. this is how his SMS are exactly lik.."honey, i love you tons"… and the nxt SMS if it takes a few mins to reply, "but yu know wot? yu are a bitch.. i dont trust yu anymore.. who are yu sleeping with now??"

one day, i was tired of a week long fight which got me really really depressed.. to get myslf distracted, i went to visit a old high skl frnd of mine whom i had met fr the last time during our farewell.. he walked in straigt gave him one big blow on his face and dragged me by throat..! i was so humiliated..

he lies, he hurts… he cheats.. and calls me unfaithful..! i cant stand him..! at the same time, i cant get this one out of my mind.. he is such a disease..!!

guys., pl give me sum nice adivce to throw this junk out of my lyf..! i dont wanna get married to a looser..!

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okay so me and my bf well now ex boyfriend were dating for 5 months and I broke up with him because we fought wayy to much like everday for like two months of the realtionship and last month I just broke off completely cause we got in this stupid fight and then later that nite I told him that I wanted to go back out with him and try to fix things ,but he told me that he wanted a break and of course I didnt want that cause I love him and wanted to be with him but soon after that like two weeks later we went to a party and he was there and he seen me dancing with my friend and my ex thought he gave him a look and the. he wanted to fight him and plus he was a little drunk so later that nite he texted me appoligizing and he was telling me be was jealous and that we was sorry and that he wanted to go back out .the. on new years I told him we could go back out and the. told me to wait until drama clears up???I’m like whatttt you said you wanted to go back out and he was like fine and that lasted a day and he said it was to hard and that he wanted to just be friends .now we just talk as friends and I really want him back and but he thinks it’s to hard and too much responsibility ….ughhhh any ideas?!

Tags: 5 months, bf, Dating, Ex Boyfriend, Friends, love, stupid fight

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months. We’ve had problems with his ex girlfriend(which was his first love) for awhile. Anyway, last week he broke up with me because I supposedly "changed". Which now I know was not why. He and his ex had been talking. And now they are dating. All I want is for him to be happy. But I also want to be with him. How do I win him back? I love him with all my heart.

Tags: Dating, Ex Boyfriend, ex girlfriend, first love, heart

I know this is a dating question, but I’m asking in this category because the answer are more mature.

Saturday I buried my cousin who died on my front door step New Years Morning and I hadn’t talked to her much since the day he died (she was at my house when he died).

Yesterday, I text her to tell her I missed her and she kept quoting a line that I posted in a comment on Facebook this week. It started, "I’m single by choice…" Whatever it was, I was in a long dialogue with friends & various relatives. My girlfriend isn’t on my Facebook friends list, but I have it where friends of friends can read my posts. She said that her mom was reading my posts and brought it to her attention.

She kept asking me "are you single by choice." I explained that the conversation wasn’t that serious and I was referring to not being married right now. I also explained that who I’m dating is none of my family’s business on Facebook. My immediate family knows who I’m dating…and if they didn’t before they know now because my cousin died on my front porch the morning she was at my house.

Even after the explanation she wouldn’t let it go. Then she text me later that night and said she wanted to end it, because the relationship isn’t working for her. My response was, "Ok"…then I went to sleep.

She text me later last night and early this morning telling me that she missed me and didn’t want to break up & that she was expecting me to fight for her. My response was, "You didn’t ask my opinion, you told me that you wanted to end the relationship. My response was ‘ok’. If a woman says she doesn’t want to be with me, I usually believe her."

Now she wants to get back together. I’m not sure it’s worth it. I’m 36, and she’s 29, if that has anything to do with it.

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HI, so my ex an I broke up about 6 months ago and he started dating a new girl like a week after but still would talk to me all the time. We got in a few arguments and didn’t talk for about 3 months. We just kind of started talking again and I still have feelings for him and really want him back. He has still been dating that girl for almost 6 months but I need suggestions. Please don’t comment and say that I’m wrong for trying. ThNks.

Tags: Dating, ex girlfriend, feelings, new girl