What can I do to turn on Scorpio man beyond his dreams & wildest imagination… I want to seduce him beyond description in and out of the bedroom. *But mostly in the bedroom*. I want to be the object of his desire morning, noon, and night… Hell even in his dreams! I have accomplished this but I want to work him over 1000 times more.

Any advice from Scorpio Men woud be greatly appreciated.

Tags: amp, desire, dreams, Fall In Love, imagination, Morning Noon, morning noon and night, night hell, object of his desire, scorpio, Scorpio Man, Scorpio Men

I was in a relationship for 3 years and 90% of the time was not a pleasant experience. He was abusive (physically and emotionally) and hurt me emotionally in almost all the ways possible. I finally woke up 6 months ago and I decided enough was enough and I ended the relationship. He has not come to terms with our breakup and he calls me constantly for whatever excuse to talk to me. He will show up at my door, he was leaving lots of notes and roses and now occasionally will leave a note. He is extremely jealous/possessive and I can’t even be interested or date anyone because of this. I still love him and care about him, but I will never be in a relationship with him ever again. He said that he ruined the relationship with his behavior but I stopped his trying to re-establish a relationship. Basically I gave up in his eyes. I didn’t try my best according to him. I was always there for him, day and night. He owes me a large sum of money and I sacrificed many things (including one year of school) so I could make him happy. I worked two jobs to support him and his family in their times of need. I am now focusing on myself, school and family and friends. I’m only 21 and this is the only serious relationship I’ve been in and it was quite traumatic. Now for some reason he has switched it to where I am the selfish one who doesn’t have the time or desire to see him, when all through the relationship I had to practically beg him for his attention and time and love, which I didn’t receive. He tells me that he loves me and tells me all the things I wanted to hear 3 years ago. He hasn’t gotten mad in the past 6 months and has been respectful (except for trying to make passes/moves on me) and pleasant…but I still don’t trust him and apparently that’s MY issue. I don’t know what to do. I know that I won’t ever date him again and I’ve told him that. He is very needy and I think he doesn’t want to let me go because I am the only person that has ever helped him with anything he has needed. I think he relies on me too much and now that I am not with him, he doesn’t know how to handle it on his own. I wish we could just be friends, but with my resentment and his unwillingness to move on I don’t think that’s possible. I would hate to get a restraining order b/c he is my first love and that would be hard. Am I being a cold, hard person because I can’t just forget the past and move on with him. He said if I truly had loved him, I would be able to be with him like he is able to be with me. I need some input from other people because I am so confused if what I feel is okay.

I was so scared to speak my mind in the relationship that I buried my feelings. I find that now when I see him and he is calm, I will let my feelings out and I get so livid. I don’t know why I didn’t get mad until after we broke up. Is it wrong of me to be mad at him? I need help to move on and be happy. I want him to be happy too, and it kills me because I can’t give him what he wants, but I figure he asked for it with his inappropriate behavior.

Sorry so long…thanks for taking the time to read my story and offer advice. God bless! <3

Tags: 3 years, desire, excuse, family and friends, jobs, many things, relationship, roses, selfish one, serious relationship, sum of money, T Amp

Is getting back together after a break up something that the both of you want to do or is it one sided? This is the place that you need to start. If it is something that the both of you are committed to doing then you very well could see this working out. It will take a commitment from the both of you and a desire to give in and work together to overcome the things that caused the break up or divorce. If, though, it is one sided and you are the only one who is truly interested in getting back together after a break up, then you may be fighting an uphill battle.

What is going to make to getting back together after a break up work or not is total commitment from both of you. Each of you have to be able to concede that you were and are wrong about things. You have to be able to admit that without trying to justify everything. When you try to justify mistakes you made you are essentially making up excuses. Just be able to admit it and move on to correct it. It will likely take both of you working together to overcome your mistakes. It is a partnership that both of you are going to have to be invested in 100% but the commitment level from both of you needs to be totally equal.

It is very easy to think that it is the other person that has to do the work. It is too easy to let one person do the work. If it is just one person who is doing the bulk of the work in this reconciliation effort, it most likely is going to fail. It took two to make the relationship or marriage take place originally. Repairing the relationship is going to take both of you together. You have to struggle together for there to be a life together at all. This is something that you should have known when you first got together and it is something that you have to know for it to work from here on out.

If you are the only one of the two of you who thinks that getting back together after a break up is a good thing, then it is only you who is going to be putting forth the effort. It is sad to say but if it isn’t both of you wanting it and working towards it, it may be a fruitless endeavor. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try, it just means that you will have a monumentally tough time making this work. It is hard enough getting back together after a break up when two of you are working for it. Getting back together after a break up on your own may just take a lot more patience and perseverance.

Again, it will be difficult no matter what. What is going to help with the success of it is making sure that you have a good support system. If you have friends and family who are not only encouraging you but helping you, your chances of success grow as you continue getting back together after a break up.

Tags: Break Up, desire, divorce, Uphill Battle

The smell of her perfume? The special little touch on your neck or elsewhere? The way she smiles? The way she knows what you’re thinking? Certain music? A special place that you used to go together? I’m kind of wondering how powerful recreated situations involving your senses are. Do those senses make the desire greater? Which one really does it for you?

Tags: desire, Little Touch, music, perfume, senses

Just how are you able to tell that you’re in the right relationship? Are you starting to have doubts about restarting the relationship with this person? Often times when you end a relationship the only thing that you desire is to restart it, but it always happens that once you get back together you start to wonder if you’re in the right relationship.

Unfortunately there is no surefire way to know if your partner is the right one for you for the rest of your life. It’s only possible to determine if you and your partner are compatible right now. We can’t predict the future, so for the time being you can take a look at your decision and figure out whether it was right for you.

There are several questions that you should ask yourself to determine if you’re in the right relationship for the time being. The most important question is, am I happy? This doesn’t mean you need to be in an eternal state of bliss, but your overall mood should be a happy and positive one.

Here you may be experiencing some doubt because of unhappiness then you need to think more about it. If your feelings are good towards your partner however you may just be in the right spot for you.  It’s important not to let and rogue feelings of doubt ruin a perfectly fine relationship.

If you find that you’re are feeling unhappy in your everyday relationship, why do you think this is? Often times this stems from the want to be with another person instead and that you’re missing out on all it has to offer.

It’s completely natural to have these kinds of thoughts on occasion. If you start to become obsessed with these “what if” scenarios, or cannot stop thinking about how much better things would be if you were with this other person, then maybe you’re not in the right relationship after all.

One question you need to answer is, do I feel safe in my relationship? This not only applies to feeling emotionally safe and secure, but as well as feeling free of any possibility of physical abuse. It’s absolutely essential that you feel completely safe and secure, there should never be a possibility that they will hurt you.

If you feel your partner is being unfaithful you’re no doubt spending a lot of your time being suspicious and preoccupied with this idea. This is no way to live life, you need to determine whether there is any truth to this as soon as possible.

When getting to the bottom of this you need to rule out any insecurities you may have and determine if this person would actually ever cheat on you.  If there is not trust, then you’re probably not in the right relationship. All this causes is misery and constant discord in any relationship, which can cause a messy break-up.

Does your partner make you feel like you’re the only one in the world? If not then you may want to consider leaving the relationship.  This is the key to any good relationship, if you don’t feel like you’re the most important person in the world to your partner, then you’re not in the right relationship.

Tags: desire, Doubt, Doubts, Eternal State, feelings, Occasion, Partner, relationship, Rest Of Your Life, Ruin, Scenarios, State Of Bliss, Stems, Unhappiness