I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. When we are together the chemistry is perfect and every outside influence concerning her family and friends are completely supporting our relationship and view me as "the one." The only problem is her ex-boyfriend. They dated for about 3 years off and on while he lived for away partying all the time and taking her on an emotional roller coaster. He’d tell her he’s not ready to commit because he’s scared and therefore their "thing" was solely physical every time he came to town. A couple months ago, he came back to town lived with her for a couple weeks (he had nowhere else to go) and started treating her like they were a real couple. Well when he left back to party city, he cheated on her. That was when she had enough, she was heartbroken and decided to move on. Thats when I came in the picture about a month later. Everything since then has been perfect. I have never been happier in my life since we started dating. The only problem is her ex-boyfriend is now freaking out after he heard that she has moved on with me and is telling her he is in love with her, wants her back, wants to have kids with her, and all the things she wanted to hear in the last 3 years she’s known him. Nobody, not her friends, or her family like this guy, nor has he ever made an attempt to even meet her family. I know he has the upper hand over me because of all the things they’ve been through, but where do i go from here? She is now confused about what she is supposed to do. I had a conversation with her about life and these situations and honestly, i’ve played all three roles before in the past at different times, and I know the psychology behind it and how these things work. I also told her exactly how I feel about her, how I want not only her in my life but her family and friends as well, and how genuine and pure my feelings are for her. Time has no effect on intuition or the feeling you have inside when you just know who you are meant to be with. It certainly doesn’t take 3 years of a physical off and on relationship to figure it out either. This guy is telling her that sometimes you have to lose something to figure out what you lost and everything else in the book.

So where do I go from here? She wants to stay together because she knows what we could have, but her past with him and her feelings are too much for her to handle, and she feels like she needs a break to figure out what is right for her. But this would entail her talking to him and maybe seeing him in person. Do I step aside and let her make a mistake? or what do i do?

Tags: 3 years, chemistry, couple weeks, different times, emotional roller coaster, family and friends, feelings, gf, intuition, love, party city, partying, psychology, relationship

my aunt, shes a 42 year old divorced women that lost 127 pounds. she eats diet pills like candy. and her ex husband gave her no sex, she has people over at her house at different times of day she finds them online and since she has told me that these men mean nothing to her and not to be attached (as well as her children) she wants nothing to do with my mom (her friend for over 30 years!!!) she isn’t even my real aunt shes just been my moms best friends since middle school. she wants nothing to do with me, she said she HATED ME! for no reason and said she didn’t want me around anymore because i was a bad influence on her kids, she told my uncle not to let me see my baby cousin (i spend every day of my childhood with my cousins, i walked over to there house every day after school and that was the way it was for 9 years!) only to get back at my mom! my mother only told her that she needed to spend more time with her kids. she wants nothing to do with her kids that are 10 and one is almost 13, when my cousin "beau" went to his moms house last she replaced his bedroom with her "craft room" he sent me pics on his phone. got rid of his bed and throw out all of his stuff! he cried and he NEVER cries! so my aunt took him to his dads house and they see their mom like ever 4 to 5 weeks, i haven’t seen my baby cousins in 8 months and i feel like im going to die! but god damn it i love my aunt sooo much! im tide between my hate and love for her.
but the thing is i am home schooled and don’t know other kids. i loved going to pick them up so i could play with the other kids before their parents picked them up, i have known my baby cousins for my HOLE LIFE and its like as if they died, i can’t see them!!! i am acting as if they are off the planet and im morning their deaths! its terrible, how can i see my baby cousins again! my mom won’t tell me talk to my aunt there for i can’t convince her to let me see them!!!!!
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Tags: baby cousin, baby cousins, bad influence, best friends, candy, cousins, craft room, Dear God, deaths, diet pills, different times, divorced women, hole life, mom, moms, parents, tide

We have been married a little while now and have a 6 month old son, things have been pretty good all in all but when we fell in love everything was so perfect and now he works really long hours and I take care of the baby all day and when he comes home he never wants sex and he rarely hangs out with me, he works on the car, or spends time on the computer or watches football (or another sport at different times of the year) and lately I have been feeling like I live with a ghost instead of a husband. I have told him I feel lonely and he told me he felt I complain too much. I cook for him, I clean and I take care of the baby. I also try to get him into bed but he pretty much just isn’t into sex anymore but he says it’s just him and nothing to do with anyone else and he says he loves me. I don’t know what to do. I need help to get things back on track as I have no idea what more to do for him.

Tags: different times, ghost, Live 105, love, watches

i have a confession i had a affair on my wife well shes not really my wife but 6yrs and kids shes my wife.i have not been home for 2 month and 7 days and all i think about is going home.i did go home a couple of times and i did stay the night and it felt so good to just be there with her and the kids.i havent been in my house sence her mom got there on feb 14 her mom and we do not see eye to eye.she lived wiht us 2 different times.it was hard on our relationship haveing her there then and to have her there now i fill i dont have a chance to get her back.i try to show her and tell her how sorry i am an i will never do anything to hurt her or betray her love again,she tells me i dont know what i want she tells me i need time and i wonder if its time for her to get over what i did or to get over me and as a man im not scared to say im scared of loseing her.i love this women more than anything in the world and if i could only turn back the hands of time i would have done alot of things different.i hope there someone that can tell me how to get her to forgive me and let us be as one again for the rest of my life at least. thanks

Tags: confession, different times, eye to eye, feb 14, going home, hands of time, love, mom, relationship, rest of my life