my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months for now, he said he wanted to be serious with me because he’s tired of ”date and breakups"-kind of thing. But we are in distance relationship.
So, I just wanted to know what are some signs that a guy is getting serious over a relationship?

THANK YOU

Tags: breakups, Distance Relationship, signs

Both guys are my ex’s, and I’m not over either of them. Guy #1 is not around right now (rehab & school), but he says he still loves me. I have no contact with him at the moment, but his mother tells me everything he says about me. I trust him with everything I have. We broke up about 5 months ago, but only because he couldn’t handle a long distance relationship at the time. He will be back home by the end of this year, and I can’t wait to see him and get to know him again. Guy #2 is living in my town. I talk to him often. He tells me he loves me and that he would love to be with me again. He was also my first, so that is another reason this is tough for me. We broke up almost a year ago, and for the past few months, he’s been trying to get me back. I know I have the option to choose neither of them, but I feel like ill be losing more if I do. I tried listening to my heart, and it told me guy #1, but now I’m not sure. Both guys are incredibly amazing and sweet to me. I just want another person’s opinion about my situation. I know a lot of people go through this problem. Thanks in advance!

Tags: 5 months, amp, Distance Relationship, heart, long distance relationship, love, problem thanks, thanks in advance, two guys

Me and my ex were (are) in a distance relationship. I visted her twice and was planning on visiting her again this June. Whenever I visited her, we always have so wonderful times together, we literally sticked together and we both enjoyed our time walking together everyday, going to the park or downtown, dancing, singing together, etc. I took her shopping and bought her a lot of gifts and roses, wrote her love notes every month, love poems, draw her and us. Even when I was miles apart, I still bought her gifts regularly and she loved it. After a year together, we had been having our up and down moments but we were improving a lot. I used to hurt her a lot and I had a lot of negative things but she told me I was the sweetest person she had ever met and I was always there for her. Just last week she had to stay home because she was sick and I was the only person who was there for her, stayed up for her all night and she said she needed me, she was obsessed with me and she wanted nobody else on earth but me. Just yesterday morning, she called me to say good morning and we were happily talking on the phone. But then in the evening, one of the guy in her class gave her a rose and took her out for shopping and took her to the park and they danced together. She never had feelings or thought about him until then. She didn’t tell me about him and talked to me just as happily as ever until later at night, he called, and that was how I found out. I was so heart broken and I couldn’t do nothing else but to beg her to stay and I know it was the wrong move. According to her, he is 26 (she’s 17),tall, romantic, educated and just whatever a girl would dream of. I love her so much and I can’t, just can’t loose her… I’m blaming myself now that I wasn’t treating her right lately because I was sort of an obsessive lover. She told me she wanted to be free because she was young and she wanted someone beside her. I know she still loves me because she said so, she still talks to me, just not as much, she just wants to be with the other guy and that just breaks my heart even more. Last night, after chatting with him on yahoo messenger for a long time, she let me watch her sleep on the cam all night just how she always did when we were together. Just this morning, she called me to say good morning and we stayed on the phone for half an hour though she did mention him and what she would do with him today with a very happy tone, then she fell asleep so peacefully after I told her she could fall asleep on my shoulder. I miss her so much and the only thing I want to do right now is to hold her tight and kiss her and make her realize she loves me more but I can’t do that. What am I supposed to do? My opponent is so strong, especially when he’s there with her and I’m here…. across the other side of the U.S. I just want to have her back. Before this happened, she was planning on moving to Seattle with me and close our distance relationship. She was so excited about it and now she said she wouldn’t want to go anywhere with me anymore. What can I do now? Please help!!! And please don’t give me a "get over her" answer because I cannot do that…

Tags: Distance Relationship, earth, feelings, Love Notes, love poems, roses, shopping, yesterday morning

So about a year ago I went to Africa to visit my family for the summer. And there I met the most incredible guy, and I reeeally liked him but never thought to seriously of it at first because long distance relationship wasn’t even an option in mind. But after he took me on a string of dates I really started to fall in love. He was so sweet and always looked after me….but eventually the time came for me to head back to the u.s. We kept talkin but it was hard. He asked me to marry him but i told him no because i felt it was too early, and that I was too young to make such a serious commitment (i’m 21 now, 20 at the time). Also i was getting alot of pressure from family and friends to move on because of the distance and the fact that i shudnt just up and marry the first guy i dated. So we kept breaking up and getting back together. I went to visit him again for christmas and things were just as if i had never left…But as soon as I came back home the communication had slowed. I was really upset and decided to just break things off for good (cuz i felt like i was young and wasting my life after one guy)….Fast forward two months, I really started to miss him. He seemed like wat every body had to say didn’t matter anymore cuz all i thought about was him, I didn’t care about the other guys taht liked me. At first he was really hesistant to talk to me ( i thought b/c i had hurt him) but he said it was becuz during our break he had slept with his ex and got her pregnant…
This Devastated ME!!! I cried for nights asking God why. Blaming myself more than anything. He treated me like a queen, with unconditional love that no other man has ever shown me, and was my first love. Now it seems like no other man can compare. I still cry myself to sleep thinking about him sumtimes and wishing somehow things could be the way they were…I’ve never been so close to another human being in my life. And it sucks cuz he’s even met my family which is a big deal. And even tho we kept taking breaks I always thought we wud end up together somehow…
Now I’m heartbroken and wonder if I’ll ever find such Love like that again??? Help

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We have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now.

We were totally in Love, we were gonna live together and get married.

After the 5th month, she cheated on me. She kissed this other girl, then freaked and thought she had just screwed up and lost me forever. And she then slept with the girl that night, since I was mad at her and wasnt talking to her.

I forgave her, knowing how she is, and how she acts or reacts.

But this week, after 8 months, she tells me she has been sleeping with this other girl, not all the time, but when she feels alone. She said she does it just so she can have some one by her side.

She still says she loves me, and wants it all back, us and how things were. The other girl said, she needed to know if I was the one she wanted forever, and they both used each other to find out there relationships.

I Love her so much, and want her back.

What do you think..? am I an idiot..? Will she stop cheating after all this long distance stuff ends..?

Tags: Acts, Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, love, relationships