My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months now. We orginally lived in the same town, but when we met he was getting ready to relocate out of state for work. We really hit it off and decided to do the long distance relationship. We see each other often, for atleast 4-14 days every three weeks. We get along great, we talk every day for hours! Were both very happy. The only concern is that I love him and he isn’t there yet. We are both divorced but his divorce was just last year. His ex-wife was hard on him and didn’t treat him good, she cheated on him also. He has some issues he needs to work out and I knew that from the beginning. He doesn’t know when he’ll be able to fully love me because he is to afraid to love again. He loves being with me and my daughter and he is perfect for us. I am just afraid that I might be hoping one day he will be able to love me, when in actuality he won’t. After being together for six months is this something I should be concerned about?

Tags: actuality, Distance Relationship, divorce, long distance relationship, love, Relocate, six months

We have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now.

We were totally in Love, we were gonna live together and get married.

After the 5th month, she cheated on me. She kissed this other girl, then freaked and thought she had just screwed up and lost me forever. And she then slept with the girl that night, since I was mad at her and wasnt talking to her.

I forgave her, knowing how she is, and how she acts or reacts.

But this week, after 8 months, she tells me she has been sleeping with this other girl, not all the time, but when she feels alone. She said she does it just so she can have some one by her side.

She still says she loves me, and wants it all back, us and how things were. The other girl said, she needed to know if I was the one she wanted forever, and they both used each other to find out there relationships.

I Love her so much, and want her back.

What do you think..? am I an idiot..? Will she stop cheating after all this long distance stuff ends..?

Tags: Acts, Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, love, relationships

My story is long, cut to the chase I have been with a guy for 6 years. 3 years of it was long distance relationship. I loved him and he was my first love as I was his.
about a month and half ago we broke up in agreement. and Here I am. I can not cried,it been 6 month since I last cried ( not really a crying type).I always put everything in me , hold every pressure and problem inside.and I am afraid of shattering , I am afraid of thinking about what has happened. I think It hasn’t sank yet in me ( or may be it has and I am jut holding it down) and I am afraid of ending up in pieces when starting dealing with it. its like carrying a giant hole in me and it hurts. It hurts so bad that I want to puke my guts out. the problem is I am not emotional type. I am so cold and heartless all the time. ( or maybe I just don’t know and don’t like to show emotion)
Please if anyone can come up with something tell me. I really need help. I need to start grieving and move on some how, I think.

Thanks,
G

Tags: 3 years, 6 years, Chase, Distance Relationship, emotion, first love, giant hole, guts, hasn, long distance relationship, love, puke

I was in a long distance relation for quite a while, but yes we did get the chance to be together in person. We were hopelessly in love, but then one day he said he didn’t love me anymore and told me that a long distance relationship was just too hard.

I’m over him now, but I sometimes wonder what would happen if we met again. I plan to do some travelling in a year, and I’m debating whether or not I should pay him a visit. It could end up being the best thing I’ll ever do for myself, or it could end up being a waste of time and money. Do you think it would be worth it to go see an old love just to see if something happens between us again?

I know I could love him again, and I’m pretty sure he could too, even though he may ignore his feelings when the time comes.

Tags: Distance Relationship, falling in love, feelings, long distance relationship, love, M 111, Met, money, Time And Money, Waste Of Time

I’ve been going through the hardest time in my life recently. I just graduated from college, and had planned on moving to Kansas to be with the love of my life. We had been dating for almost five years, since I was 18 years old. Suddenly out of nowhere he decided he wasn’t ready for committment or ready for me to move to Kansas. I have a job now in the state that i am in (we were having a long distance relationship), but it still doesn’t mend the pain. We broke up the end of March, but in January he started having feelings for another girl and didn’t reveal it until March. So he had all of this time to heal, and I am stuck cold turkey. He ignores most of my calls and says nothing but "I’m sorry" when I ask him how he could let our connection go. He held this new girl’s hand four days after we broke up! He didn’t even break up with me in person and when he was here a week ago I was stupid enough to let him kiss me and more, because I still love him. How do I heal? I feel used and hurt.

Tags: 18 years, broken heart, cold turkey, committment, Distance Relationship, feelings, hardest time, job, long distance relationship, love, Love Of My Life, new girl, time in my life