we were having trouble-mostly financial-husband started never being home to spend time with the family-told him we need to get a div if your never wanting to b around–he said no no no he didnt want that=things were better for a few months but i was angry about things still , then about the time when i was beginning to believe he was wanting to stay married- he started having an affair but stil wudnt lev the house kept saying he wanted his marriage, there was confrontation div papers signed and he was gone for a month moved in with the girl he cheated with. then asked to come back home he loves me so much=so he moved back in and told the other girl it was over-now hes acting distant says hes mainly worried about money-but also says he loves me but hes not in love with me like when we first met. he says he wants to stay married but doesnt see how it can work. everyone says kick him to the curb –im not so in love with him that i think i cant ever be with anyone else-but i do want my marriage to work i want our family back, any insight here??

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