At the beginning stages and with kids..had a Virgo. Totally scared to find love again. Have feelings for a Scorpio. It just Christmas and I’m freaking out!

Tags: christmas, divorce, feelings, love, pisces, scorpio, virgo

I’ve been talking to this guy about 2 months. We don’t get to see each other often, but when we get to spend time alone we make out. He gets in touch with me at least 4x a week, sometimes every day. He’s been trying to set up this work opportunity so we can spend more time together…

However, two days ago (sunday) we met up (spur of the moment). We can’t be seen together in public (we are both married, but in our culture, sadly there is no divorce, it’s not even an option because it’s not legal. But we both know eachothers partner and we know we’re both lost and stuck in loveless forced relationships. I hadn’t even been kissed in almost 3 years until I fell for this guy!? Aside from that, we also work in the same industry, sometimes we work together, but never one-on-one, so we can’t be seen together alone outside work)

So if at this point you can still be non-judgemental please read on. We drove around in his car. He kissed me everytime we’re waiting for a green light. We just didn’t know where to go, but he wanted to spend more time with me, so he suggested we check in somewhere so we can "bond". I said no!

So, eventually we found a little hole in the wall type of place where it was dark and there was nobody. We talked for several hours. it was a really great night. He was a real gentleman (opened my door, guided me in with his hand around the waste, he ordered for me, paid the bill). Then he brought me home. But then he didn’t get in touch with me the next day? I just text him late in the evening to say I forgot to thank him for taking me out on the date. He replied, anything for you.. But that night I couldn’t sleep. I felt it was going into a direction I wasn’t comfortable with. I was still offended and embarrased that he might think of me that way. I’m not interested being a FWB.

But the day after that (earlier today) he did text me. He asked how I am and let me know what he was up to the rest of the day. I told him somethings bugging me and I had to be honest with him. He said I can call him when I can. So I called after 30mins and told him that I was a little offended when he asked me if I wanted to check in.

He said he was really sorry I took it that way, that he wasn’t trying to force me to sleep with him. But because on a sunday everything is closed and we can’t go anywhere public (or our homes) and he wanted to talk to me and spend quality time with me outside the car it would be more comfortable being somewhere safe and secluded… Then he got so ashamed of making me feel that way, so he got off the phone. He sent a text 2 mins later that he was really sorry again and he’s so embarrased.

I text him back after 20mins that I just wanted to clarify that I was uncomfortable with that and I don’t want things to get weird because of it, that I have said things too that may have lead him on, and I should apologize for the miscommunication. I ended the text by saying that I enjoy our bonding time, I love spending time with him and I don’t want to ruin something good by rushing into something crazy without thinking… He didn’t respond anymore..

I know guys may feel defeated when reprimanded for something they did wrong, despite making up for it already with a great date (I KNOW! I should have cut him some slack and just appreciated the rest of the night that he made up for it all, I screwed up there) But now what? Does he just need "space"? What should I expect next?

Did I ruin everything by being unappreciative??? I hate the waiting game and it’s driving me nuts. I know my text said enough (right?) and I shouldn’t force the issue, but what should I do because I really really like him!?..

Tags: 3 years, Direction, divorce, fwb, gentleman, hole in the wall, little hole in the wall, Lost, loveless, Met, Partner, relationships, rest of the day, sleep, work opportunity

Well I love my wife and I know that inside her she loves me but there all kinds of things against me, for example my little brother who sat there and seen all of the things happening is now pursuing her with no regard to me and she thinks that it would make her happy, she has a best friend giving her nothing but negative advice, and family doing the same as well, I love her and have since the moment I saw her, we have an 18mth old little girl and all I want to do is save my marriage, she knows that by talking to me she would come back so she got a restraining order and filed for divorce, all of which I believe were outside influences, I need help I can’t live without her.

Tags: best friend, divorce, little brother, little girl, love, marriage, Odds, regard, restraining order

My wife and I are divorcing, the divorce is my decision,not hers. I am seeing another woman, just to do fun things with her and not for a long-term relationship. I can’t even feel right to kiss this new woman yet although she is looking for intimacy. My wife told me that she loved me and don’t understand why I deny her love, while I have been feeling ignored. Last year I told her I loved her more than before, and 3 months ago I told her that my heart was not in it for a long time. I am confused about my feeling, and not sure if I still love her. I feel that I have been closed up myself because I have been ignored. Recently, my wife asked me to if I could give her a chance to show her love for me the right way. She asked for my forgiveness if she had done things in the past that made me feel ignored because her focus was somewhere else (and NO, she never cheated on me, and she is a good and loving person). She told me that people made mistakes and why should she be punished when she has learned from her mistakes. She asked for my generosity to give us a chance to save our marriage. She told me that her heart is filled of love for me and impossible to accept love from another man to rebuild her life. We have a beautiful 14 year old daughter, and the divorcing process has hit her hard. My wife told me that she will give it all to make it work and asked for my part. She told me it is not too late and better late than never, and it doesn’t hurt to try. She said that we can’t reclaim our past but we could pick up pieces or start from a clean slate. If it’s doesn’t work than we can walk away for good without regretting that we didn’t try hard for our marriage and especially for our daughter, since she is in the age where she need both of us the most in her life. She told me she doesn’t even want my money, as long as the 3 of us are together. Should I give my marriage another chance , since I already feel happy going out with this new woman for about a month. Should I walk away from this new woman or walk away from our marriage of 18 years? How do we restart for the marriage saving process? Is it possible? Please help.

Tags: clean slate, divorce, forgiveness, fun things, generosity, heart, Heart Love, intimacy, kiss, long term relationship, long time, love, loving person, marriage, money, new woman

What should I do when my partner says I want a divorce , but my heart doesn’t want to stay with him? I know he hasn’t any relation with any other girl. I think he is going through a big pressure in his office-that’s why fighting are happening between us often. Maybe because of this he said that….

Tags: divorce, hasn, heart, How To Save Your Marriage, marriage