I admitted two nights ago to my husband, I slept with someone else twice (see my previous two questions for the back story, not going to retype it again) and screwed up. I prayed he would understand and give our marriage a go but instantly flew into a rage and made me sleep on the couch.
The next morning, he had packed my bags and clothes were all thrown into boxes and he said I best be gone when he gets back. So I had to go my sisters and today I called to talk reason with him and he said hes filing for divorce. I am heartbroken beyond words and wish I could repair my marriage. I was in a low place when I slept with my brother in laws best friend and I know I screwed up. I was just heartbroken over a series of fights me and my husband had and the lack of attention he has given me over the last two months (we married in November 2009). I just hate to think I am now going to 20 (my birthday in Saturday) and a divorcee’.
Anyone got any advice? Like how I can make my husband see that I love him still and want to form a family with him? I have thought about working on my 6 year old stepdaughter but he has refused me from ever seeing her again and I loved that girl like she was my own and now my world has come crumbling down.
If I get divorced, I will lose my whole stable world. My family is far aware and we had carved a life together. I will not get a thing out of this because my adultery will be used against me and he owns his house legally. So can anyone help me save my marriage to my soul mate?
I already feel guilty enough. My husband has made it clear hes heartbroken after providing me with so much and being faithful to me.
And DO NOT tell me I am too young to be married. I love my husband and thats all that matters. My question is not related to my age but a call for advice. If you tell me I am too young to be married, I will downrate and report for not providing an answer.
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).
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