i smoked weed yesterday for the first time.. my ex was very upset about this because he has always been against drugs.

i told him i don’t plan on smoking again. i didn’t get high.. but he doesn’t trust me. what can i do/say to allow him to trust me again?

i know i shouldn’t care because he’s my ex… but he’s also my best friend, and we dated for over 2 years..we plan on dating again, in the future maybe. i’m supposed to call him tonight. what should i say?

Tags: best friend, drugs, How To Gain Respect, Smoking Weed

Five months ago I fell in love with my ex Sergey. he spoiled the whole relationship by leaving me for a junkie and made pregnant my ex best friend. I dunno why but I love Russian guys. But since he was deported (he was caught with drugs and i denounced him), I just can’t like anyone else. wherever in am, i think of him the whole day, in the begining he used to be nice to me. I’ve already dated other russians since then (very nice by the way) , but unfortunately, i just can’t forget Sergey. I hang around, I go out with other people, i try and forget him, i try to not think of him and do other things, but it’s no use. even all the replies i got here told me to dump him. How can I fall in love with another russian and forget drug addict Sergey? Is this normal? Have you already thought of someone 24/7 for more than a month? Will this agony fly away one day? will i ever fall in love again with another cute russian?

Tags: agony, begining, best friend, drug addict, drugs, Fall In Love, five months, fly, junkie, love, People, Pregnant, relationship, russian guys, russians

Why did you or do you still-reject Jesus from believing Him-who without something else becomes your god to worship, money, sex out of marriage, drugs, religions trying to earn your way to heaven-when Jesus says he paid it all and offers salvation and best friendship, John 3 and Revelation 3:19&20 promised in Isaiah over and over again—

what is your god=whatever one puts ahead of Jesus.
It is very rare for people to make real changes in their behavior based on previous mistakes. Often people make the same relationship about the Messiah Jesus mistakes again and again. It is helpful to look at the reasons why people seem to get stuck in a cycle of repetition. So, what locks you in and prevents you from learning from your own mistakes?

Praying for you-either way to go ahead with Jesus or to begin the start in new life born anew as promised above in scriptures.

what about your relationship letting Jesus into your heart to save you and be your friend? what helped you or hurtU

Tags: amp, drugs, friendship, god, heart, isaiah, marriage, messiah jesus, money sex, relationship, religions, repetition, revelation, scriptures, way to heaven

Two years ago, I dated a guy that I fell head over heels for. The problem was that he didn’t know what he wanted, and he was heavy into drugs. I’m a very serious person by nature, and once I realized that he was flighty – I had to cut him off. But I was heartbroken; he had treated me badly throughout the relationship.

I went to school and met a great guy – smart, ambitious, funny – but I kept comparing him to my ex (because as great as this current guy is, I still love the ex more). I finally managed to put that aside for the boyfriend’s sake, because he is very good to me.

Well, last night I got a phone call, and sure enough it was my ex (we talk pretty often, although I have always made it clear we were just friends). He told me he wanted to get back together and that he still loves me; he said he was working on quitting drugs, and has already stopped the drinking, and is actively going to a therapist. A few other people confirm this story.

He wants me to go on a romantic getaway with him, and to date him again. But I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend because he treats me well, and loves me very much and I can imagine a future with him. At the same time, I can imagine a future with my ex (one involving a lot of love).

Should I go on the trip, or tell him I can’t and cut him off? And who do you think is the best choice – dating someone I love more than anything, or dating someone safe who I have learned to love?

Tags: best choice, drugs, head over heels, just friends, phone call, relationship, romantic getaway, sake