I am suffering from a broken heart and I don’t know how to heal. :’( I thought I was over someone and I tried to move on. About 6 months into the relationship, I had realized that I didn’t. My BF knows about it and he’s acctually understanding with it, but I don’t know what to do. I’m still deeply in-love with my-ex and he says he’s over me, but we always end up falling for eachother again no matter what. I’ve also tried sooo hard and many times before to get over him, but it never works 100%. Does anyone have advice or suggestions???

Tags: acctually, bf, broken heart, eachother, how do you heal a broken heart, love, relationship

to put it short, me and my ex-boyfriend (long distance) were together for over a year but have been broken up for about 2 months now. he kind of changed for the worst (drugs and drinking) lately yet i still love him.. whenever he talks to me nowdays (random, short texts) he usually is just very sarcastic and doesn’t take me seriously, at least not from what i see. im a sophomore in high school and he’ll be starting his first year of college in the fall. the other night we texted eachother until about 3 in the morning and he randomly said that he missed the special moments we’ve had but then changed the subject. from what i can see anyway it appears he’s moved on but i was just wondering if you think there is ANY chance in h*ll of getting back together with him, with what he said the other night? ive done the begging and ive kinda just given up lately.. i might sound really silly but we really did love eachother alot back then and i at least dont want him to just forget about me. help!!
p.s. – towards the end of our relationship, he kind of got new friends which i think is the main reason for his recent drug and drinking marathon – he used to do that stuff before we went out, but he knew i disapproved, so he quit but now he’s started again. and i just have this state of mind that he IS in college now and all he’s interested in now is some one night stands with a bunch of random girls and he is for sure going to wonder what the heck he was doing with someone over 1,000 miles away from him .. yeah

Tags: drugs, eachother, Ex Boyfriend, long distance, love, marathon, new friends, random girls, recent drug, relationship, sophomore, texts, what the heck

Ok so me and my girlfriend where going out for a bit more than a year befor we broke up. A few days befor we broke up we where in a fight and she started hanging out with this guy because she knows I don’t like him but a few days later she brokeup with m. Since then she stopped talking to him completaly actually she rilly doesn’t like him anymore but now she has a completaly new group of friends and I hate two of the girls with a pashion. We still talk and say we miss eachother and are on the verge of getting back together a few times but then something happens and we fight and stop talking for a day then were talking and repeat. But most of the tim the fight comes because she says she is gonna leave the two friends I hate behind so she can be with me we make plans to hangout at lunch (in school) and she doesn’t hangout with them all day but just befor we go to meet she goes and hangs out with the two girls again and I say she lied blah blah blah we get in a fight then the next day were getting along again. Right now were in a fight again because yesterday the same thin I described happened and when we where almost made up I foundout she lied to me about who she was with last night and it was a dif guy I don’t like her being around because of how he acts. So I hot mad and were fighting again and she said not to talk to her ever again but that was only emotions because it’s happened beor and I think if I tx her tomorrow she will be ok with me gain like it has been like… But this time the last txt sent was from me and I said basicly that she just used her last chance of picking er friends over me because Im gonna not talk to her and be indapendant and see what happens if she trys to makeup with me instead of me trying. Do you think I should do what I said about waiting? And what should I do to get her back? (and hopfully get rid of those two girls that are her new friends).

Tags: eachother, emotions, ex girlfriend, few days, girlfriend, girls, last chance, lunch, makeup, new friends, pashion, rilly, those two girls, two friends, verge

Okay, so me and this guy have had a thing sense the beginning of the summer and we dated off and on throughout the summer and we’d break up at the stupidest things but we were always crazy about eachother and spent every second together, and he would always come back to me within the next week. Were in high school and he thought it would be hard to have a realathonship because we go to different highschools. He gets jealous really easily. But anyway about a month or so ago he broke up with me but we had been talking sense then because we still had feelings for eachother and we didnt want to have to deal with the responsibility of having a realathonship. Several weeks ago we got in a fight becasue he wouldnt text me back i guess he wasnt by his phone or something and im sort of the impatient type and i told him that i didnt even think i liked him anymore because he never responded ( i just say things like that without thinking) and he got mad and wouldnt text me back, so i guess i was annoying him and he told me just to leave him alone and not to talk to him ever again and move on because he didnt like me either. I left him alone for about a whole week, and thats been the longest time ive never talked to him before and it was really hard for me. So that weekend i was with my friend and she was like just text him and see how he is, so i texted him and he didnt reply and so i sent him really long texts of how immature he was for not talking to me and i guess i kinda over did it and he went off on me and told me how stupid i was and how he could do better then me, it really hurt me and my friends always thought he would come back to me but this time they all told me he wasnt going to and i should just get over him. all that week i was trying to get over him and not talk to him. The next weekend i was at my friends house and i was texting this guy my ex boyfriend was with and my friend was texing my ex boyfriend and they were both like you all should come over and i of course wanted to but my friend told me not to because it will just make my ex boyfriend think he can get me whenever he wants to so we ended up telling them we had better stuff to do. Later that night i texted my ex boyfriend telling him how much i cared about him and how much i wanted to be with him ( i was drunk and i dont know why i said that) and suprisingly he told me he missed me and he couldnt not have me in his life and he just caught up in highschool but he doesnt want a realathonship and we should just talk. I was really happy and so for about a week we talked and everything was good. He told me he wanted to see me and talk to me about things and i wanted to but my mom wouldnt let me. This weekend i told him that i think i might have moved on and i was confused between him and this other guy becuase he had left me for so long and i think it made him mad and he started being really short with me but he acted like it didnt bother him that i said that but he did say he cared. The next day he told me that he thinks we should just be friends,and i asked him why and he was like well you like that other guy and its just better if were friends. I asekd him why he thinks we should just talk and he said "because i started talking to other girls" i think he just says that stuff because i said taht i might like another guy so hes giving me a taste of my own medicine and trying to piss me off too (this isnt the first time he has said something like that) i was so upset and i went off on him and we got in an argument and he was saying shit like " i could hook up with so many girls if i wanted to" and he told me he was going to go back to ignoring me. We talekd it out and now i guess were gonna be friends..but it always turns into us liking eachother again. I asked him to hang out with me and my friend this weekend and he just said "maybe!" and i was like what else could you do? and he was like "hang out wiht my friends"…its like when were "talking" he is so sweet to me but when were not he is like a completely different person i think he still has feelings for me i just pissed him off by saying i liked another guy maybe becuase he told me that he started talking to other girls and thats why he wants to be friends..he always does this stuff..will someone PLEASSSEE help me im desperate and i just want him to want me back and be like he used to be with me. ive tried moving on but i cant! so any other suggestions? how can i get him to want me backk…? or do you think he will come back to me?(sorry this is so long and whoever reads this whole thing thankyou!)

Tags: eachother, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, highschools, impatient type, longest time, texts

My first love and I are talking about hanging out and hooking up (neither of us is ready to be in a relationship) and im wondering how can i keep myself from falling for him again? We dated during high school and broke up b/ci moved away and we were just too young to make it work. Its been years since we last saw eachother and 13 yrs since we last dated. We’ve kept in touch over the yrs though. Im excited to see him again and spend time with him but im just worried that I may fall for him again and end up hurt. It took me years to get over him and it was hard. I dont know how to be around him and hook up with him and not fall for him. How do I deal with this?

Tags: eachother, Fall In Love, first love, Hook, relationship