My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years, after a 10 year split. The thing is she is still married and going through her divorce. I have had serious jealousy and trust issues with her and her " husban ". We fight all the time about it. Emails and text msg, I can’t stand it and I have become a real prick to her because of it, this is the woman I truely love. She tells me its my fault I shouldn’t be looking at his email. He is always talk sexual to her or how they are in love and blah blah blah. She said he is blocked and she dosen’t get them, it could be true I haven’t seen any replys to him from her. I got my own place this week and tonight we got into a big fight. She says she still loves me but can’t be with me because of the way I treat her sometime, that her heart isn’t in it and I should give her some space. How do you give your best friend space? How do I make her want to be with me like she used to? Please be kind I am hurting badly and need some honest answers.

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After 1.5 years, my boyfriend ends it with me. He didn’t give me much attention and he didnt call me often. I was devastated and sent an email telling him how he had made me feel these past few months and I told him that we made a rash decision to end things without thinking things through. After 2 months of not talking, he calls me to talk things over. He wants to meet me on my birthday. I’m not sure if thats a good thing but I told him I dont want my day ruined. I have nothing to say because I have told him what I had to say to him. I want to let him talk and see whats on his mind. My confusion is, If he wants to work on relationship again, how can I make sure he really wants it? He already planned a date for next week. How can I make him prove to me that he wont act like the way he did before without rejecting him? i want to be with him, but I dont want my heart broken again. How can I make him work for this relationship?

Tags: confusion, email, heart, rash decision, relationship

My ex boyfriend wrote an email to me stating that things had gotten to be to much for him to handle with work and personal, and that is why we are not together. We broke up three years ago. He wrote taht he is sorry for the way things have gone. Doe that mean hi regrets breaking up with me? I know that he has not dated or been with any one since me. He came over to my house the other night and kissed and hugged me when he walked in the front door. Sat close to me on the sofa talked, kissed, help my hand and rubbed my shoulders. Tried to get me to lay with him on the sofa. He told me that we were good together. He also told me that he has missed me and has been thinking about me a lot. During this visit he called me babe a few times. We agreed to spend Valentines Day together. I guess we will see about that. From all of this I am now confused. He must still be interested in me otherwise he would not have come over to visit. Right? Who does all of the above if you don’t like or care about the person? I could still be interested in him. Communication is very hard with him now. He never checks the computer, no land line, and the only cell he has is a work phone. Please answer this for me someone why would you go to your ex girlfriends house three years after the fact and say all of this? I know he was very busy last week. Why hasn’t he called? Whats up with this? What should I do? Help?
How do I get him to talk to me? I don’t want to be pushy.

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cant let my feelings go, although I have told her how I feel I have kept away only contacting through email and being friendly, I even told her that I am happy for her and her new bf. I am happy if she is but it hurts so much.
Please help!

Tags: bf, email, feelings, love

Yes he cheated on me. Yes he dumped me. Yes he made me lost all of my confident. He treated me like a piece of shit while he had an affair.

17th of may 09 I caught him via email. He was in love with his colleague in another state.

I forgive him straight away and want him to work out for our married.
Took him for long time to stop the game.

Now we are back together. and he said sorry . he made a mistake and he tried to be a good dad and husband.
In fact I don;t love him any more but I stay with him because of kids. ( 4 and 6)
Everyday I live by day. I don;t know when my heart is expired.
I can not trust any men in this world except my father and my son.
And I think I keep him, better give him to someone else. He is still my father of my kids and still pay the bill.
However I believe. " Love never say sorry"

pls give me some advice how can I move on . forget all the past…….
How can I trust him again? How can I love him again??

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