I know rebounds help you feel better after a breakup.. but if your rebound is just that – a rebound and nothing more, will the pain of the original breakup eventually come back to you? or will you just skip past the pain because of the rebound..
what about once you decide to leave the rebound.. will you feel the pain of your original break up then? or will you be over it by then?

any opinions/experiences with rebounds and rebounding?

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It’s just that I want other opinions, because they market this stuff to seem like its a sure fire way to get her back. Smoke and mirrors or do you have experiences that can help better than their advice does. Looking for honest answers please. (Do a Google search on "How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back? …Number one relationship killer) and let me know what you think.

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I’ve been through a lot of relationship battles. Cheating, lying, break ups, crying, the normal. I’m going to college soon. My current boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We’ve broken up already. I used to know for sure I wanted to be with him beyond high school and even college. Now, I don’t know what I want, or if I’m falling out of love with him. When I go to college I want a clean slate and to cut myself from the strings of my past that I CAN’T let go of. I feel he is holding me back. When I look at him, that’s all I see. Who I used to be. I can’t let go of anger, grudges, past experiences, past mistakes from him, others, and most importantly myself. There’s also this guy, my best friend, who I feel I am in love with. TO SUM IT UP……….. Any tips on letting go of the past and FINALLY moving on and away from it? Letting go of love? Finally being happy?

Tags: 101 Strings, anger, best friend, break ups, clean slate, current boyfriend, Experiences, falling out of love, going to college, grudges, letting go of love, love, relationship, ups

My ex and I broke up exactly a year and a half ago and haven’t talked since last May, but I’m really interested in talking to her again and trying to get back together.
And I know she’d be willing to, I’m just wondering if it’s ever worked for anyone.

We broke up due to stress and anxiety about being in a relationship, at least on her part. I don’t know if anything’s changed, but told me she was willing to get back together months after we broke up.

What are your experiences? How did you do it?

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I always seem to find myself deep in thought about previous relationships and how eventually I lost love. I try to learn from the experiences where I lost love so that I can do better next time. One of my biggest focuses is always to move on with a much greater understanding of the concept of love than what I had before.

There are parts of my life where I was absolutely sure that I lost love in a way that was worse than ever before. I always felt as if my life was over at this point and perhaps that I would never find love again. However, as it turns out, each and every time that I lost love, it was only so that I could move on and find a better and stronger love in the future.

We all have to remember that love has a spontaneous lifespan just like everything else that we experience in our lives. Every time that I lost love, I realized this, and it helped me move on and make sense of what I was feeling in a capacity that allowed me to find happiness again even after losing love.

Each time that I lost love, I found myself realizing that the lifespan of the most recent relationship was longer than the lifespan of the last relationship, meaning that each relationship brought more meaning and more joy than before. I was definitely benefitting, growing as a person, even though it did not always seem so at the time.

Typically any time that I lost love, I felt as if I was never going to get it back. I felt as if I was lost forever and would never feel joy or love or happiness again. But upon thinking about the relationship and the moment where I lost love, I eventually realized that even though the end of the relationship was bad or rocky, I still walked away with good things, learning and growing as a person in the process.

I soon realized that just because I lost love, that did not mean that I would not find it again.

I realized that just because I had lost love, it did not mean that I was destined to be alone forever.

Most importantly, I learned that in losing love, I was learning how to find love again.

As we get older and become more experienced in matters of the heart, our relationship life spans grow, and our loves increase and become more powerful and more influential over our lives. That means losing love is a part of gaining love and growing love.

If you are in a position where you have lost love, don’t let your willpower to carry on falter. You will either rekindle that love if it is meant to be, or you will find new and better love in the future, having learned from each and every one of your past relationships, even the bad ones.

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