My bf just broke up with me last night because he needed time for himself to figure out what he wants in the future. When I thought about my own future, i don’t really know what i want to do either. I always feel that I have to find someone to make myself fulfilled, but whenever I failed in a relationship, I’ll feel like a failure. I want to stop letting relationship dictating my life. I need to start doing things for myself. But i really don’t know how to start. I’m already 24 and i’m still at school. I really don’t know what the future may hold. Sigh.

Tags: bf, failure, relationship

Husband and I work together we are partners in a hotel. Well he moved out of our room about three months ago (we live at the hotel) I was devastated..long story short I recently found out he is in a relationship with a 21 year old housekeeper he is 46 I am 32 he said they are in love. we were together for 9 years and i am just so angry and hurt and do not know how to get over these feelings of failure, i just want the pain to stop help any advice how do i get over him?

Tags: failure, feelings, housekeeper, love, relationship, three months

How do I get the love back…..the trust back…..the sex back ?

Why sex ? Sex is important….it is an important part of my life…..I am not prepared to give up my sex life….because of age or because my partner might not want to have sex with me ……..

That is why I cheated……but it was 2 years of no sex, before I did !

She told me I had Sexual problems….and I did with her…..failure……but thankfully , with nobody else !

I love my wife…..but if we don’t love as we did before……I can’t promise I wont cheat again !

Tags: failure, love, sex life, sexual problems