So a little over a month ago me and my now ex-boyfriend were fighting and he broke up with me. He was being really mean to me and I was doing the same. I realized after that our fighting was dumb and I really love him, but he did not want to get back. Basically when he broke up with me he said he didn’t have feelings for me, and that you can’t just recreate the feelings he once had. Tomorrow me, my ex, and a bunch of friends are going to an amusement park for the day, is there any way I can make him "fall in love" with me again, were both seniors in high school and this is our last hoorah before the summer, i might not see him for a long time if we dont get back together due to different groups of friends. but how should i act toward him, i really really want him back

Tags: amusement park, Ex Boyfriend, Fall In Love, feelings, hoorah, long time, love quot, seniors

I hurt my man really bad. I lied to him a lot. I came on to him friends in from of him when i was drunk. I tryed sudctioning his friends in front of him. I didn’t realize what i was doing in front of him. ? I never did that before when i was drinking. I went to a classmate’s house after he told me not to go because i didn’t know him at all i just had met him a few days before. The guy had hurted me really bad that i was crying after he had really rough sex with me that i couldn’t even move off the bed. I kepted on telling the guy to stop that he was hurting me i was screaming really lound trying to push him out of me but i couldn’t get him out of me i was telling him no it hurts a lot stop he would listen to me. He kepted on going like i didn’t say anything to him. He kepted on going deeper. It felt like he raped me his friend saw the all thing happened. He wanted his friend to join in with him like i wanted a 3 some. He was saying to his friend that i liked being told want to do.

Tags: classmate, Drunk, Fall In Love, few days, Lot, Lound, Love Man, rough sex

We’ve been getting together over the past 2 months. We share a house with a few friends & she told me she’s not looking for a serious relationship. She’s a nice girl, attractive and could easily pick up another guy but she doesn’t. In fact we went out a couple of weeks ago & she said "I want to be with you without feelings". Then she opened up a little saying she’s afraid (last boyfriend..she loved him but he wanted a child, she didn’t as she’s only 24 so he ended it). That was a year ago & they were together for a year. I decided to travel alone for a couple of weeks, even though we had a loose plan to go together.  Just got back & we went with friends to a club, she seemed a little distant with me, avoiding me. SHe left with another girl & 2 guys then arrived home 1 hr later & told me nothing happened. I asked her why she avoids me in the house. She said the truth is that she has only loved one guy her ex, she gave it once & can’t again. It was v emotional for me. She wanted me to look into her eyes at that moment & I couldn’t. Anyhow she was a bit drunk (she drinks 3 times a week, sometimes vomits & one time urinated in my room). Then we made love, she looks at me, tells me how goodlooking I am & how the sex was so good & she said that she does feel something.

Tags: amp, Club 115, Fall In Love, feelings, Last Boyfriend, love, nice girl, serious relationship, truth

i mean i know people say you make a marriage work no matter what that’s what you promised to do,so then how can you ever love another? it does happen,look at garth brooks he was married to his love,yet fell in love with trisha yearwood and is happily married again,how is that possible,on you wedding day you promise forever…

Tags: Fall In Love, garth brooks, marriage, marriage work, trisha yearwood, vow, wedding day

call me crazy but i have a problem. my boyfriend and I were really good friends. then we started going out. and after around 3 months he told my best friend that he loved me. and i already knew i loved him. and at the 4th month we had our first kiss. the reason why he waited so long is because he said he wanted to go slow and not rush things because he didnt want to loose me. its now 6 months that we have been together. 2 of my friends think ever since we started going out we both have changed, and his bestfriend wants us to break up because of it. also in the last month too was kind of hard for me: his parents got in the way of our relationship, he flirted with this girl like crazy right infront of my eyes, & because he had done something that almost ruined our relationship totally. I told him it would be awhile before i trusted him again when it happened. recently though he hasnt talked to me as much on the phone and he has stopped texting me. alot of girls seem to like him too. he tellls me he loves me and all but can i really believe it? and worse i really am in love with him. i am so lost and confused and its even worse to think about if he might break up with me because hes getting tired of us or something. and i know that if he is he really doesnt love me at all. so i figured if i could make him love me more or even get him to love me or care about me more maybe i could fix everything. because i dont want to just sit around and iqnore all that could be coming, especially if i had a chance to fix it or change it. So tell me what should i do?

Tags: amp, best friend, bestfriend, Fall In Love, first kiss, girls, good friends, infront, kiss, love, parents, relationship, rush

I need some advice. Times are tought. We are fight alot. We both go to counsling and we still have our problems. I know she loves me. I know I love her. I just want to see if I can get the Spark back from when I meet her. HOW? Things I can Do? or try?

Tags: Fall In Love, Fight Alot

I have been dating this guy for 6 years now. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I decided that I wanted to leave the relationship when I was about 7 months pregnant because I was really unhappy. At that time he was finishing grad school 2 hours away from the home that we shared, so even though we "weren’t together" I continued to live in the home that we had together. When he finished school. I was in my Junior year of Undergrad and decided that it was not financially possible to leave while finishing school with my little girl. So in order to stay on track with school we now lived in the same house but in separate rooms. We called ourselves dating other people and like most girls while he was actually out dating other women I simply lied about seeing other men for about a year so I didn’t seem like I could’ t move on. I was so hurt that the mother of his child could be less than 20 feet away from him and he could actually carry on a romantic conversation in the next room. He had been completely unthoughtful of my feeling and what he had at home. So one day I started to see this really great guy. He treated me like a princess and understood my position on things in my life. He never pushed me to do anything that I wasn’t ready to do including meet my daughter! This guy took a job 5 hours away because I wasn’t ready to fully commit to him though. After my little girls dad realized that I had really moved on and might really like someone, he decided that I was the one that he wanted in his life. I can most definitely see his efforts in trying to turn things around. He still doesn’t cater to the romance that I need from him, but he does make an extra effort to give me all the simple things that I used to ask of him. We have been trying to make it work for about 3 months now and I am really having a hard time trusting him. I am constantly having to tell myself that it is okay to let my guard down but the simple thought of going through what I have been through with him again makes me want to cry. A simple hug from him almost makes me cringe. I am so emotionally disconnected from him. However a small part of me says if he is sincerely trying I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Could I ever fall in love with him again?

Tags: 6 years, 7 months, dad, Fall In Love, Finished School, finishing school, girls, grad school, hard time, job, little girl, little girls, Live 105, princess, relationship, romance, separate rooms, simple thought, undergrad

Hello, I’m a teen having troubles with relationships.
I want to know how to get back with my Ex Boyfriend…

its been 4 days since i broke up with him.
when I text him, he told me that "its not like I don’t want to be with you, but I don’t think I’ll be able to love you."
the reason why he broke up with me was "him not loving me as much like the first time."
I also broke some promises that he made with me…and after wardss I became clingy.
BUT, while we were going out, he told me to be clingy because it makes him more comfortable knowing that I love him.
I do admit the mistakes I made and I’m trying to fix my mistakes.

What is best to do in order the get back my ex boyfriend. please help me!
thankyou.

Tags: Boyfriend Help, Ex Boyfriend, Fall In Love, Hello, Promises, relationships

My boyfriend and I was together for three years and he broke up with me because he said I didn’t make him feel the way he use to feel when we first started dating. But he also said that he’s not giving up on me and he need time, but he broke up with me on the 1st of march and the first two weeks i blew his phone up and called him everyday, now this past sunday i decided to give him real time, so until april the 2nd im not callin/txtin, or even go to his house (he live right right next door, lmao) but the reason why im giving until april 2nd is because we are goin on a date. when we first started dating we went to go to "why did I get married" that was our first movie together and on april the 2nd he agreed to go on a date to go see the 2nd movie "why did i get married too" so how much time is enough time for a man after 3yrs? and i really really really honestly truely love him sooooooooooooo much, so how do i make him fall in love with me again? we have been through so much and we have soooooooo much love but i hate that i dont make him have that feelin when we first started datin

Tags: Fall In Love, Live 105, lmao, Much Love, quot, real time, tho

Hi stuff is been really dead in my marriage and i wanted to know how you can get your guy to fall in love with you or for him to realise you are the one for him and he would be making a big mistake if he left…he still loves me but it’s slowly dying off and i want to save my marriage..please help guys views accepted too!!
When we got married i never used to clean,cook and do household chores and that’s when he started falling out of love, but now i do all this and he still says he can’t fall in love all over agian, so what should i do? is he ever gonna fall back in love if i comtinue doing this?

Tags: agian, big mistake, Fall 98, Fall In Love, falling out of love, guy to fall in love, household chores, Love Women, Man Fall, Man Love, marriage, men and women, Men Women, mistake

my partner and i have been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. we are happy together but i just want him to fall in love with me again, i just want some tips to make him happy

Tags: Fall In Love, love, Partner

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years, after a 10 year split. The thing is she is still married and going through her divorce. I have had serious jealousy and trust issues with her and her " husban ". We fight all the time about it. Emails and text msg, I can’t stand it and I have become a real prick to her because of it, this is the woman I truely love. She tells me its my fault I shouldn’t be looking at his email. He is always talk sexual to her or how they are in love and blah blah blah. She said he is blocked and she dosen’t get them, it could be true I haven’t seen any replys to him from her. I got my own place this week and tonight we got into a big fight. She says she still loves me but can’t be with me because of the way I treat her sometime, that her heart isn’t in it and I should give her some space. How do you give your best friend space? How do I make her want to be with me like she used to? Please be kind I am hurting badly and need some honest answers.

Tags: best friend, blah, blah blah, divorce, email, Fall In Love, girlfriend, heart, honest answers, jealousy, prick, quot, replys, text msg, trust issues, Woman

Some four years ago my love of 11 years cheated on me. She says it happened only once. She has a mental disorder and sometimes has to be hospitalized to get her meds adjusted so she can be well. Her cheating happened during one of these episodes. I have vowed to care for her for my whole life, but I can’t seem to love her as I once did. I tried for four years and we have had counseling. I trust her with everything, except my heart. I hurt inside so much of the time. I have none to give and get support from, to help me deal with this. My parents are dead and my brothers are asses. I have friends but they have a love for her which I would never want to damage by talking about this to them.
I just wish so very much that I can find away to be in love with her again. She was my love so much so that other woman even beautiful women were just people. I only had eyes for her and my heart was very happy. Now I see other woman and I wish at times that my love and I were not together. I Love Her

Tags: 11 years, asses, Beautiful Women, counseling, Fall In Love, heart, love, meds, mental disorder, parents, Whole Life

My friend has been in many relationships and he’s fallen in love three times. They all had bad endings.. one cheated on him and another, after being together for 4 years, ended is because she got signs from God that told her to do so.. He’s been really hurt and finding it hard to connect with different people. And yesterday he told me he’s afraid of getting too close to this girl he has befriended because he’s afraid to fall in love with her. She’s already really falling for him, he’s a great guy. But he’s holding back because he’s afraid of being hurt again. I want to comfort him and encourage him to give it a next try.. but i don’t know what to say.. help please??

Tags: Fall In Love, god, love, Love Help, relationships, signs, three times

I mean …I had a veryy good friend and well we end up kissing we stop talking like for a month and we are ok but just friends How can i can make him fall in love again i really lovee Him! But i had porblems that he couldnt understand but i love him with heart and soul! i mean I cant stop A SECOOND without thinking in him! Help

Tags: Fall In Love, Friends, good friend, Guy Fall, heart, heart and soul, just friends, love, second time

I met this guy & we’re teammates in the call center we’re working for.He’s cute, charming,witty,funny,was a High School teacher,Computer Science grad,a musician(he’s a bass player)& a hopeless romantic.The prettiest girl in our team even had a crush on him(she told me that since we’re close friends).But then,i never expected that someone like him would show interest to a shy & simple girl like me.He was so friendly to me that he always wants to talk to me,very caring & sweet to me.I was even amazed that when we exchanged seats, he sat next to me.He’s great to talk to & he talks to me about his fave music,asked my birthdate,where i live,other basic info,my cell number & even asked me to be the lead vocalist for the band that he will be forming.He said that he was sure i was the right person since they heard me sang in our training class(we’re still on the 2nd week of our training) Now,i just couldn’t imagine that this guy would adore me! He made me feel like the most beautiful, interesting & admirable girl in the world. His friends would subtlety tease me whether i have a date & i said no and his friends would look at him. My other female friend whom i told bout this told me that this guy would steal glances at me.I felt that this is what i have been waiting for bec. i never had a boyfriend ever(I’m still 21; he’s 23 & single).
But there’s a big problem: He smokes & drinks. You may raise your eyebrows & say "So What?" well, it’s bec. i have had enough domestic abuse in my family bec. my dad had a smoking & drinking problem. I even live separately now from my dad after i graduated College coz i just couldn’t take all the garbage & wastedness that my dad becomes whenever he was drunk.He just can’t quit. The guilt,anger & shame over our situation was too much.Bec. of my dad’s alcoholism, my mom left us even when i was still 6 years old.But i still love my dad,he’s the sweetest guy when sober but very emotional & argumentative when drunk. So now, i am so so afraid that my history would repeat itself & this time i’m afraid it’s going to be my own family that someday i will have. I don’t want to be judgmental, i just can’t help being careful & wise before making any stupid decision that i would regret for the rest of my life. It really confuses me bec. i am starting to fall for this guy & would actually want to go out with him. But the relationship i want to build with him if ever he asks me out will be a serious one & that someone i would consider marrying. But now i am struggling with so much fear in my heart, it’s so hard trying to deny that i am starting to fall for him bec. i don’t want to get hurt & find out what if he is just like my father who cares about his drinking more than his family,wife & kids. Now, i can’t help imagining about my fears and future regrets in my mind & i picture myself ten years from now:a battered wife,haggardly taking care of her little kids & here’s this guy whom i fell in love comes home drunk every night & fights with me alot & that he’s jobless or couldn’t find a decent job & he had no money but has money for his drinking sprees. I know i am a bit overboard but for me love is a choice not just a feeling or else i would end up being the victim stuck in a dysfunctional family line the rest of my life.I prayed to God about this that He will lead me the right way. I badly need some good advice from you guys…i don’t want to make the same mistakes all over again that my parents did that they ended up separated,it really is not a happy thing…I want to love but i don’t want to risk if it’s not worth it in the first place…Your opinion is very much appreciated & will help me realize many things before its too late…tnx
pardon if my question is bit long.Btw,i will still observe and know how often he smokes and drinks and figure out if he’s addicted to it or not.:)

Tags: 6 years, alcoholism, amp, bass player, call center, close friends, computer science, domestic abuse, Drinker, eyebrows, Fall In Love, fave music, female friend, girl in the world, guilt, high school teacher, Met, Musician, prettiest girl, simple girl, Smoker, subtlety, teacher computer, teammates, vocalist

I’ve been dealing with a breakup from a girl I’ve been with for the past three years. We met at the end of senior year in high school. I went to school 10 hours away freshman year and we stuck through it. I felt stronger and stronger about her each day. I decided to come back home and go to school with her for sophomore year. Again, it was a fantastic year and I loved every minute I spent with her. We were best friends, inseparable and we connected on a very deep level. I knew I loved this girl but I felt like I needed to go back to my first school to get a significantly better degree. At the end of sophomore year I told her I wanted to go back. She began to pull away until I told her I was doing it for us and to better my future. That made her feel better but she still pulled back. I kind of changed too as a result. I felt weird about her actions and I knew she took my leaving as a slap in the face. I began to be more short with her and our relationship took a turn for the worst. I thought everything was fine until one day a couple weeks before I left that she came in my bedroom as I woke up and said she wanted to be single the next year. She said the way I had been acting, the distance, and everything made her want this. I went through many stages of falling apart, anger, upset, numb, happy, just every emotion. A few weeks ago I got to school and my feelings stabilized. I realized that this is a girl worth fighting for. I took a look at myself and the way I had acted to push her away. I think God forced me to make the decision to leave to better myself and now I feel like I can be the most amazing boyfriend to her. I’m now going back home because I don’t feel this is the place for me right now. This decision was not because of her, but it doesn’t hurt that the love of my life is there. She’s been kind of seeing somebody now. She says she likes him but still loves me. She asks me why I’d deserve a second chance after hurting her. She says maybe in a few years we can try again. I know I’ve changed and I know that our relationship is right. I know I can be everything this girl could ever want. I know her better than anyone in the world. We are still best friends. I’m afraid she’s already written me off because she is unsure and doesn’t want to be hurt again, even though she hasn’t told me this. I’m going back in a few days and I’ve gotten her to go to dinner with me this upcoming weekend. She says its strictly as friends. I want to show her I can be a great boyfriend but how can I do this as just a friend? How can I show her I’ve changed and will always make her happy? What about this other guy, I’ve been supportive but how do I approach it? If you’ve read this far then I really appreciate it and I look forward to hearing back. Thanks.
No need to be a dick Linah. Thanks to everyone else who’s taking me seriously
@ LM: correction, shes not with another guy just seeing him. she says she doesn’t want to be his girlfriend even though hes asked…makes me think even more shes confused as to what to do

Tags: anger, best friends, couple weeks, Dealing With A Breakup, emotion, Fall In Love, feelings, freshman year, girl worth, god, Love Of My Life, relationship, second chance, senior year, slap in the face, sophomore year

My spouse and I have been separated for a few days and my son and I will be flying to go live with my parents for awhile. My spouse fell out of love with me and he refuses to work on our marriage. He says I can come home anytime I want and he’ll try and make an effort but he can’t guarantee he’ll love me again. I still love him with all my heart and sad and heartbroken. I’ve tried over the years to communicate with him but he has trouble communicating with me and he snaps at me and he has anger issues. I’ve made more of an effort to save my marriage than he has. I’m having trouble keeping myself busy and moving on to get over this emotional pain. It’s very hard.
I know you’re going to say to get counseling. I already know that. I just want opinions here first.

Tags: anger issues, counseling, emotional pain, Fall In Love, few days, Guarantee, heart, love, marriage, parents

I’m just not interested anymore. I go out on my own and well I don’t get butterflies in my tummy for him anymore…

Tags: butterflies, Fall In Love

we recently broke up…casue i wanted this..he was much in love with me..then i wanted to be again with him but he told me that this breaking up killed all his feelings for me..despite this we are still together..i still love him…what to do to make him fall in love again. Lately he refused sex cause he wanted to watch match..and i was shocked cause we already started our sexual life..which he cliamed he really loved..:-( i am really depressed help me..please!

Tags: Fall In Love, feelings, Guy Sex, love, Match, Sex 101, sexual life

was this meant to be?

im 14 years old, im a girl and there is this 16 year old boy, theres too much to say about the whole time i met him… so ill try to make it short,

i fell for him like exactly 10 times, but the last time was really different he changed atleast i thought he did, he acted like a different person someone, he wanted sex mostly all the other times i went out with him, like 3 or 4 weeks ago, we got back together which we arent anymore because he wanted sex again, we kissed and it wasnt just a kiss more of a tounge kiss, the next day we typed to each other and he said i didnt know what i was doing i was sick that night i kissed you, do guys ever change, should i move on or give him another chance, but im sick of him but then again who can foget about your real love? i dont know anymore, we said iloveyou to each other but i guess i should move along, right?

WHAT GOES THROUGH A 16 YEAR OLD BOYS MIND?

Tags: 16 year old boys, Fall In Love, kiss, last time, love, Sex 101, whole time

I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex. They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.
I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.
I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon. He admitted that he was scared and holding back. How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?

Tags: compliments, Fall In Love, falling in love, Faults, four months, freedom, heart, powerful thing, pretty girl, relationship, rush, time frame

i really fell in love with him. i’m 22 years old and that was the first time in my life where i felt so lost and out of control. i can’t really describe it. i couldn’t sleep, i had a few anxiety attacks, and my heart was always beating like crazy everytime i see him.. i was really happy.
we started dating and everything went well. then a month later he told me that he has a girlfriend all this time… and he apologised.. that was the last time i talked to him
i couldn’t get over him. i was so upset.
i know i can move on. it’s easy for me to find someone to have a fling with…
but will i ever fall in love like that again?
or was that the end for me?
i feel so bitter now…

Tags: 22 years, anxiety attacks, Fall In Love, Fling, girlfriend, heart, Heart Love, last time, love, sleep, time in my life

its been 1 year of our relationship..and now its become pretty monotonous..the spark or charm which was there before seems to have gone..my bf does not call as frequently as he used 2 before,he doesn’t always do what i tell him 2 do…he tries both but he does have problems..we have had fights before..but we appologised and stuff..thats ok..but its like he is bored of me..and sometimes even i feel like having an affair with some other guy..he takes me for granted..he knows i am there for him..he thinks he can do whatever he likes…please tell me how i can make him fall in love with me all over again…just like the 1st time it happened..i wanna arouse the same urgency in him as there was before…please help..thank you

Tags: bf, Bored, Fall In Love, having an affair, love, relationship, urgency

My husband of 3 years is talking to another girl. He knows I know. We still live together, but we are not talking to each other at all. What are some things I can do differently, or things I can do to get him to fall in love with me again, while we are not speaking? Please Help

Tags: 3 years, Fall In Love, love