This guy rejected me in several ways: rejecting my presents, saying I’m like a sister to him, telling me he has never liked me and will never like me.
I was head over heels for him, and I did all my best to stay close to him. As a friend he was always nice, but at some point I really thought he liked me because he said so to his friends.
One month ago he announced that he wanted to date a girl (not me). I was devastated, and decided it was time to move on (I had liked him for more than one year, and we have known each other for almost 2 years).
My family and friends managed to convince me that this guy is not good for me, and basically tried to make me see his negative side.
I cut contact with him and his friends, in order to start a new life. Now that I finally got over him, he has texted me to say he’s sorry and he has always liked me.
Can I fall for him again? Should I move on? I feel so uncomfortable…………
Tags: Contact, family and friends, head over heels, love, Presents, several ways
i was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he put me through hell, i did everything for him i ditched my family and friends without realising it, he has knocked my confidence and know iv found out he has been cheating on me and know i want to get him back and hurt him . . . how do i do this?
Tags: 3 years, Cheating, confidence, Ex Boyfriend, family and friends, hell, Realising
I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. When we are together the chemistry is perfect and every outside influence concerning her family and friends are completely supporting our relationship and view me as "the one." The only problem is her ex-boyfriend. They dated for about 3 years off and on while he lived for away partying all the time and taking her on an emotional roller coaster. He’d tell her he’s not ready to commit because he’s scared and therefore their "thing" was solely physical every time he came to town. A couple months ago, he came back to town lived with her for a couple weeks (he had nowhere else to go) and started treating her like they were a real couple. Well when he left back to party city, he cheated on her. That was when she had enough, she was heartbroken and decided to move on. Thats when I came in the picture about a month later. Everything since then has been perfect. I have never been happier in my life since we started dating. The only problem is her ex-boyfriend is now freaking out after he heard that she has moved on with me and is telling her he is in love with her, wants her back, wants to have kids with her, and all the things she wanted to hear in the last 3 years she’s known him. Nobody, not her friends, or her family like this guy, nor has he ever made an attempt to even meet her family. I know he has the upper hand over me because of all the things they’ve been through, but where do i go from here? She is now confused about what she is supposed to do. I had a conversation with her about life and these situations and honestly, i’ve played all three roles before in the past at different times, and I know the psychology behind it and how these things work. I also told her exactly how I feel about her, how I want not only her in my life but her family and friends as well, and how genuine and pure my feelings are for her. Time has no effect on intuition or the feeling you have inside when you just know who you are meant to be with. It certainly doesn’t take 3 years of a physical off and on relationship to figure it out either. This guy is telling her that sometimes you have to lose something to figure out what you lost and everything else in the book.
So where do I go from here? She wants to stay together because she knows what we could have, but her past with him and her feelings are too much for her to handle, and she feels like she needs a break to figure out what is right for her. But this would entail her talking to him and maybe seeing him in person. Do I step aside and let her make a mistake? or what do i do?
Tags: 3 years, chemistry, couple weeks, different times, emotional roller coaster, family and friends, feelings, gf, intuition, love, party city, partying, psychology, relationship
we lived together for about six months before she told me this. she now wants no communication at all and told me to move on and date others….but when I di, she saw me and got very angry with me….I truly love her and would go back to her in a heartbeat….but how can I get her past the death of her husband and help her to love again. They were married for 14 years and he died suddenly. He has been gone for over two years now. She also lived with another man before me for approximately 6 months before she told him it was over. Her family and friends all liked me and we never had any arguements or conflicts….other than a business venture I tried and it failed….but I picked myself up and got on with the job I had before the business venture. She says that she just needs space to find herself and not have to "ANSWER" or be "RESPONSIBLE" to anyone. How should I go about getting her past her past and start living again?
Tags: arguements, business venture, Conflicts, Dating A Widow, family and friends, heartbeat, job, love, six months
So about a year ago I went to Africa to visit my family for the summer. And there I met the most incredible guy, and I reeeally liked him but never thought to seriously of it at first because long distance relationship wasn’t even an option in mind. But after he took me on a string of dates I really started to fall in love. He was so sweet and always looked after me….but eventually the time came for me to head back to the u.s. We kept talkin but it was hard. He asked me to marry him but i told him no because i felt it was too early, and that I was too young to make such a serious commitment (i’m 21 now, 20 at the time). Also i was getting alot of pressure from family and friends to move on because of the distance and the fact that i shudnt just up and marry the first guy i dated. So we kept breaking up and getting back together. I went to visit him again for christmas and things were just as if i had never left…But as soon as I came back home the communication had slowed. I was really upset and decided to just break things off for good (cuz i felt like i was young and wasting my life after one guy)….Fast forward two months, I really started to miss him. He seemed like wat every body had to say didn’t matter anymore cuz all i thought about was him, I didn’t care about the other guys taht liked me. At first he was really hesistant to talk to me ( i thought b/c i had hurt him) but he said it was becuz during our break he had slept with his ex and got her pregnant…
This Devastated ME!!! I cried for nights asking God why. Blaming myself more than anything. He treated me like a queen, with unconditional love that no other man has ever shown me, and was my first love. Now it seems like no other man can compare. I still cry myself to sleep thinking about him sumtimes and wishing somehow things could be the way they were…I’ve never been so close to another human being in my life. And it sucks cuz he’s even met my family which is a big deal. And even tho we kept taking breaks I always thought we wud end up together somehow…
Now I’m heartbroken and wonder if I’ll ever find such Love like that again??? Help
Tags: africa, alot, christmas, Cuz, Distance Relationship, family and friends, first love, god, long distance relationship, love, Met, Pregnant, queen, sleep, tho, unconditional love, wasting my life
