Married two years he left me over a month ago. I feel he was angry at me a lot and often showed a horrible temper yelling pushing me and some throwing things around. He says he yells cuz I don’t listen and that I’m not soft enough and call him on everything and make him feel like I’m his mom. Yes I have faults and probably was snappy at him a few times. But the abusive stuff I don’t think should happen! But I always apologized and took on the blame to stop his threats of leaving me.

Well he left all I can think of how much I miss him. And that I’ll never find anyone again. Yet I’m very attractive and have a good job friends family etc

He was often mad I wouldn’t have his kid. He says his dream is to have a family (yet before marriage he said as long as i have u)
I always say stop yelling and threatening to leave me for six months and we can have a kid. He never has.

Yesterday I spoke to him more and said I wanted a family too but need us to be stronger together. He has texted me back saying "ok to get me back you must have a kid in next six months. Then he will be mine forever.". He said he isn’t giving up on his dream. I said back to him I wanted to think about it and he wrote back "what part of I want a kid asap don’t you understand?" he
Said fine think about it but that he will keep looking for a replacement for me in the meantime. He went on a dating site two weeks after leaving me.

This could be my only chance at a kid I’m 39…. I know it doesn’t sound right but I really fear losing him
Help!

Tags: bad idea, Bad Marriage, dating site, Faults, friends family, good job, Lot, marriage, mom, six months, Snappy, temper

For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house alot. My wife who has two beautiful daughters who i raised as my own is considering a divorce in June. She says the last past year i have not been myself she says i have been mean and angry alot. At times i have been verbal abusive to her. I know my sins regret them and feel shame on myself and the things i have said. It has not been easy on me and i handled the stress terribly. I told her not to think of the bad things but to look at the whole picture and the 7 years we had together. I do love her, and I am man enough to see my faults. She says she doesnt love me anymore and wants her space. She has been staying at a friends house over the weekends. She says no matter what she does it wasnt a easy decision. She says she is miserable and feels unloved. I tell her everyday that i love her. I want to be and i know i can be a better man and a better husband than i have been. If i knew she was this unhappy i would of done something about it sooner. She says she is thinking about it but it hasnt changed her mind. I want to get her a mothers day card what should i say to show her i still love her and that im sorry for the pain? Can I save this marriage. If so how do i go about doing it?

Tags: better man, divorce, Faults, House Wife, job, Lost, love, marriage, money, mothers day card, shame, stress, unloved

I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex. They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.
I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.
I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon. He admitted that he was scared and holding back. How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?

Tags: compliments, Fall In Love, falling in love, Faults, four months, freedom, heart, powerful thing, pretty girl, relationship, rush, time frame

About 5 weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me because he couldn’t take the cycle of us fighting each other every week. I couldn’t too, but I was the type to never give up. I was so shocked and emotionally out of control. A week after that, (I know this was a big booboo since I wasn’t emotionally ready yet and I was just afraid he’d start to "forget" me) we met up and I gave him a letter containing my apology, an explanation, the fact that I’m still willing to make it work between us, and asked for another chance. We could try it his way, without rushing the relationship like I did. He gave me a reply a whole week after saying that we were just too different, specifically on how we viewed love and relationships, and he just doesn’t think we’re both what each other wanted – at least at this point in our lives. We just weren’t emotionally equipped to handle each other and it’s unfair if we jump back into another relationship if we’re not ready. He says we both need a lot of growing up to do. "It’s better the way things are now." He said sorry, but that’s what he truly believed.

I replied three days after, thanking him for everything and agreeing with the breakup. I did sincerely mean it. But I’m afraid I made the letter sound as if it was a "goodbye forever" letter. It’s going to be 3 weeks since we haven’t corresponded and in that time, I’ve learned to calm down and evaluate everything again. I came to realize my faults and his. And I’m making a conscious effort to adjust my bad habits too. I think I’m getting to the "anger" part, after which, I know I should start forgiving. I’m giving myself 2 more weeks to settle my emotions down but I’m pretty confident, I’ll be good to go by then.

I’m planning on trying to contact him again, when I’m ready. But I’m a bit apprehensive because I’m not exactly sure what he meant when he said "at least at this point of our lives." Is 1 month too soon for him? How much more time do you think he needs? Also, how do I start approaching him?

Tags: anger, Apology, bad habits, big booboo, Booboo, conscious effort, emotions, Faults, love, relationship, relationships, reply

Lots of people have like love poems and sayings Not like short quotes. But ones about love. If you have any please share

Examples

im just a girl whos in love
with the most ..
amazing,
cutest,
funnniest,
nicest,
& completely perfect
guy in the world

or like
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??
It isn’t love, it’s like.
You can’t keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??
It isn’t love, it’s lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off??
It isn’t love, it’s luck.
Do you want them because you know they’re there??
It isn’t love, it’s loneliness.
Are you there because it’s what everyone wants??
It isn’t love, it’s loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??
It isn’t love, it’s low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don’t want to hurt them??
It isn’t love, it’s pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??
It isn’t love, its infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??
It isn’t love, it’s friendship.
Do you tell them everyday they are the only one you think of??
It isn’t love, it’s a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??
It isn’t love, it’s charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they’re sad??
Then it’s love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re strong??
Then it’s love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts??
Then it’s love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there??
Then it’s love.
Do you accept their faults because they’re a part of who they are??
Then it’s love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death??
Then it’s love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple because it’s LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others.

Random stuff bout love like that.

Tags: amp, charity, Confessions, confessions of love, confidence, facebook, Faults, favorite things, friendship, heart, infatuation, loneliness, Love Notes, love poems, loyalty, Lust, palms, quotes, sake, sayings, share examples, true heart