Think about it:

How would you feel if your DAD met up with your ex husband or ex boyfriend behind your back even though you are re-married and happy? Say your Dad knew about meeting up with him for a few days and didn’t tell you. Say he had dinner with him and than decides to call you and tell you about it. How would that make you feel?

Tags: dad, Ex Boyfriend, few days, Met

my ex boyfriend just recently broke up with me to go with another girl.now we have naw naw im not going to say all that its a looooooooong story.now im going to tell wat just recently recently happened.i asked him to be ma friend and he kept saying no so i kept on asking him until i said he’s not going to give in.so like some days after that .he called so i thought he was over my best friend’s house alexis and she was calling me from his phone.but it was him.so he said he was sorry for ignoring ma texts and calls.and he apologized some more.then he said do i accept hisz apology and i did.so then we were friends.then some days after that that a few days ago or a week ago i asked him did he tell my friend jasmine wat me and him did.so his friend nick said no this nick.so after that he said bye nick didnt say that my ex did.so i asked like 5 times why are mad why are you mad .so he kept saying bye and i tried calling him and texting saying hi and thtat’s all i put and he hasnt texted or called me back.do u think if i stop calling him and texting for a while he will call back or text back saying sorry.

Tags: 13 years, alexis, Apology, best friend, few days, friend nick, jasmine, texts

Ok so me and my girlfriend where going out for a bit more than a year befor we broke up. A few days befor we broke up we where in a fight and she started hanging out with this guy because she knows I don’t like him but a few days later she brokeup with m. Since then she stopped talking to him completaly actually she rilly doesn’t like him anymore but now she has a completaly new group of friends and I hate two of the girls with a pashion. We still talk and say we miss eachother and are on the verge of getting back together a few times but then something happens and we fight and stop talking for a day then were talking and repeat. But most of the tim the fight comes because she says she is gonna leave the two friends I hate behind so she can be with me we make plans to hangout at lunch (in school) and she doesn’t hangout with them all day but just befor we go to meet she goes and hangs out with the two girls again and I say she lied blah blah blah we get in a fight then the next day were getting along again. Right now were in a fight again because yesterday the same thin I described happened and when we where almost made up I foundout she lied to me about who she was with last night and it was a dif guy I don’t like her being around because of how he acts. So I hot mad and were fighting again and she said not to talk to her ever again but that was only emotions because it’s happened beor and I think if I tx her tomorrow she will be ok with me gain like it has been like… But this time the last txt sent was from me and I said basicly that she just used her last chance of picking er friends over me because Im gonna not talk to her and be indapendant and see what happens if she trys to makeup with me instead of me trying. Do you think I should do what I said about waiting? And what should I do to get her back? (and hopfully get rid of those two girls that are her new friends).

Tags: eachother, emotions, ex girlfriend, few days, girlfriend, girls, last chance, lunch, makeup, new friends, pashion, rilly, those two girls, two friends, verge

Hi everyone! I broke up with my now-ex boyfriend within the past few days, and although I am recovering from the break up very well, I still wonder what may have gone wrong, and how can I be friends with him or ultimately get back together. Or should we get back together, and would it work?

First off, he broke up with his previous girlfriend a few days before he asked me out. He had not seen her in several weeks, so he already deemed that relationship over. But, and I wonder if this is a factor, he was never officially single after that, so I wonder if that affected his choices later. The first month we dated were blissful, and even though we were very different, we got along great, and both of us saw a long relationship in front of us. We were together constantly. Marriage was out of the question, as we both knew we are too young for it.
About a month into the relationsip however, he started to worry that we would not last long. He felt as if he was lying to me because he decided that he didn’t see a future for us. He was as nice as he could be, and felt bad for letting me down. I did my best to remind him that even though we had our differences, we still got along great, and could make it work. But after about a month, during which we still dated as before, he told me that he didn’t believe he could love me, that the ‘spark’ wasn’t there anymore, and we should take a break to think about it. I did not agree, as breaks were codeword for (im going to dump you later) and I ended it, even though it broke my heart. He really wanted to remain friends though, which I agreed to. After our first class together after the breakup, he seemed sad that I couldn’t stick around like we had before we started dating. I am recovering, and he is too, but here is what i sill wonder:

When can I talk to him again without risking a future relationship? How should I go about it? If we decide to give it another shot, what can we do differently to hopefully keep the ‘spark’ going? If he (or I, or both) decide that a relationship cannot happen, can we be friends? How?

Thank you so much for any help you can give. Please be honest though. I find that people ( such as myself ) are much more likely to listen to a neutral party that can give a fair answer without being biased Thanks again!

Tags: choices, Ex Boyfriend, few days, first class, Friends, girlfriend, heart, I 98, marriage, relationship

Well, my ex broke up with me a few days ago. Weve been together for over a year, and were living together. Now I want her back. That’s my goal. Why we broke up: Sometimes I take out my anger on her and it’s unfair to her.. I don’t need advice on this I am changing it now, with therapy.( Please note I am not a sick monster or an abuser I just hide myself away when I’m mad or be bitchy towards her). Now, I’ve told her I’m moving out, and she keeps insisting for me to stay and be her friend and live with her until rent is up on May 1st and she has to find a new place. She called me last night to come over to cuddle and watch a movie. Are these games? I’m afraid she wants me as a friend to heal. I’m planning on moving back to my parents today. Should I? Or should I stay and spend the next 16 days to show her I will change and hope she will take me back. I need a gameplan. I want her back. She tells me it is clear she is not my girlfriend anymore, and shes sick of giving me second chances to treat her better. I know this is the biggest shock of my life, and I know I am changing, as I have started taking the steps towards it. I read online to get your gf back you must spend time apart and let her miss you, is this true? Because right now I feel if I stay I will only help her heal, and it will give me false hope which will further mess me up. When I slept with her the past 2 nights she was okay with cuddling, but last night I couldnt handle this mindfuck so I slept on the floor. I want her back. Teach me. Willing to do anything.

Tags: anger, Cuddling, ex girlfriend, false hope, few days, gameplan, games, gf, girlfriend, mindfuck, monster, parents, second chances, shock, these games