My fiancee decided to cut off our engagement in June and break up with me after being together over 4 years because she said she needed to find herself in life. Needless to say, I loved this girl more than anything, and I thought she was madly in love with me and still am very very upset over this. I have not heard from her since November . I signed up on Match.com about two months ago, I have been on a few good dates and many bad ones. I honestly miss my ex SO MUCH. But it is so hard for me, she completely phased me out of her life. How can I help myself to move on. In the past , the very few times I tried to contact her, were never responded to. And when I mean very few, I mean, I called her 2 times since September. i sent her flowers for her birthday on January 16th. It is so hard for me to move on. I still cannot get over the fact that the girl who was going to marry me, now does not even acknowledge that I am alive and avoids every attempt for me just to chat. Need Help!!

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This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

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Im 29 and engaged to my fiance who i have been with for 8yrs, engaged for 2, she is 26 and had our first baby in december. I am crazy about her and cant imagine my life without her or my son. She comes from a very dysfunctional family who are alcoholic’s & many of their marriages have ended from cheating etc, they basically had to raise themselves, she never wanted to be like them but growing up she told me she was very rebellious. She dated this certain guy when she was 14 and they are still friends now, they broke up when she was 17 and i was told from some of my fiances friends that he was crazy in love with her and he was her first sexual partner, was always hands on her etc. I only started to get to know her when they dated and when they had broken up. I told her 2yrs ago that i couldn’t stand him & his cockiness’s she agreed to remove him from her life but from the stories her friends told me i questioned her which led to arguments and she eventually became friends with him again, I got really pissed off with her and she told me that i have to trust her with him that they are just friends. I can see how he looks at her and i overheard him tell some guys that he never stopped loving her, never fully got over her when she dumped him & that she was the best he had,. He is very arrogant & a player but seems to still be protective of her which he always has been, I want to punch him when he gets too close to her or touches her arm in passing, checks out her ass or when she is sitting down and he leans over the table talking to her like he did when they dated has a smirk on his face when he looks in my direction, i even hate when he holds my kid. I work shift hours as im a firefighter & I love her so much but deep down from her families past having bad reputation’s and the history they have together & i hate myself for saying it, i don’t know if i fully trust her & if she knew that she would definitely leave to make me make up my mind. I cant help feeling this way and its driving me crazy. Any advice?

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Of course, the question that should of been addressed, also, why do women dump men? What about it people? Is it not about the only thing that is the same with women and men? You get married and then divorced; why? If you do not commit to a lifetime, then some will say you never did commit.. and this makes sense. I ask you why marriage is so hard? Look at the laws and see why anyone would want to marry! Example: If you went overseas and found a shakeup partner,, she can come any time as a tourist.. But if you have a fiancee or a wife, what then? She is not allowed in the United States! This is absolute fact! Prostitutes welcome and can work for the MOB asap! The MOB got around the idea of hiring men to marry, and used who, to do it? Check the votes and check what was supported! What party is connected to the MOB? Who killed John and who killed Bobby? You are not that naive, are you? Their own party! The FBI wire taps support this! Media supports what? They finally had access to these and said what? Just a start of how I will show that Communism is more prevalent here than in the former USSR. I will prove it. This is a warning and not anything that should be removed. But we know we allow Communists and have since our Nations founding. I support this, but not accepting lies that we may never hear from Liberals or the media. Harsh words, but I am not lying and will never, ever stop tellin the truth. It is not what or who I may support, it is what was and is! Earl

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