She’s the only girl i loved so far in life.

i fell in love with this girl 3 years ago and she left to move schools forever, but still three years on she’s the only girl i ever loved all my friends at school always forget about their crush what they have on girls and move on or just settle for someone else, so my question is should i settle for some else or has anyone else been in the same boat and can you tell me how long did it take to get over your first love.

Tags: 3 years, Fall In Love, first love, friends at school, girls, Love Girl

My ex and I broke up on good terms and decided to be friends. He was my first love. However, he doesn’t seem to really want to be friends because he doesn’t ever txt me or anything, so I feel like its a one way friendship. Now I just want to know how I can get over him and move on. But I still want to be on good terms with him.

Tags: first love, friendship, Getting Over An Ex

I am 25 years old and I have been in love with the same boy for over 8 years now. I fell in love at 16 and have never fallen out. He was my first love, first everything, and we were in a relationship for 3 years, then on and off, and everything in between for a couple more years. I still talk to him every once in a while, and since he’s gotten a new girlfriend, I haven’t seen him in months. I cut off all contact with him a few months ago, because it hurt too bad to just be friends, but then I couldn’t stop thinking about him, and decided that I’d rather have him in my life as a friend then not in my life at all.
I thought I had moved on… I was in a serious long relationship from 2007-2009, and even had a child with that person, but we are no longer together. I have dated a few guys in between, but nothing has never compared to my first. I am still, and have always been deeply, deeply in love with my first.
I am having a terrible time coping and dealing with the fact that he is in love with his current girlfriend, who he has talked about marrying. I try to act happy for him, because we are good friends and will always support each other and be happy for one another. I don’t think he still has the same feelings for me as I do for him, so that makes it hard for me to express how I feel about him, and also because he is in a relationship and I feel it would be inappropriate for me to have the "I am still in love with you" talk with him now.
Truth is, I cry myself to sleep every single night over him, and don’t remember the last day I didn’t shed tears over my heartbreak and how much I miss him and long for the past when we were together. I have tried to move on, accept the fact that that was then and this is now, but I can’t. I feel like he has a huge chunk of my heart and I am so incomplete. All I want is him. We have not been together in over 4 years now, just good friends, and I feel like 4 years should be plenty of time for these feelings to die down, but it really feels as though my pain gets worse every day. I don’t know what to do anymore. They say time heals all wounds, but this pain is not going away. Will it ever?

Tags: 3 years, 8 years, Act, broken heart, chunk, Contact, couple more years, Express, feelings, first love, good friends, heart, heartbreak, new girlfriend, quot, relationship, Shed, sleep, truth

I’ve heard many stories where years past and then the first loves meet up and end up together for the long run. My first love and I broke up last week. Id love to get back together and fix our problem of bickering, but im not sure thats going to happen at the moment. in time I hope we can meet paths are end up together for good.
What are the chances of this happening? Does it happen often?

Tags: first love, moment in time

ok so we broke up in march but pretty much february considering she cheated on me, but anyways we were together for about 8 months or so, and now juss to tell u, she was my first love, first person to have sex with, first with alotta things…now to my knowledge we broke up to go out and be free and not be tied down cuz were still young, I’m 19 and she’s 18…but wen I found out she cheated on me, she lied to me on y she wanted to break up..she pretty much broke up with me to make her and tha dude she cheated me on with public and official…and then after we broke up, I have no idea y but she deletes me off myspace..and I was like okay but my friend has her on myspace and he showed me her page and it says that her and her new bf(tha dude she cheated me on with) were together since february….funny thing is, is that I met this kid before..them two r friends..well more then friends now..but i even asked her many times after we broke up that if there was anything goin on between him and her and she kept saying no…and she lied to my face on that cuz she didn’t know I saw her page…soo lonnnng story short, the whole relationship was a lie, she cheated on me, and lied about cheating on me…idk how much more this girl can tear my heart apart but she’s doing hell of a good job!!!…now anyways I’m still hurt by all this of course, but I do what everyone says to do, cut off all contact, I don’t text, call nothing wit her!!!! and I have been for the longest time but the problem is that we work together so I see her whenever she works..and that’s the only time!!! now idk I’m doing somewhat good with this broken heart,but I have my moments where I get all emotional and shit and there r times where I’m perfectly fine…now I juss have alotta anger towards her cuz of all this..and I know it’s normal for this but I don’t think I fully let it out, like in a constructive way, cuz I juss don’t talk about our break up really to anyone cuz I thought not talking about it might help but idk, I have my sad moments….I’m not an angry person or nothing but I juss don’t think I let it out all the way..anyone have some ideas of what I can do…OMG NOW IF U READ THIS, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!! I’m sorry I wrote soo much

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