This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.
But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.
He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.
My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.
But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.
Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.
Tags: best friends, Big Help, Ex Boyfriend, four months, happiest day of my life, love, Refrain, relationship, relationships, reply, senior year, techi
