Without saying move on, find someone else, go to gym! I can’t even breath or make myself get out of the bed. I can’t function like a normal person…Please any advice…
It is not at first! It’s been 5 months now and sometimes its getting better, sometimes I can’t do anything. I’ve lost 40lbs and now I am finally back to my friends and family. I changed 4 jobs in last 6 weeks, and I am just such a mess…

Tags: 5 months, Break, divorce, friends and family, jobs

My exboyfriend and I broke up the beginning of this year. I had recently just went through a serious operation and he was by my side, but I didn’t feel the same way about him anymore so I left him while I went through recovery.

He was furious, calling me names, threatening to tell my friends and family about the operation (a very big secret I chose to keep to myself.) I stupidly told him we could be friends and we were for a couple of months, but during those months he would call me every day, telling me what to do and what not to do and if i didn’t comply, he threatened to call my house and tell my mom about my surgery. He would leave my voicemails telling me he was going to kill himself unless i talked to him. I finally told him we couldn’t talk anymore and I changed my number.

My mom ended up finding out about my surgery and we got through it together, but my ex still calls my house and asks for me, begging for me to talk to him. My mom doesn’t let him know that I am home when he calls, but she does tell me that he keeps calling. He called last night at midnight and told my mom he was worried about my "financial, mental and phsyical health." My mom asked me about it and I told her I havent talked to him in over a month, which is true.

I plan on moving out next month with one of my good friends, but I want him out of my life for good and I want him to stop calling my home. My mom told me NOT to contact him, no matter what happens, but does anybody have any good advice? He threatened me before that he would just "show up" at my work and "surprise" me, but this was months ago and he hasnt done it yet. If anybody has any suggestions, I could greatly appreciate it.

Has anybody been in this situation? Do you know why he is like this, is there anything I can do?

Tags: 101 Names, calling me names, exboyfriend, friends and family, good advice, good friends, Health, mom, surprise, voicemails

My wife and I separated a year and a half ago during a very rough period in our lives (financially), after eight years of marriage. We have two kids together and haven’t divorced yet. After about a year we started dating other people; we really could not see eye to eye and i was almost sure she hated me. I must also mention that i could not stomach seeing my children around her choice of new "friends". ? Yes, they hang out with our kids..
Just a couple of weeks ago I finally came to accept my share of the fault and mistakes in our marriage. I have realized that we turned down help and advice from friends and family and I now regret very much that we did not give it a chance. Since we have gotten over our tension towards each other, we’ve discussed the possibility starting over. I feel that I do not love her anymore even though I care about her very much that I am willing to truly give it a second chance, she tells me that she feels the same way about me. The other reason is that we just miss our kids and having a family too much, even though we have shared custody 50/50. I fear that we are feeling this way because we hate being alone and if things do not work out, of course our kids are going to be disappointed and affected emotionally. Where do we start, should we start dating again? seek counseling? or are we setting ourselves up for failure?
Has anyone had a similar experience?

Tags: counseling, eye to eye, failure, friends and family, marriage, rough period, second chance, Stomach, tension

For the past few days, my ex has been wanting to break up with me. I kept asking for one more chance. He gave. But after that, he will be very very cold towards me. It hurts me a lot, then i will be hurt and cry. after hearing me cry, he will be irritated. then want to break up again. Now he really broke up with me. He chased me out of the house and his mum asked me not to call him again and give him his breathing space. My ex said that i was suffocating him by demanding a lot of attention and he has no time for his work and friends and family. He said im torturing him and he really wants to end the relationship badly. Please give me advice on how to make him come back to me. I need him badly. He is like the love of my life. Will not disturbing him like calling or messaging him works? Please help

Tags: breathing space, Ex Boyfriend, few days, friends and family, love, Love Of My Life, relationship

I brokeup with my boyfriend of six months last Sunday. It was a mutual, and amicable breakup but was done very hastily and impulsively on my part because I was hurting so much. I knew eventually we would breakup because we had too many issues and ultimately realized we weren’t meant for each other (We had planned to get engaged over the holidays). I never wanted to cut things off between us completely, though. I keep having thoughts of calling him just to get some closure, but I’ve been advised by friends and family not to do that. I’ve been hurting so much all week and I keep seeing and thinking about things that remind me of him. Any advice on how to heal my heart?

Tags: closure, friends and family, heart, holidays, last sunday, six months, thinking about things, Weren