Wall of text incoming!
So my friend, lets call her Sue, has been my friend for a long time and has started going out with a new guy, let’s call him Jack. Now, Sue introduced me to Jack and I got to be really good friends with him. Early in the relationship, Jack cheated on Sue. Jack kissed another girl, which was big because of Jack and Sue’s lack of much physical contact. But, Jack didn’t ever tell Sue about this and it’s just been realized what has happened these past few days, several months later. I personally think Sue should forgive Jack. This is because I’ve talked to Jack and just know his personality, and I believe he genuinely loves Sue and is very sorry. However, Sue’s family and all of her friends disagree, and I didn’t believe it myself until a few days ago when I talked with Jack about it. I told Sue this and I think she discussed it with her friends and family, and because I was once also against Jack but now am not, I think they are mad at me, which I don’t want.
As I sad before, I talked about this with Sue, and she will NOT be together with someone who cheated on her, even though he has gone as far as apologizing and giving her a ‘sorry’ gift in front of her sister, mom, and lots of friends, which in my opinion, takes a lot of guts. I also think that Sue is mad at me now.
Now I feel like I just can’t win. I told Jack I would try to talk to Sue, and I did, but it didn’t end up the way Jack was hoping, so he’ll be mad at me. I think that Sue and her family, who once deeply trusted me, no longer trust me, and I’m afraid that both parties, who I was once friends with, are not anymore.
I guess I changed my view on Jack, and I’m afraid that people won’t like me because of it. And suggestions on how I can get myself out of the large hole I’ve dug myself into?
Tags: few days, friends and family, good friends, guts, large hole, long time, personality, relationship, sister mom
