I have been w/ my gf for over 6 years, we have been through everything and she has just told me she dosnt love me anymore

Im so down i dont feel like doing anything, all i can do is cry, we where due to be married in september and now its over i just feel so down please i need advice.

How can i get her to love me again, how can i get over her, will i ever find love again?

Thanks heaps

Tags: 6 years, Advice, gf, heaps, Will I Ever Find Love

Does "no contact" work if you are trying to have a 2nd chance with your ex boyfriend? He broke up with me a few days ago. he said he makes spur of the moment rash decisions and said the next day he could have made a mistake and then i asked him if he was happy with his decision and he said "not really, i’m impartial". i feel he’s conflicted. i haven’t contacted him since that conversation and neither has he. is it likely if i keep not contacting him he will think i am moving on and he’ll realize what i mean to him? if i am missing him, is it likely he’s missing me too??
how often does this work and how often do ex’s that dump their bf/gf end up wanting them back?

Tags: Contact, few days, gf, mistake, rash decisions

Hi,
I was very close to a friend, became mad about him and was rejected badly!
We stayed friends for 5 years, then he decided he was interested we went out for a while but months later went on hols with friends where i found out he didnt really have those feelings at all. We fell out for a year.
Then we became friends again, moved in together as i needed a new tenant and he needed to move out, and its been brilliant. We live together very well, it works well for both of us.
But we’ve never brought anyone else home. And i know if he ever did, as much as i’d like to think i would be civil i know i would have a heart attack and probably move out on the spot.
However ive lived with a few people and he is by the far the easiest best tenant ever so my old feelings are being a nuisance, and i dont let myself ever think about it, but every time he comes home i stop breathing trying to hear that hes definetely alone until i can breathe again.
Is this really bad? Other than this, i’m not a bunny boiler or neurotic or jealous type of girl, never was even as a gf, so thats why im half laughing at this but its bothering me though.
I mean my heart nearly stops if i think he has someone else in his room even though he never does anyway. I can’t go out with him, he has no romantic feelings for me at all thats why i broke up with him. He was horrible in the end and i was devastated for months but every day i missed him badly, not as a boyfriend, but i missed his company as a best friend, and thats why i thought living together would be ok, i thought theres no way i’ll be stupid enough to fall for him again when i do not want him as a b/f.
I just never want to know, see or hear him with another girl.. thats all….
On the other hand, he wouldn’t blink if i brought a man back one night, but i wouldnt do it though with him in the next room.. i couldn’t.

Tags: best friend, bunny boiler, definetely, feelings, Friends, gf, heart attack, hols, Housemate, jealous type, love, nuisance, old feelings, romantic feelings, type of girl

I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. When we are together the chemistry is perfect and every outside influence concerning her family and friends are completely supporting our relationship and view me as "the one." The only problem is her ex-boyfriend. They dated for about 3 years off and on while he lived for away partying all the time and taking her on an emotional roller coaster. He’d tell her he’s not ready to commit because he’s scared and therefore their "thing" was solely physical every time he came to town. A couple months ago, he came back to town lived with her for a couple weeks (he had nowhere else to go) and started treating her like they were a real couple. Well when he left back to party city, he cheated on her. That was when she had enough, she was heartbroken and decided to move on. Thats when I came in the picture about a month later. Everything since then has been perfect. I have never been happier in my life since we started dating. The only problem is her ex-boyfriend is now freaking out after he heard that she has moved on with me and is telling her he is in love with her, wants her back, wants to have kids with her, and all the things she wanted to hear in the last 3 years she’s known him. Nobody, not her friends, or her family like this guy, nor has he ever made an attempt to even meet her family. I know he has the upper hand over me because of all the things they’ve been through, but where do i go from here? She is now confused about what she is supposed to do. I had a conversation with her about life and these situations and honestly, i’ve played all three roles before in the past at different times, and I know the psychology behind it and how these things work. I also told her exactly how I feel about her, how I want not only her in my life but her family and friends as well, and how genuine and pure my feelings are for her. Time has no effect on intuition or the feeling you have inside when you just know who you are meant to be with. It certainly doesn’t take 3 years of a physical off and on relationship to figure it out either. This guy is telling her that sometimes you have to lose something to figure out what you lost and everything else in the book.

So where do I go from here? She wants to stay together because she knows what we could have, but her past with him and her feelings are too much for her to handle, and she feels like she needs a break to figure out what is right for her. But this would entail her talking to him and maybe seeing him in person. Do I step aside and let her make a mistake? or what do i do?

Tags: 3 years, chemistry, couple weeks, different times, emotional roller coaster, family and friends, feelings, gf, intuition, love, party city, partying, psychology, relationship

i’m 18 years old. i’m a Filipino
I’ve been in a serious relationship w/ my gf but then we broke up. how will i forget her,? how can i able to move-on? it’s very difficult for me to lose her but i have no choice but to stay apart from her. we broke up because she don’t like me anymore. i Don’t know what’s the reason. i did all my best just stay her from me.. i cared for her a lot. i gave all my love .. i gave all my time. i gave all my attention a gave everything!!! she didn’t appreciate it all….. i’m very dissaponted because i promise to myself that whatever happen i won’t give up on her because i love her so much!! i can’t explain why i love her so much. maybe i’m feeling the real love.. i’m so depress, i feel so bad. i can’t eat, i can’t sleep at night . what should i do? what are the things am i going to do to forget her? how much time will i spend to move-on? give me more advice. please help me to become strong.

Tags: 18 years, broken heart, gf, Lot 105, love, serious relationship, sleep