Hey Im 26 and living in London.
Im having a dilemma with an ex of me. Can someone give me a bit of advice or tips on what i should do?

Introduction out of the way first, 4 years ago I was introduced to a girl through my friend. We got on great and went out for a month or so and then went our separate ways. About a year later we got back talking and we were boyfriend/girlfriend. She then got accepeted to a year long university course in America, we said we would stay together. We did for a few weeks and I broke it off once I heard she had slept with another fella a few days after arriving in America.

She is home now and we have had a few late night meetings. A few times she has banged on my door in the middle of the night looking for me, blowing up my phone with messages and missed calls. One night she went to my workplace while I wasn’t working and urged my colleagues to give her my number so she could contact me.

Last week she told me that shes afraid she’ll never meet anyone like me ever again. How its tearing her apart not been with me. She say she is still attracted to me after all this time. She even said the best sex she ever had was with me. I still feel have some sort of feelings for her.

I don’t know what to do. Shes the only girl ive ever loved but at the same time I don’t know if I can trust her. Should I try it again with her? Or should I just move on? I tried my best to meet other women, keeping myself busy with work etc, but I still have not met anyone that has made me feel as good like she did.

Thanks for reading.
Cheers.

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Last year I ended my 8 year marriage to my wife for MANY reason. We were total opposite, and in different places of our lives. My family understood my reasons and were very supportive. Until I started dating again. Shortly after my divorce I started dating Jenn, younger girl from work. We NEVER had any type of relationship before my divorce. We talked now and then but that was it. She is a lot younger then me she is 22 and I am 38. Our relationship went moved very fast, when we were seeing each other for close to 3 months she found out she was pregnant. My family were horrible towards her. My sister called her a home wrecker, gold digger and a child everything she could think of. my brother says I am in a midlife crisis and that our relationship isn’t real. My mother is nice when my girl friend is there but when I am alone she is always saying things like how she is to young or how one day I will wake up and she will be gone with some one her own age. I am happy and that’s what matters. But I know how much it upset Jenn, she wants my family to like her, she wants to be close to them. She has went out of her way to be nice but they are so closed minded that they don’t care.So many times after visit with my family they have made Jenn feel so unwelcomed that she was literally cried on the drive home. I hate seeing her so upset. It is to the point now that I don’t care if we visit them at all. Which makes Jenn feel like it is her fault I am not seeing my family. My sister in law (one of the few family members that is nice to her) asked me if she would mind if she threw us a baby shower (this is the first child for both of us)and my sister was mad about it. I know jenn would love it but at the same time how rude and cold would they be towards her. My daughter is due to be born in a few weeks and I am happy and excited so is Jenn but I am afraid of the way that my family will act. I literally stress out over wondering what they coudl possible say at the hospital to upset her. How can I explain or show them how happy were are as a couple and how much pain they are causing us?

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so i have been dating my girl friend for over 8 months and i got to the point where i loved her. she wasnt there yet but she like last month she got there. but the thing is i dont think i love her anymore but i want to love her and i dont want a break from her.

please tell me a way that i can get back to loving her without taking a break

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I’ve been in a relationship since highschool. She’s actually my first and only girl friend ever.
So we’ve been together for more then 5 Years…
The relationship seems fine and everyday is the same. A few stupid fights here N there, but we get along great most of the time, and I love her. All is good.
But recently my emotions are getting to me. My friends are hooking up with girls that they’ve had crushes on, people are getting married, and other friends are just living the single life up. They come over and hang out and my guy friends bring over just amazingly beautiful girls! Making out in front of me and I just can’t help but envy them. Being young wild and free, but I’m feeling locked down. As if I’m married and old…we as a couple don’t go out enough, don’t make love ever, and she always has to bust in the room and spew negativity. I love her, but she’s so lazy and full of drama.

She’s gained alot of weight since we’ve been together, which seems to make thing worse. She’s gotta be 250 now!?? I’m not shallow and actually like thicker built women, but I honestly don’t feel like ive ever been with a real woman ever!!! My girl is so out of touch and uninterested in me, it’s like I’m lonley.

I’m kinda a clean cut nice guy and girls always smile and say I’m really cute and a great guy, but them go home with one of my dweeby friends and bang.

I’m just having that feeling of regret and wondering if I’m doing the right thing and keeping this relationship going when deep deep down Im jealous of my friends all doing what they really want to do and dating girls and being young and wild.

I just feel lost….anyone know what I mean… Advice?

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My girl friend has cheated on me and lied to me in the past. This happened at a bad time in the relationship but I still don’t trust her. I know that our relationship is not healthy but I go crazy without her. How can I make letting go easier?

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