My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago, and I maybe as miserable as when it first happened. I’m very stressed out and my brain just won’t stop thinking about her. I don’t have many friends and I’m losing my mind. Nothing goes my way. Does anybody have any tips? Anything would help

Tags: 4 months, brain, ex girlfriend, Getting Over An Ex, girlfriend, losing my mind

Hey Im 26 and living in London.
Im having a dilemma with an ex of me. Can someone give me a bit of advice or tips on what i should do?

Introduction out of the way first, 4 years ago I was introduced to a girl through my friend. We got on great and went out for a month or so and then went our separate ways. About a year later we got back talking and we were boyfriend/girlfriend. She then got accepeted to a year long university course in America, we said we would stay together. We did for a few weeks and I broke it off once I heard she had slept with another fella a few days after arriving in America.

She is home now and we have had a few late night meetings. A few times she has banged on my door in the middle of the night looking for me, blowing up my phone with messages and missed calls. One night she went to my workplace while I wasn’t working and urged my colleagues to give her my number so she could contact me.

Last week she told me that shes afraid she’ll never meet anyone like me ever again. How its tearing her apart not been with me. She say she is still attracted to me after all this time. She even said the best sex she ever had was with me. I still feel have some sort of feelings for her.

I don’t know what to do. Shes the only girl ive ever loved but at the same time I don’t know if I can trust her. Should I try it again with her? Or should I just move on? I tried my best to meet other women, keeping myself busy with work etc, but I still have not met anyone that has made me feel as good like she did.

Thanks for reading.
Cheers.

Tags: best sex, cheers, colleagues, dilemma, ex girlfriend, feelings, fella, few days, girl friend, girlfriend, Hey, late night, living in london, night meetings, Phone Messages, separate ways

Okay, well thisguy and i had a thing last winter…i liked him so much, and he legit stopped talking to me and got a girlfriend (we were "together") and he did it two days after my grandma died (he knew).
anyway
so in march we started talking as friends and became close. then in june him and i were talking and i was like "i don’t know. he [my boyfriend] doesn’t ever call me pretty, i feel so terrible. hes a di*k to me now." and the boy goes "What’s not to love about you?" then my boyfriend broke up with me through instant messaging, and the boy (lets call him F) was like "im so sorry you can do so much better"
then we had a thing over the summer untilseptember, and he did the same thing. stopped talking to me.
and now he told one of our mutual friends that he "really messed up, and i miss her so much shes was the best. i can only hope that shes happy and i wish her the best"
then he texted me and i was like "well, yes i am very happy. i have a loving boyfriend." and now hes like top visiter on my facebook page, and i think he likes me again. [NOTE: he's become a poser which only makes me mad.] what should i do??

[also, F is not my boyfriend. I choose not to talk to him now]

now all his fb status are like "i like you, but can’t say it" or "i wish i could tell her"

and i don’t know if i want to be friends with him again because honestly…he *is* good looking, and can be sweet. and i don’t want to fall for him again [F lives 10 minutes away from me. my boyfriend lives 14 hours away from me] please, someone help me. Because, as much as i dislike what he did, F and i had some good times. we shared a lot of laughs and inside jokes… i just don’t know what to do. i know we could be great friends, and super close, but it would turn into more and i can’t have that. like i always catch myself hoping he’s on skype, or FB chat, or i almost text him, but don’t. in a way, i dont trust myself, although i love my boyfriend.
do you think he has feelings for me again? what should i do?

thank you for reading all this =] i really appreciate it.

Tags: girlfriend, good times, grandma, great friends, instant messaging, last winter, laughs, love, loving boyfriend, mutual friends, Poser, skype

My ex and i broke up and a week later he got another girlfriend. I want him back so i read on the internet do the NO CONTACT RULE and "maybe" hes in a rebound relationship.

Has anyone had success storys from you doing the no contact rule and than your ex has wanted you back?

I dont know if i "want" him back but even knowing he might would put my broken heart at ease..

Advice please everyone

10 points

Tags: broken heart, Contact, girlfriend, hes, rebound relationship, success storys

A little more detail to my other question. I am always nervous around my girlfriend. She told me she loves me and said I love her 2 so I shouldn’t be nervous. But I am! I am never at a loss of words but when I’m around her I freeze up and can’t say a word. I hate being like this and I’m sure it’s damaging our relationship because of my nervousness we haven’t held hands or anything. Please help!?!?

Tags: fear, girlfriend, loss of words, nervousness, relationship