Sorry if this is too long. So I was dating my past boyfriend for about six months, but recently I broke up with him because a whole bag of ****. He was always working and we never had any time to even see each other, and he wasn’t even willing to give me any time, and when we did have a scheduled time to be together, he always stood me up and had some excuse for why he couldn’t make it. I was wanting to move in with him but I didn’t have a job yet, but now I do after I broke up with him.

And here’s the problem. Now that I ditched him, he will not let go of me. He is always calling, always leaving me messages, and talking about how we need to get back together. I told him I am done with him, and that I want to move on, and that he needs to also. But he tells me he will always be waiting for me, and that he will never give up hope for us. I want to be nice, as I have tried to be during this entire situation, but I can’t get the point across that I don’t want us to be together ever again that he has lost me. Now don’t give me **** about it not being his fault, because he showed almost no interest in us while we were dating, and now he is all over me like white on rice.

Also when we first started dating everything was going well, and we always were together and he always had time for us. Now he is always busy with something else, and I always say that if you are too busy to find time at least once a week to be together for a little while, then you are too busy for a relationship.

I’m mentally exhausted from him, and I was wondering if anyone has gone through this same thing, and what did you do to let them know that they just need to leave you alone and move on? I have tried everything almost, except from telling him **** you and go jump off a bridge. I also feel that if I find someone else, that he might be scared away from my ex calling and leaving messages all the time. UGH
Horace, go suck a god damned bag of dicks.

Tags: bridge, dicks, Ex Boyfriend, excuse, Gay, god, Haters, horace, job, relationship, six months, white on rice

My friend has been in many relationships and he’s fallen in love three times. They all had bad endings.. one cheated on him and another, after being together for 4 years, ended is because she got signs from God that told her to do so.. He’s been really hurt and finding it hard to connect with different people. And yesterday he told me he’s afraid of getting too close to this girl he has befriended because he’s afraid to fall in love with her. She’s already really falling for him, he’s a great guy. But he’s holding back because he’s afraid of being hurt again. I want to comfort him and encourage him to give it a next try.. but i don’t know what to say.. help please??

Tags: Fall In Love, god, love, Love Help, relationships, signs, three times

It didn’t work before , it won’t a second or third time. Go get a better one . Right ?

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I’ve been dealing with a breakup from a girl I’ve been with for the past three years. We met at the end of senior year in high school. I went to school 10 hours away freshman year and we stuck through it. I felt stronger and stronger about her each day. I decided to come back home and go to school with her for sophomore year. Again, it was a fantastic year and I loved every minute I spent with her. We were best friends, inseparable and we connected on a very deep level. I knew I loved this girl but I felt like I needed to go back to my first school to get a significantly better degree. At the end of sophomore year I told her I wanted to go back. She began to pull away until I told her I was doing it for us and to better my future. That made her feel better but she still pulled back. I kind of changed too as a result. I felt weird about her actions and I knew she took my leaving as a slap in the face. I began to be more short with her and our relationship took a turn for the worst. I thought everything was fine until one day a couple weeks before I left that she came in my bedroom as I woke up and said she wanted to be single the next year. She said the way I had been acting, the distance, and everything made her want this. I went through many stages of falling apart, anger, upset, numb, happy, just every emotion. A few weeks ago I got to school and my feelings stabilized. I realized that this is a girl worth fighting for. I took a look at myself and the way I had acted to push her away. I think God forced me to make the decision to leave to better myself and now I feel like I can be the most amazing boyfriend to her. I’m now going back home because I don’t feel this is the place for me right now. This decision was not because of her, but it doesn’t hurt that the love of my life is there. She’s been kind of seeing somebody now. She says she likes him but still loves me. She asks me why I’d deserve a second chance after hurting her. She says maybe in a few years we can try again. I know I’ve changed and I know that our relationship is right. I know I can be everything this girl could ever want. I know her better than anyone in the world. We are still best friends. I’m afraid she’s already written me off because she is unsure and doesn’t want to be hurt again, even though she hasn’t told me this. I’m going back in a few days and I’ve gotten her to go to dinner with me this upcoming weekend. She says its strictly as friends. I want to show her I can be a great boyfriend but how can I do this as just a friend? How can I show her I’ve changed and will always make her happy? What about this other guy, I’ve been supportive but how do I approach it? If you’ve read this far then I really appreciate it and I look forward to hearing back. Thanks.
No need to be a dick Linah. Thanks to everyone else who’s taking me seriously
@ LM: correction, shes not with another guy just seeing him. she says she doesn’t want to be his girlfriend even though hes asked…makes me think even more shes confused as to what to do

Tags: anger, best friends, couple weeks, Dealing With A Breakup, emotion, Fall In Love, feelings, freshman year, girl worth, god, Love Of My Life, relationship, second chance, senior year, slap in the face, sophomore year

So about a year ago I went to Africa to visit my family for the summer. And there I met the most incredible guy, and I reeeally liked him but never thought to seriously of it at first because long distance relationship wasn’t even an option in mind. But after he took me on a string of dates I really started to fall in love. He was so sweet and always looked after me….but eventually the time came for me to head back to the u.s. We kept talkin but it was hard. He asked me to marry him but i told him no because i felt it was too early, and that I was too young to make such a serious commitment (i’m 21 now, 20 at the time). Also i was getting alot of pressure from family and friends to move on because of the distance and the fact that i shudnt just up and marry the first guy i dated. So we kept breaking up and getting back together. I went to visit him again for christmas and things were just as if i had never left…But as soon as I came back home the communication had slowed. I was really upset and decided to just break things off for good (cuz i felt like i was young and wasting my life after one guy)….Fast forward two months, I really started to miss him. He seemed like wat every body had to say didn’t matter anymore cuz all i thought about was him, I didn’t care about the other guys taht liked me. At first he was really hesistant to talk to me ( i thought b/c i had hurt him) but he said it was becuz during our break he had slept with his ex and got her pregnant…
This Devastated ME!!! I cried for nights asking God why. Blaming myself more than anything. He treated me like a queen, with unconditional love that no other man has ever shown me, and was my first love. Now it seems like no other man can compare. I still cry myself to sleep thinking about him sumtimes and wishing somehow things could be the way they were…I’ve never been so close to another human being in my life. And it sucks cuz he’s even met my family which is a big deal. And even tho we kept taking breaks I always thought we wud end up together somehow…
Now I’m heartbroken and wonder if I’ll ever find such Love like that again??? Help

Tags: africa, alot, christmas, Cuz, Distance Relationship, family and friends, first love, god, long distance relationship, love, Met, Pregnant, queen, sleep, tho, unconditional love, wasting my life