My exboyfriend and I broke up the beginning of this year. I had recently just went through a serious operation and he was by my side, but I didn’t feel the same way about him anymore so I left him while I went through recovery.
He was furious, calling me names, threatening to tell my friends and family about the operation (a very big secret I chose to keep to myself.) I stupidly told him we could be friends and we were for a couple of months, but during those months he would call me every day, telling me what to do and what not to do and if i didn’t comply, he threatened to call my house and tell my mom about my surgery. He would leave my voicemails telling me he was going to kill himself unless i talked to him. I finally told him we couldn’t talk anymore and I changed my number.
My mom ended up finding out about my surgery and we got through it together, but my ex still calls my house and asks for me, begging for me to talk to him. My mom doesn’t let him know that I am home when he calls, but she does tell me that he keeps calling. He called last night at midnight and told my mom he was worried about my "financial, mental and phsyical health." My mom asked me about it and I told her I havent talked to him in over a month, which is true.
I plan on moving out next month with one of my good friends, but I want him out of my life for good and I want him to stop calling my home. My mom told me NOT to contact him, no matter what happens, but does anybody have any good advice? He threatened me before that he would just "show up" at my work and "surprise" me, but this was months ago and he hasnt done it yet. If anybody has any suggestions, I could greatly appreciate it.
Has anybody been in this situation? Do you know why he is like this, is there anything I can do?
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