I really hope so, cause’ then I get to wear my Guess jean jacket and red finger-less gloves.

Is there anything from the past that you hope would make a comeback?

Tags: gloves, Guess, Haircuts, jean jacket, Wham

One of my best friends and his girlfriend are long distance (college and HS). She wanted to take a break, so they did. I guess they’re getting back together. But I don’t want him to get hurt. I think he cares about her more (she’s a year older.) What’s the chance that they’ll stay together?

Tags: cares, distance college, girlfriend, Guess, long distance, one of my best friends, People

me and my ex broke up do in part to her having soo many guy freinds and one in particular that i knew really liked her.we fought a lot and eventually broke up i never cheated,lied everybody lies i guess what i mean is i never lied about anything realiting to the relationship.we fought a lot because i was overly jealous she lives and another state how do u get your ex if she lives in another state and how or were do u start to get her back?

Tags: freinds, Guess, relationship

Ok we dated for two months & a month of it was long distance because he goes to college like an hour away & we completely trusted eachother! We never fought, ever! The other month of our relationship he was home for Christmas break and let’s just say he took my v card but he wasn’t a virgin..and on new years eve he wanted to go to a party where he went to college & asked me to go but i said no i wanted to stay home with my family & friends..so he comes back the next day and says we need to talk and says he seen his ex at the party and it brought back feelings and it wasnt fair to me and i was completely broken. They broke up because they fought nonstop and never really were happy I guess you could say but they were eachothers first so he says he loves her. A month after he breaks up with me there dating and its been like a week into it now and they are already fighting and i was talking to him tonight and he told me why they were fighting basically because he doesnt trust her and its long distance for them too and he told me that he knows he screwed me over but he loves her with his whole heart and no matter how much shit she puts him through he will always be stuck with her even if he does deserve better..and he told me i know you wouldnt do something like that but im with her and its not going to change..will he ever realize that he does deserve better and that he can actually trust me and want to be with me again???
They dated over 2 years ago and she just got out of a 2 year relationship is she just using him for a rebound??

Tags: amp, christmas, feelings, Guess, long distance, new years eve, rebound, relationship, Stay Home, Virgin, whole heart, Years Eve

We all have periods of ups and downs i guess, so how to make a relationship go for the better?

Tags: crazy in love, Crazy Love, Guess, periods, relationship, ups, ups and downs

The blade of my knife
Faced away from your heart
Those last few nights
It turned and sliced you apart
This love that I tell
Now feels lonely as hell
From this padded prison cell

So many times I said
You’d only be mine
I gave my blood and my tears
And loved you cyanide
When you took my lips
I took your breath
Sometimes love’s better off dead

You’re all I need, make you only mine
I loved you so I set you free
I had to take your life
You’re all I need, you’re all I need
And I loved you but you didn’t love me
Laid out cold
Now we’re both alone
But killing you helped me keep you home
I guess it was bad
Cause love can be sad
But we finally made the news

Tied up smiling
I thought you were happy
Never opened your eyes
I thought you were napping
I got so much to learn
About love in this world
But we finally made the news

You’re all I need, make you only mine
I loved you so, so I put you to sleep.

Tags: better off dead, blade, Blade 111, ex girlfriend, Guess, heart, hell, lips, love, love poem, prison cell, sleep

I’ve been married almost 10 years to a woman I love. recently she told me she doesn’t love me. Never really has. Not the way a woman should love her man. Guess I was blind. Never saw it that way. Frankly, I don’t believe "every" word.

But I’ve been doing my best to make her feel special and bring back that loving feeling.

She gets back rubs and foot massages 3-4 times per week. I make dinner more frequently, clean the house, put the dishes away, do laundry, try to appear positive and treat her to small things often.

I love her more than life itself. Just looking for some other things.

Let’s hear your best. Money’s a little tight right now so no extravagant trips/jewelry.

Tags: 10 years, dishes, Fall In Love, foot massages, Guess, jewelry, laundry, loving feeling, money, Rubs, Woman, Word 98

My ex and I broke up a little over 3 months ago in September. We were together for 1 yr and 3 months. We have been through a lot in that time though. We technically traveled the world together as she studied in France while I studied in Spain. Our split was mainly because there was a lot of pressure from our relationship because it progressed faster than we had planned and felt like we were very involved in each others lives. I guess you can say to a point where the appreciation and excitement of one another was losing its spark. Also the distance wasn’t helping when we were away from each other during our school semesters. Anyways when we broke up she studied one more semester abroad in Italy and I was here in the U.S. I stopped contact with her during the three months because I didn’t want to push her away by possibly making her feel any guilt from the separation and which I also thought was the best move for me regardless. During the 3 months I have not thought about her that much really and have been going out and enjoying the single life as you may say. Been able to move on from this instead of moping and feeling depressed from it, which I know I should of been doing anyways. So I have been fine and I know she had been fine especially being away from home.

Now she had come back home a couple weeks ago and I have seen her for the first time. I was very very happy to just see her and I had missed her very much. We got together a couple times just to catch up a little bit. One of the last times we had spoke, we kind of just spoke about how our relationship was before and how things may have been the cause of our separation. However I had asked the question of her possibly dating me again sometime in the future and she said maybe but that she wasn’t sure and that she has been happy being single. But our conversation got cut off after that cause we both had places to be at. A few days later I was invited by one of her best friends to her best friends Birthday Party. I had attended with a couple of my friends that they knew and we hung out with them and had a good time for the most part. For me it was the first time I had really felt the feeling again of really missing being her Man/ boyfriend and it was starting to kill me. I didn’t really interact with her too much that night but my friends had more than me. At the end of the night when I said goodbye I told her that she looked great and that it was nice seeing her. And she then informed me that she was wearing the dress that I had bought her before. Then we had a big hug and then an unexpected almost near kiss goodbye. Really wanted too but didn’t think it was right to. But my friends were all saying that they saw something that night. Maybe little indications of interests still there.

The next day I tried seeing if she wanted to hang out later that night. First she wasn’t able to do anything cause she had things to finish up and wasn’t sure if she felt like going out. Then I had mentioned that she should let me take her out once. After that she had said that our conversation that we had before the other day had gotten cutoff and that maybe we should get together and talk about it. So I said sure and then she asked to meet her at like a starbucks. Then before I was on my way she had mentioned that she didn’t want to leave the house and if I wanted to just go over her house instead. So I did. We spoke about what was going on between us and I guess you can say that she has been happy being single and isn’t quite looking to be in a relationship, however we had agreed to "Date" each other though. She admitted that being back home, that it is weird not hanging out with me when she is home or getting back from work and what not. Now she said she was afraid to go through with just dating because she thought that I wouldn’t be able to just date. However I felt like there was more to it than just being worried about me. But I’m unsure. So I guess you can say that we are technically dating now. We have hung out only a couple times now but when we do it feels just like how it used to be before when we were together. And I feel she tries to hold herself back at times but then she can’t at times as well and just goes with it. However we still now kiss each other at times and it seems cool for the most part. But for me I’m starting to feel the feelings that I once had for this girl. I loved her very much and I still do love her. Now I feel stuck in my head and what to think. I want to be back with her but at the same time I have no clue on how she feels because its like mixed signs.

My friends have told me that I am in a good spot and that I shouldn’t be worrying because they feel that she might be having similar feelings as well but she may be afraid from it as well. I just don’t know what to do and how I might be able to go about to possibly getting her back. I need some help, advice, something. If some of y’all can help me that would be great. It’s just tha

Tags: best friends, birthday party, couple times, couple weeks, ex girlfriend, excitement, few days, friends birthday, Guess, guilt, italy, little bit, relationship, school semesters, single life, spain, three months

My ex and I were high school sweet hearts and we have been together for what would have been 11 years…We have two beautiful kids together and at one point in time he was the only true friend that I had. He decided to get a divorce because he felt that he hasn’t "experienced" life because we got together so young… These last few years have been rough…I guess you could say that we both are not the same people. I am trying my hardest to be civil and still do the family thing for our kids, but its been hell!!

Tags: 11 years, best friend, divorce, Guess, hell, People, point in time, quot, sweet hearts, true friend

Okay so my best friend and her boy friend broke up this summer and she really misses him can someone help me
Okay I guess they did Break up 4 a reason he said "there relationship was to long but i think he needed a break there friends and all and I can see he still likes her because he shows signs and she wants me to do it 4 her because she thinks i can work it out

Tags: best friend, boy friend, Guess, relationship, signs

My friend told me he is writing a novel based by a true story. What is he could be writing?

P.S. He writes a lot of sad love poems and some political or current events

Tags: current events, Guess, Novel, sad love poems, true story, writing a novel

I have been engaged for a year and 2 months and am getting married in 10 months. However, sometimes I feel like Im not good enough for my own fiance. I still want to be myself because that is who he fell in love with but I want to be more attractive to him. I feel as if he is looking at other women and wishing I were like them or as sexy as them.
Not to sound self-centered but Im a pretty girl and he says he loves me and always thinks of me, I just think he is bored.. what should I do to spice things up a bit ?? I guess

Tags: 10 months, Fall In Love, fiance, Guess, love, pretty girl, Spice

it’s a sad poem i guess and i wrote it after this guy dumped me and i felt really depressed.but i’m over it now and i jsut want to see what people think?
here it is……………………..
FADING MEMORIES by me
memories that fade away
like the sunset
into the horizen….
fading memories
dying memories
sad memories
when they used to be glad
lonely memories
lonseme memories
romantic memories
cherished ….
thoughtful notes
sweet long letters
soulclose conversations
and unfufilled dreams
perfect compliments
perfect love
or as if it meant or seemed that way
but it’s all unreal
because memories fade
like dust in the wind
like sand on a grave
and all turns dark
unhappy and lifeless
when all u have is memories
to hold onto
but that slip away

Tags: compliments, conversations, dreams, dust in the wind, fading memories, Guess, long letters, love, love poem, M 111, Perfect Love, romantic memories, sad memories, sad poem, sunset, thoughtful notes

My girlfriend(ex-girlfriend now) broke up with me about 3 months ago. She left me to go back to her ex-boyfriend. The ex-boyfriend is not the greatest guy, he doesn’t have a job, has four kids, lives in a bad part of Chicago and was cheating on his wife with my ex-girlfriend when they were together the first time. Now the guy is divorced and my ex went running back to him. Anyway, I have implemented the no contact rule. I have not called her, texted her, e-mailed etc… She works at the health club I belong to but, only recently have I been going there the days she works. When I first started coming back the times she works she would go and hide in the back.(I guess she didn’t want to see me) Now she stays up front but, wont make eye contact with me. I wont to break the no contact rule and go and just say; "Hello" but, I am nervous to do this because, she avoids eye contact with me. She did however, text me on my birthday. I don’t think things are really working out for her and her ex. Do I need to give this more time before trying to say hello?? Do I just move on and forget her??(Which is hard for me to do even though I am dating other people) Not sure what to do. I really would like a second chance at this. I am not appearing needy or desperate. I pretty much disappeared after she broke up with me. Now what do I do? Any help in this matter will be much obliged.

Tags: Attempt, ex girlfriend, eye contact, Guess, health club, I 98, job, quot, second chance

Well, the title is not entirely my question, what I want to know is have I been going crazy my whole life or is my life just crazy. since i could ever remember I always found out answers to everything, whether it was me or friends I always loved finding answers and being right. as I got older I guess experimenting with drugs made me much more creative and relaxed I really like being creative, It makes me feel free. NE Ways, i am 35, feel like im 20, partied quite a bit in my teens and early 20s – now that I have grown up a bit I find myself trying to protect myself and others but it never seems to work all i do is hurt myself, what I mean by this is that through my 20’s I had a relationship and had 2 children, at first I was the responsible adult and worked hard for my family but after 5 years the relationship went sour and we split up, I got custody of my kids because i couldn’t deal with her life and I felt that my kids were never going to have the proper upbringing. so at that point were I lost control of my life, I somewhat fixed the pain by getting custody of my kids. well, since then I have been trying to be the best dad i can be but Instead I have become a dad that’s constantly worrying. I constantly have these real like moments of imagination, daydreaming but it feels real, but instead of daydreaming nice things it’s always things that can go wrong terribly wrong. I get anxiety , it brings on my OCD of checking if the doors are locked, are the seat belts working, is that car gonna swerve, etc but before i check the lock each and every time I see one of my kids falling out of the car, vividly. It feels terrible, I can be at work and all of a sudden I have a thought of one of my kids getting hit by a car while walking home. anxiety with every thought comes and goes all day, and I have started to ignore the thoughts but they still get in my head somehow. I have since married to a wonderful girl and had 2 more children and now I have 5 people to be constantly worried about. I know that most of this doesn’t make sense but I AM GOING SOMEWHERE WITH THIS.

During the first year of my new relationship with my current wife we became pregnant and we also discovered that we both had HPV,
A hole new set of issues came to play about a month after this discovery, and it is a large reason for this rant, I have become more and more uneasy on the subject of having sex. I don’t crave it like I used to, it makes me nauseous to think about it, there are times that I don’t care and it’s great but they don’t come around very often.

I ultimately & intimately feel unworthy of making love. It does not bother my wife but it just urks me out. this issue combined with the first issue, ocd and anxiety, not to mention all the stress this brings on, I feel crazy. I have found that vicodin helps me with my over thinking and stress but does not help in bed. plus I really dint want to self medicate the issue that way.

my simple question to everything is, I am afraid of losing my job if I go see professional help. I want to feel better but I don’t want to lose everything I have built. – what are some suggestions out there from some sane ppl. there’s so much more to my complicated life. these are just the highlights. if anyone wants to edit this and make sense of it be my guest.

Tags: drugs, Friends, Guess, I 98, relationship, Responsible Adult, Whole Life

Lately I feel like the connection that we once had is just gone. And he makes no effort to bring it back. Even though I do. I never was interested in the stuff he liked, but I talk about it with him and do the stuff he likes. Because he likes it. Because I love him. But he never reciprocates.

How can I get him to do something with me? Something that I like to do and something that makes me feel connected to him on a deeper level? I really love dancing, and I have only danced with a man once or twice in my life. I really want to dance with my husband. I guess I just want the romance back, and to feel ‘in love’ again.
… he doesn’t like tv.

Yes I’ve told him that I want more romance.

Tags: Guess, love, romance

I have been married for 15 years and for most of my marriage I was too busy making a living instead of making a life. When we got married, she had to small children and I wanted to provide for them. We did okay but I guess I was never really satisfied with that. I had my idea of the perfect life and it seems I never had it. We had 2 more children after about 7 years of marriage. When I look back, I realize that my wife and I were never really close, like husbands and wives are supposed to be. She tried to tell me things weren’t right and I minimized things. She was right all along. Our biggest problem was communication. 7 months ago, she told me she didn’t want to be married anymore. There was no buildup, no argument, just a sentence. For the first time in my life I had to truly examine myself and realized that there was a lot of changing I needed to do. I changed, but she said it’s too late. We have gone to counseling but to no avail. What hurts is that she says that I am the husband she always wanted, but she doesn’t want ME. I love my wife…always have. Sometimes you take the sun for granted because it rises every morning. She says that part of her wants to be in love with me again. How do I wait for her?

Tags: 7 months, avail, counseling, Guess, husbands and wives, Lot, love, marriage, perfect life, sun, time in my life

Married 8years.Everything was great in our marriage untill about 4 yrs ago when i cheated on her. Stayed together.(she says the only reason she stayed with me was because of our then 6 month old baby).I quit my job, sold my new vehicle, and did all of the things required to change my life.There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t feel guilty for what i did.I’m different now..everything I do is to preserve our family(cook, clean,active with our child). Also I do romantic things, flowers,etc..I’ve been starting a new business for the last year and money has been tight. She is bitter because we used up a small saving account to survive the last year. We are not in debt except for some money we borrowed from her mother and my father. My business is really taking off and I ‘ve told her she can quit her job and take the job she really wants! Now that things are getting better she tells me she doesn’t love me anymore and wants a divorce.We tried seperation and counseling???? Is there hope?
I really am a good man … I made a horribly mistake 4 years ago and I will do anything to preserve our family!! I would appreciated anyones constructive advise!
sorry about the spelling!
I guess one thing I need to add is that during and after counseling she said she loved me and wanted to work on marriage… then a few weeks later she stopped working on our marriage…when I asked her why …she just said I don’t love you anymore. I’m little concern she might have some degree of depression…due to the fact that her mood changes quickly…and she never seems to be able to look at most situations in a positive manner!! I do love her dearly and would do anything to make her and my daughter happy!

Tags: counseling, depression, divorce, family cook, flowers, good man, Guess, job, love, marriage, mistake, money, month old baby, mood changes, Quit My Job, seperation, spelling, starting a new business, untill

Im the usual guy i guess and im not sure whats wrong with me i really really reaallly want to get my ex girlfriend back and i can never get her off my mind its been like a year now and its really bugging me and if you think i should any suggestions on what i should say?

Tags: ex girlfriend, Guess