i met this lad we got on very well i told him i liked him and he said he wasnt ready for anything as his ex hurt him and he was messed up by what happened. it took me a couple of months but im pretty sure i began to gain his trust, we enjoyed chatting together so much so he would text me everyday to see how i was, what i was up to etc
He had a couple of times when i think he felt unsure and acted a little daft but i would just let him get on with it and he would apologise and we would be ok again.
I never pushed the situation i offered on a few occasions to leave him alone but he told me he didnt want me to.
Then something happened and i felt it best to leave him alone i explained why and said i still cared for him very much, deep down i think i hurt him but he isnt one to admit it,his actions kind of said it all.
He deleted me as a friend on a chat room we went on, he had an argument over nothing with me pointing out things i had done which he referred to as odd, i wrote him a note to say sorry for hurting/annoying him but he didnt respond, when we argued he said he was deleting my number and i told him to crack on, he was quite nasty to me really.
I feel terrible he has spoken by text to me recently i text first and when i asked for another chance he made out he had a girlfriend im not sure if i believe him or not i guess part of me wnats to believe he hasnt.
my gut feeling is that i upset him when i decided to leave him alone when he asked me not to, and now he thinks im as bad as his ex, because otherwise i have no idea what i have done.

Tags: chat room, Crack, daft, girlfriend, Guess, gut feeling, lad, Met, Nasty, occasions, Odd

Well, her and I broke up about a month ago over stupid things, I guess I got a bit too clingy and she wanted her space, plus she’s been getting stressed with all the work she has in college and what not, so we agreed to take a break from our relationship.

Then she brought her ex boyfriend into the picture, and I guess I miunderstood what she was saying/doing and I ended up calling her something I do not want to repeat, and I regret doing now, big time. But basically she hates me for that now and before when I was getting all clingy and she’s been ignoring me ever since I called her a bitch basically. I would of never of intentionally wanted to call her anything like that or hurt her, but I was already hurting with the break up and what not, then her bringing her ex up, just kind of lost control of my emotions.

So now, I try to text her once a week to just see how her week/end was and she never responds, or when she does she’ll ask why I’m trying to talk to her.

Same story for if I ever call her, she’ll pick up, ask me why I’m trying to talk to her and I’ll just tell her that I serioiusly am sorry, I fucked up, I miss being able to talk to you and I would like to fix what I fucked up and she just hangs up on me. She won’t even give me a chance to talk about things with her or anything, and that just annoys the crap out of me.

So basically, what could I ever do to give me a chance to at least be her friend again. Because I still do love her, even though she doesn’t believe I do and says that I don’t, because I called her a bitch, but I made a mistake It’s like I’m stuck in a corner with her, she seems to think I hate her and don’t love her, while she also things I’m too clingy and I’m just clueless as to what to do. She’s a nice and unique girl, and I’d hate to have to see her completely walk out of my life, even if we can’t be together still, I’d like to be able to at least be her friend.

Tags: big time, bitch, Break, Clueless, crap, emotions, Ex Boyfriend, ex girlfriend, Guess, love, mistake, relationship, stupid things

Me and this girl have liked each other for ages now, she would always comment on my pics, and we would sometimes flirt but we never spoke really or met up, even though we known each other since school and were both 20 now.
She even asked me out at one point but I was like nah, was nervous I guess but we finally met up and she was really excited about it, then we started seing each other but never made it official, we would make out for hours on end and I’d treat her like a princess, she was open to me about how she been cheated numerous times in past, even abused and how she just hates being in love. So she clearly been hurt and its like she giving up or something, she also has sevre anxitey… I just wanted to hold her and take her problems away and I told her that.
After a while though she gets distant, saying how nice it would be if we could work out, or how I’m to good for her like she feels she ain’t worth me?
Next thing I know she is saying she just don’t want anything serious with anyone, and told me not to get attacthed and 3 days after her being beside me, she jumps in relationship with some 30 year old lmao? which that screams to me she is trying to run away from me or something, she even rang me to talk about it, saying how me and her are just different people, and she needs someone that can control her and lived a life like hers???
My mate asked her what happened and she said were just different people its ashame. And were not different people we have like everything in common, and when she was with me she was so lovley and cute around me like I bought out best in her, and she has liked me for ages and so have I, and I don’t understand why she just, switched off on me. The only explaination I can come up with is, she is scared to get close to me, she goes of with some random guy coz with him there is no dissapointments.
Well fast forward a month of zero contact, they break up with her saying to her friends it just didn’t feel right, maybe coz of me?
They broke up on friday and I msg her on fb on monday just to see if she would talk to me…simply saying "Ello you alright x" and she goes "Yeah why wouldn’t I be? x"…I didn’t reply till next day, and that next day she has a status about how she couldn’t sleep, maybe coz of me? Anyway I write back "I dunno, you just come to mind and wanted to see how my fave girl was doing x" and she is like "ohh lol, yeah not to bad thx you x"…then she got sent home from work coz she had a migraine or something, and I just write to her "k nice to hear hun, n if you wanna hang out sometime it be nice x"…and ain’t heard nothing yet. even though she was on fb, and at the end of the night she posted this video to her wall – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHkuFYZgH… – which explains a lot about the situation…I mean the break up with her not feeling right, her not being able to sleep, being sent home from work coz of migraine and that video, is any of that to do with me? is she afraid to get close to me?…or has she just switched off on me all of a sudden and even after all this time liking me, she just ain’t intrested anymore?

Tags: ashame, Break, Contact, Control, coz, dissapointments, explaination, Friends, Guess, lmao, love, Mate, Met, People, princess, random guy, relationship

What will you do, I guess my husband has another affair. Maybe it is my fault-he did not get enough from me thats why he…made another affair>what to do now?

Tags: Guess, marriage

So me and my ex girlfriend were together for 6 months and it seemed to me as if nothing could ever get us apart. Untill about 3 days ago she just break up with me. I found out from one of her best friends that she said she was tired of my shit. I guess by what her friends says I was treating her right whenever I felt like it. Although I cant recall treating her bad. So i tried asking her out and tell me the reasons why she broke up, I even promised to change that she would never have to regret going out with me. Yet I always got a no from her. This is our myspace convo
t a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!. nd stop trying to kiill yrself its pissing mi off.!relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: From this day on, Im a brand new person
To: cOokiE-cHip ;]
Date: Jul 14, 2009 2:00 AM
Subject:

is there any chance of us being back together? Yes or NO tell me..
** reply from her **
it a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!.relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

people please help because I have such a bond with her that me looking at other girls just makes me brake into tears. I love my ex so much that I cant possibly know where to find my place. At work I always think about her at home, outside..everywhere..at night I cry my eyes out. And theres no way I can forget her

Tags: alot, best friends, Brand New, Break, ex girlfriend, girls, Guess, love, myspace, Night Eyes, original message, Relax, Shit