My story is long, cut to the chase I have been with a guy for 6 years. 3 years of it was long distance relationship. I loved him and he was my first love as I was his.
about a month and half ago we broke up in agreement. and Here I am. I can not cried,it been 6 month since I last cried ( not really a crying type).I always put everything in me , hold every pressure and problem inside.and I am afraid of shattering , I am afraid of thinking about what has happened. I think It hasn’t sank yet in me ( or may be it has and I am jut holding it down) and I am afraid of ending up in pieces when starting dealing with it. its like carrying a giant hole in me and it hurts. It hurts so bad that I want to puke my guts out. the problem is I am not emotional type. I am so cold and heartless all the time. ( or maybe I just don’t know and don’t like to show emotion)
Please if anyone can come up with something tell me. I really need help. I need to start grieving and move on some how, I think.

Thanks,
G

Tags: 3 years, 6 years, Chase, Distance Relationship, emotion, first love, giant hole, guts, hasn, long distance relationship, love, puke

2-3 wks ago i was dumped on the phone by my which is now ex people say i was too young for a girlfriend and now i see why. we were together for 3-4 mnths im 14 in yr 9 this year and so anyway everyday after school when she would leave i would give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek and not once would she kiss me i only got hugs from her. and 2x i tried kissing her on the lips but she would then pull away just for a hug. so 2wks ago she called me for the very first time just to say "George, i think we should be friends, theres too much pressure" and so many times i would call her and not once did she call me until then. some people say that im over reacting one said i should be a man and not a whimp this was my first gf and i never knew wat gettin dumped would feel like. and otha people say that theres plenty of fish in the sea, she was just a seacow lol. so wat do u guts think about this
guts was suppose to say guys*

Tags: cheek, fish in the sea, gf, Girl On The Phone, girlfriend, guts, kiss, lips, plenty of fish, plenty of fish in the sea, seacow, whimp

Me and my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up. He completely broke my heart and right now I’m in the I-hate-your-guts phase. Music always helps me out. So i need some good breakup songs to listen to. Nothing about getting him back because I don’t want him back. Just stuff about moving on and getting revenge or something like that. Thanks.

Tags: 10 months, breakup songs, getting revenge, good breakup songs, good songs, guts, heart, music, T Amp

My exwife has bipolar and borderline personality disorder, all I want is her to take me back so I can go home. Part two of this is her Father hates my guts. I really would like a way so that my ex would come live with me.

Tags: Bipolar, Borderline Disorder, borderline personality disorder, Ex Wife, exwife, guts

i was in a short 2 month relationship with a guy when i was 16 and he was 21. he was very emotionally, verbally, and somewhat sexually abusive. though it only lasted for 2 months before i got the guts to break up with him i still have nightmares that he is comeing for me and its been over a year since i have seen or herd from him. i also have not been able to date because evertime the thought comes up i think about my ex.

are there any good self help books on recovering from a relationship like that?

Tags: Abusive Relationship, Good Books, guts, herd, nightmares, relationship, self help books

We went out all through college, a very great but back & forth relationship. We have been broken up for almost 6 yrs. She got out of a 4.5 yr relationship last year & I want to see if its still there. We hang out casually and keep in contact here & there. I have spilled my guts a couple of yrs ago when she was in her relationship…she denied me. She thinks Im great, but she might be judging me on how I was when I was much younger. Do I address the past of when i made her feel crapy? what do i do? I was thinking of telling her im coming on a 2 hr commute each way to see her for an hour. that action might be flattering & show her I would do anything for another shot.

Tags: amp, ex girlfriend, guts, relationship

Wall of text incoming!

So my friend, lets call her Sue, has been my friend for a long time and has started going out with a new guy, let’s call him Jack. Now, Sue introduced me to Jack and I got to be really good friends with him. Early in the relationship, Jack cheated on Sue. Jack kissed another girl, which was big because of Jack and Sue’s lack of much physical contact. But, Jack didn’t ever tell Sue about this and it’s just been realized what has happened these past few days, several months later. I personally think Sue should forgive Jack. This is because I’ve talked to Jack and just know his personality, and I believe he genuinely loves Sue and is very sorry. However, Sue’s family and all of her friends disagree, and I didn’t believe it myself until a few days ago when I talked with Jack about it. I told Sue this and I think she discussed it with her friends and family, and because I was once also against Jack but now am not, I think they are mad at me, which I don’t want.

As I sad before, I talked about this with Sue, and she will NOT be together with someone who cheated on her, even though he has gone as far as apologizing and giving her a ’sorry’ gift in front of her sister, mom, and lots of friends, which in my opinion, takes a lot of guts. I also think that Sue is mad at me now.

Now I feel like I just can’t win. I told Jack I would try to talk to Sue, and I did, but it didn’t end up the way Jack was hoping, so he’ll be mad at me. I think that Sue and her family, who once deeply trusted me, no longer trust me, and I’m afraid that both parties, who I was once friends with, are not anymore.

I guess I changed my view on Jack, and I’m afraid that people won’t like me because of it. And suggestions on how I can get myself out of the large hole I’ve dug myself into?

Tags: few days, friends and family, good friends, guts, large hole, long time, personality, relationship, sister mom