Because there hasn’t been a formal "breakup", I’m having a really hard time letting go. I really don’t think that there will be any sort of formal "breakup", we are just over. I can’t move on and it’s driving me crazy and making me so sad.
You would think by now it would be easier but it’s not. Help!
Tags: Getting Over A Relationship, hard time
Surviving the Holidays Alone After Divorce or Loss of Mate boy I need tips on that one.The holidays and after the holidays can be a very hard time for people who have divorced, lost a loved one or mate. So can anyone give me any tips on how to survive a divorce, loss of a mate, or even a relationship. When you lose that relationship during the holidays that can be a rough patch. I do try and remember I am not alone, so take a read and help me fine me!
Tags: hard time, how to survive a divorce, Lost, Mate, relationship, rough patch, Surviving Divorce, surviving the holidays
I feel bothered that I have an emotional reaction/ or am affected by seeing my ex boyfriend, mutual friends, and developments in their lives. I feel sad very sad like I made a mistake but I know in the end i did the right hting. Why is this so hard for me?
Sorry it is Taurus Moon/Taurus Asc
Gemini is the Sun sign
Tags: asc, emotional reaction, gemini, Getting Over Relationships, hard time, mistake, mutual friends, sun sign, taurus moon
We have had an on/off relationship for the entire six months of dating so how do I know this time is for real? How long should I wait to call her and try to talk about it? its been about a week since i’ve spoken to her.
Tags: Dating, girlfriend, hard time, relationship, six months
I am married for a year and my wife is in love with another man with whom she had a physical and emotional affair. She has been in love with him before we got married and I didnt know about it. She tells me she is still in love with him and cannot get any feelings towards me other than being a friend. She even finds it hard to come close to my physically. In fact, she got married to me because of several other reasons – our families were close, we were engaged for almost three years and we were good friends, she didn’t want to hurt all of us by breaking it off. But she did tell me before our wedding that she didn’t want to get married because she didnt love me. All of us thought she was not serious and convinced her that everything is going to be ok after the marriage. Also, the man she was in love with was married at that time (he is now divorced because of his affair with my wife) and she thought that she would be losing everything if she walked away from her marriage knowing her boyfriend was married. But now, with him being single again, she is having a hard time getting over the fact that she made a mistake in getting married to me. She also feels responsible for her boyfriend’s divorce and that she feels guilty about this.
This is causing a lot of stress for us. How do I make her forget her boyfriend and fall in love with me? I try to do all the small things to take care of her and she notices it, but she is unable to feel the same way towards me.
Tags: all the small things, divorce, emotional affair, Fall In Love, feelings, good friends, hard time, love, Love Man, Man Love, marriage, mistake, stress
