I’m really hurt and I’m having a hard time trusting him. I don’t how long he can tolerate me not trusting but it’s hard to tell when he is telling truth.

Tags: hard time, love, telling truth

I have been dating this guy for 6 years now. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I decided that I wanted to leave the relationship when I was about 7 months pregnant because I was really unhappy. At that time he was finishing grad school 2 hours away from the home that we shared, so even though we "weren’t together" I continued to live in the home that we had together. When he finished school. I was in my Junior year of Undergrad and decided that it was not financially possible to leave while finishing school with my little girl. So in order to stay on track with school we now lived in the same house but in separate rooms. We called ourselves dating other people and like most girls while he was actually out dating other women I simply lied about seeing other men for about a year so I didn’t seem like I could’ t move on. I was so hurt that the mother of his child could be less than 20 feet away from him and he could actually carry on a romantic conversation in the next room. He had been completely unthoughtful of my feeling and what he had at home. So one day I started to see this really great guy. He treated me like a princess and understood my position on things in my life. He never pushed me to do anything that I wasn’t ready to do including meet my daughter! This guy took a job 5 hours away because I wasn’t ready to fully commit to him though. After my little girls dad realized that I had really moved on and might really like someone, he decided that I was the one that he wanted in his life. I can most definitely see his efforts in trying to turn things around. He still doesn’t cater to the romance that I need from him, but he does make an extra effort to give me all the simple things that I used to ask of him. We have been trying to make it work for about 3 months now and I am really having a hard time trusting him. I am constantly having to tell myself that it is okay to let my guard down but the simple thought of going through what I have been through with him again makes me want to cry. A simple hug from him almost makes me cringe. I am so emotionally disconnected from him. However a small part of me says if he is sincerely trying I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Could I ever fall in love with him again?

Tags: 6 years, 7 months, dad, Fall In Love, Finished School, finishing school, girls, grad school, hard time, job, little girl, little girls, Live 105, princess, relationship, romance, separate rooms, simple thought, undergrad

I know this question has been posted a thousand times, but it just seems close to impossible to get over my ex. The breakup was about 4 months ago, we dated for a little over 3 years. We even talked about giving our relationship a 2nd chance but then he admitted to only talking about it to "be nice". I really miss him and the hardest part is that my head knows he does not feel the same way for me but my heart feels that he would not act the way he does if he did not care for me (he still comes over to help me fix things, take my dog out when I can’t get home, etc). I don’t think he is sending "mixed messages", I just think he is being nice and I am taking it the wrong way. How can I stop thinking that everything he does is a sign of love and start getting over him?
I have gone on a few dates with other people and they just made me realize how much I miss my ex.
I know you guys are all right, cutting ties like that just sucks

Tags: 3 years, 4 months, Advice, hard time, heart, love, mixed messages, relationship, ties, wrong way

So yeah, this girl was my first love but she pretty much dumped me and wants to go back to her ex. I found that out yesterday and I realized that if she’s choosing her over me then she’s completely not worth it (she had a really crappy relationship with her ex before, I don’t really know why she wants to go back but whatever). I still have a bit of a hard time imagining them getting back together especially after how she said I was so much better when we were dating. I don’t know if I should wait or just move on and try to start finding someone else. We have so much in common though, it’s hard to believe finding someone better especially since it’s hard for me to find the right kind of relationship in the first place. We said we’d remain friends but I think we both need some away time from each other. I dunno, what should I do? :/

Tags: Dating, first love, hard time, love, relationship, Sure Start

im having a really hard time dealing with this. My ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 1/2 months ago, and i really loved her. shes 17 and im 18, and im a freshman in a nearby college, and shes in high school still. well anyways, where both seeing other people, but i still want my ex. The guy shes seeing is no good, at all. he drinks, smokes, is expelled from school, he has scrubby long hair, and is her ex from a year ago. he originally broke up with her because she wasnt putting out, so he broke up with her for someone who would shortly after (almost like cheating to me lol) Her parents dont even like him, so she doesnt let her see him. Ive expressed the fact that i still like her, but she insists she likes this guy more, even tho she cant see him. Shes not even that type of girl either, she has so much in common with me, she doesnnt drink, smoke, shes a virgin, i just dont see why shes wants this in her life, shes setting herself up to be hurt again. I dont know how to deal with this. I want her back soo bad.

I love this girl alot, and i never told her, and i just want to hold her and tell her that:( Is there any way i can get her back? How do i get on the right track when talking to her, and show her that im better then this guy? and i really want her back, so any good advise you could give is really appreciated:)

Tags: Advice, Drinks, ex girlfriend, freshman, girl alot, hard time, long hair, nearby college, parents, seeing other people, tho, type of girl, Virgin