My husband & i have been married for about 1 year & 6 months.Bt we have been together for 3 years. I got married when i was 17 & he was 20.Im 18 almost 19 now & he’s 21.We dont have children.And well i feel as if im not "in love" with him anymore.I love him & always will bt im not "in love" he’s been a good husband although before we got married he cheated on me so many times & he was abusive.& i thought i had gotten over that.But i haven’t.it still hurts what he did & i can’t trust him ive tried for over a year & i just can’t.& it has caused a lot of problems between me & him.He’s not abusive no more & hasn’t cheated bt when he promises me that he will never do that again i just dont believe him.& lately the sex is boring.i dnt even want to have sex with him at all.& also iv been talkn to someone new.He makes me feel so good inside.I can talk to him about anything.& i just dont have that with my husband.i have never considered him "my best friend" he is very controlsive & so i tend to do things behind his back.I dont want to hurt him if i do choose to leave him bt i dont want to regret it neither.Plz Help. idk if its just because im young & want to experience something new or if im just really not in love with my husband anymore.

Tags: 3 years, best friend, hasn, love quot, Promises, T Amp

I’ve been dating someone for 4 months, everything has been smooth, easy and wonderful. A lot in common. Same morals, blah.. blah.. blah. He’s recently divorced (I know, my 1st mistake) and has a child with her. This is the 2nd time she had left him, filed for divorce this time. Told him that she felt no compassion for him on their honeymoon that he went through a lot to plan out and make special. No intimacy between the 2 before she left the 1st time and certainly not the 2nd. She now tells him she wants another chance, he has since told me that he isn’t considering her, that I’m everything he’s ever wanted and have made him happier than he’s ever been, I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m a wonderful person, BUT… he needs some space. He feels lost and empty. Doesn’t know if he can love again. Wants time alone to work on himself, get his head back on straight. Hasn’t called me since. Is he contemplating her? Or did he get scared? Will he be back or do I need to move on?

Tags: 4 months, blah, blah blah, compassion, divorce, Ex Wife, hasn, honeymoon, intimacy, Lost, love, mistake, morals, wonderful person

This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

Tags: amp, broken heart, butterflies, Chase, feelings, fiancee, hasn, heart, kind of game, long time, love, smile, strong woman

was with this guy for almost two years and he demolished my car in november after losing his job in october and hasn’t worked since. i still love him but it was very hard for me and told him several times he could leave…he never did. till recently he had gotten like 700 dollars now hes gone and i am broken hearted i waited for 5 months for him to get a job and because of a little pressure to get one hes gone…confused and broken hearted….what shall i do? i can’t eat or sleep went to the store and felt weird cause he’s always gone with me everywhere. help me to recover from my broken heart!!

Tags: 5 months, broken heart, Broken Hearted, hasn, job, love, several times, sleep, weird cause

I think its silly and the fact that he hit her still hasn’t hit my head ..
I think she should get out !

Tags: chris brown, hasn

i dated this guy, lets call him Frank, we dated fer a few days over a month,i was 16 and he was 18. im currently 17 and he is still 18. he was my first everything, from hand holding to kissing to sex. then he randomly became mean so i couldn’t take it and broke up with him. its been about 8 months since our breakup and i have a new amazing boyfriend who treats me like gold. but all the time i randomly start thinking about my ex and i talk about him a lot, even to my boyfriend. me and ‘frank" never talk. and if we do, he is saying something mean (like im ugly and he never loved me) but he used to always say i was beautiful and stuff. he has a girlfriend now. and ive seen him once these past 8 months, and when i saw him he kept looking at me. my friends say he probably still loves me and wants me back. but it doesn’t show because he hasn’t said one nice word to me since the breakup. another bad thing is that about a month after me and him broke up, i dated his brother to get him jealous, and frank forced him to break up with me! i wanna know either, how to get him back, how to figure out why he hates me, if he still loves me.
its been 8 months. im dying here.
i need answers!

Tags: brother, few days, Friends, girlfriend, Gold, hasn

About a month ago, my Ex and I broke up to see what else was out there. I’m still pretty hurt from it, especially since she told me shes "hanging out" with another guy, who she says is just someone fun and completely different than her normal type. She says she still misses me and that she hasn’t moved on, only that hes a nice guy. If you ask me it sounds like the classic rebound guy… completely different from me and is helping her fill my void.

I called her last week and told her its too hard for me to be her friend, when I still have a tremendous amount of feelings for her. She said if thats what I needed to do then alright, but that she really does want me in her life because im still her best friend. I told her too bad, it was obvious she had moved on in only a matter or a week or two.

Im just curious why rebound relationships involve someone completely different than the last partner. I have my college degree, a good solid job and am only 23 years old. Now shes interested in a 26 year old police man who is covered in tattoos and almost bald. Ladies help me out?
The relationship was for 2+ years. We had a great relationship until the stress of her life caused some fights, but nothing major. The last month was full of highs and lows

Tags: 23 years, bald ladies, best friend, college degree, feelings, great relationship, hasn, highs and lows, job, Misses, nice guy, police man, Rebound Guy, rebound relationships, stress, tattoos

I was dumped about 6 months ago by my girlfriend of 3 years, she hasn’t talked to me since but i’m finally going out with someone else…any songs that are anything like this? I’m sick of listening to the same ones.

Tags: 3 years, girlfriend, hasn, new girlfriend

My story is long, cut to the chase I have been with a guy for 6 years. 3 years of it was long distance relationship. I loved him and he was my first love as I was his.
about a month and half ago we broke up in agreement. and Here I am. I can not cried,it been 6 month since I last cried ( not really a crying type).I always put everything in me , hold every pressure and problem inside.and I am afraid of shattering , I am afraid of thinking about what has happened. I think It hasn’t sank yet in me ( or may be it has and I am jut holding it down) and I am afraid of ending up in pieces when starting dealing with it. its like carrying a giant hole in me and it hurts. It hurts so bad that I want to puke my guts out. the problem is I am not emotional type. I am so cold and heartless all the time. ( or maybe I just don’t know and don’t like to show emotion)
Please if anyone can come up with something tell me. I really need help. I need to start grieving and move on some how, I think.

Thanks,
G

Tags: 3 years, 6 years, Chase, Distance Relationship, emotion, first love, giant hole, guts, hasn, long distance relationship, love, puke

My broke up with my gf a few months ago and no contact has been made since. I’m surprised she hasn’t called me bc we were very good friends besides that. Do you ever talk to your ex or want them back or just call to see how they are?

Tags: Friends, gf, good friends, hasn

He also has a leo ascendant
Mars in Taurus
Mercury in Cancer
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Pisces

I recently asked him has he ever been in love.He answered no.I asked why?He said because he got over her too quickly.He has also told me that he hasn’t had a girlfriend in awhile and I know that for a fact.What does this mean?Is he really over his ex?Would he still constantly talk about her?

Tags: cancer, gemini, Getting Over An Ex, girlfriend, hard time, hasn, jupiter, leo ascendant, love, mercury, pisces, saturn, scorpio, sun moon, taurus, Venus

I have recently been trying to get over a breakup. I have been very sensitive emotionally. My emotions become intensified when I am around my older sister. She has a relationship now with a guy who she is in love with. She thinks this may be the One for her. The issue is that she shares details with me about the relationship that are too personal–She shows me love notes he writes to her, she calls him while I’m sitting with her, and she goes on and on about how they cuddle and the songs he sings to her, etc. etc. I know people will say, it’s natural to feel jealous sometimes in my position, but is it okay to tell her to not be so open about it? The last time we met, I ended up in tears–I couldn’t hold them back. She said that I just have to deal with it, she’s not going to stop talking about her happiness. She said she felt I was "dissing" her for asking her to be more sensitive about my emotions. She had a previous bad relationship–now that this one is good she’s going to talk about it freely. I feel better when I’m not around her, but she says that she can only talk to me because she feels there is no one else in the family to talk to. She says everyone else is too judgemental. She’s been with him over a year and hasn’t introduced him to anyone yet. She doesn’t have other friends she can talk to. I can’t live on another planet to avoid her. I just want to know what is the best way to heal when dealing with her.

Tags: amp, emotions, happiness, hasn, How To Heal A Broken Heart, last time, love, Love Notes, older sister, People, relationship

We were suppose to be married then he changed his mind. Broke up with me two days before he deployed. It’s been two months he hasn’t called. I know he won’t considering how broken-hearted I was.Why do I still love him,think of him and miss him.I know this deployment scares him even though he won’t admit it. But, I did tell him I’ll wait for him no matter how long or what happens.He knows I’m a faithful person.

Tags: Broken Hearted, deployment, faithful person, hasn, love, relationship

If two people fight for years and talk of divorce and "when the house sells you get yours and I get mine" but when the house hasn’t sold and one moves out before the other. Now feels guilty for being the one to leave. what is that all about?

Tags: divorce, hasn, quot