I have 4 kids with my ex, he owes almost 00 in arrears for prior years and over 00 for this year’s behind payments. He is now on an income deduction order and is current only because if his employer but still refuses to file income tax for this year because, in his words "doesn’t want me to get his hard earned money". He fails to realize I struggled with my "hard earned money" by myself for a long time.
I received a letter stating they were going to intercept his taxes but since he hasn’t filed there’s nothing to intercept and not only that I can’t even get the stimulus check now because he don’t plan on filing before the deadline of the stimulus payment and for some odd reason he thinks he’s getting his income tax refund because he’s finally making the payments through his employer. I know a little about how things work because I’m not afraid to ask questions but sometimes the best answers come from outsiders. So I’m curious to know what can I possibly do whether it be report it or whatever and to whom do I report him to, Child Support or IRS?

Tags: arrears, child support, hard earned money, Hard Money, hasn, income tax refund, irs, long time, odd reason, outsiders, stimulus, Taxes

What should I do when my partner says I want a divorce , but my heart doesn’t want to stay with him? I know he hasn’t any relation with any other girl. I think he is going through a big pressure in his office-that’s why fighting are happening between us often. Maybe because of this he said that….

Tags: divorce, hasn, heart, How To Save Your Marriage, marriage

My husband & i have been married for about 1 year & 6 months.Bt we have been together for 3 years. I got married when i was 17 & he was 20.Im 18 almost 19 now & he’s 21.We dont have children.And well i feel as if im not "in love" with him anymore.I love him & always will bt im not "in love" he’s been a good husband although before we got married he cheated on me so many times & he was abusive.& i thought i had gotten over that.But i haven’t.it still hurts what he did & i can’t trust him ive tried for over a year & i just can’t.& it has caused a lot of problems between me & him.He’s not abusive no more & hasn’t cheated bt when he promises me that he will never do that again i just dont believe him.& lately the sex is boring.i dnt even want to have sex with him at all.& also iv been talkn to someone new.He makes me feel so good inside.I can talk to him about anything.& i just dont have that with my husband.i have never considered him "my best friend" he is very controlsive & so i tend to do things behind his back.I dont want to hurt him if i do choose to leave him bt i dont want to regret it neither.Plz Help. idk if its just because im young & want to experience something new or if im just really not in love with my husband anymore.

Tags: 3 years, best friend, hasn, love quot, Promises, T Amp

I’ve been dating someone for 4 months, everything has been smooth, easy and wonderful. A lot in common. Same morals, blah.. blah.. blah. He’s recently divorced (I know, my 1st mistake) and has a child with her. This is the 2nd time she had left him, filed for divorce this time. Told him that she felt no compassion for him on their honeymoon that he went through a lot to plan out and make special. No intimacy between the 2 before she left the 1st time and certainly not the 2nd. She now tells him she wants another chance, he has since told me that he isn’t considering her, that I’m everything he’s ever wanted and have made him happier than he’s ever been, I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m a wonderful person, BUT… he needs some space. He feels lost and empty. Doesn’t know if he can love again. Wants time alone to work on himself, get his head back on straight. Hasn’t called me since. Is he contemplating her? Or did he get scared? Will he be back or do I need to move on?

Tags: 4 months, blah, blah blah, compassion, divorce, Ex Wife, hasn, honeymoon, intimacy, Lost, love, mistake, morals, wonderful person

This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

Tags: amp, broken heart, butterflies, Chase, feelings, fiancee, hasn, heart, kind of game, long time, love, smile, strong woman