My wife recently disclosed she has been having an affair for the last three months and wants to pursue this guy and end our marriage of 17 years. How can I reason with her?
Tags: 17 years, having an affair, marriage, Marriage After An Affair, Reason, three months
we were having trouble-mostly financial-husband started never being home to spend time with the family-told him we need to get a div if your never wanting to b around–he said no no no he didnt want that=things were better for a few months but i was angry about things still , then about the time when i was beginning to believe he was wanting to stay married- he started having an affair but stil wudnt lev the house kept saying he wanted his marriage, there was confrontation div papers signed and he was gone for a month moved in with the girl he cheated with. then asked to come back home he loves me so much=so he moved back in and told the other girl it was over-now hes acting distant says hes mainly worried about money-but also says he loves me but hes not in love with me like when we first met. he says he wants to stay married but doesnt see how it can work. everyone says kick him to the curb –im not so in love with him that i think i cant ever be with anyone else-but i do want my marriage to work i want our family back, any insight here??
Tags: confrontation, div, having an affair, insight, love, marriage, money
its been 1 year of our relationship..and now its become pretty monotonous..the spark or charm which was there before seems to have gone..my bf does not call as frequently as he used 2 before,he doesn’t always do what i tell him 2 do…he tries both but he does have problems..we have had fights before..but we appologised and stuff..thats ok..but its like he is bored of me..and sometimes even i feel like having an affair with some other guy..he takes me for granted..he knows i am there for him..he thinks he can do whatever he likes…please tell me how i can make him fall in love with me all over again…just like the 1st time it happened..i wanna arouse the same urgency in him as there was before…please help..thank you
Tags: bf, Bored, Fall In Love, having an affair, love, relationship, urgency
oke so my mum and dad are arguing alot mainly dad being a newb oke down to buisness me and mum have both noticed when we go into a room where hes on 1 of his 2 computers he minimizes the page or closes it then loggs off.we dont know his password to any of his 2 computers and he always deletes his history every time before he loggs off.is there any way we can find what hes going on .mum thinks hes having an affair! i hope not
Tags: alot, dad, Hacking Computer, having an affair, History 101, marriage, mum and dad, newb
i am a 25 year old with a 4 year old son and a baby on the way. my wife found out i was cheating on her when she looked through my text message history. i confessed to having an affair. i was never a great husband in the first place , could never seem to make wife happy and when things seemed to be starting to be going better she found out i was texting hundreds of messages a day for the past few months. my wife is pregnant with our second child that we were both looking forward to. i want to do what ever i possibly can to salvage our marriage but i dint know what to do to make it work because she is heart broken and will not forgive me for what i’ve done. she doesn’t believe that i love her. how can i prove to her that love her and make her take me back.
Tags: baby on the way, Cheating Wife, having an affair, heart, marriage, message history, Pregnant, salvage, second child, text message, texting
