Of course I won’t send it to him, but I just wanted to see what you thought of it and if you think telling him this stuff will help get him back (??)

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Dear ex,

I hope all is well. I am writing this letter as part of my healing process, to be able to feel the feeling.

I am mostly angry with myself for having let you run away from me. I am angry that I was so distant and that I did not let you get close, I am angry that I was not myself fully, I am angry that I expected so much from you without giving you anything in return. I am angry that you could not see through me and understand that I was scared to feel and scared to let go, and I am angry you did not try harder. I am angry that you did not like me (though it is my fault). I am angry that I have yet another reason to hate myself. I am angry that I could not give you what you deserved and love you to the fullest. I am sad, baby, because I lost you and there is no way back.

I fear this break up means going back to my old depressive me, the me that hated herself and that did not believe anyone could love her. I fear that really, there will be no one else and that it will just leave one big whole that will mess up the rest of my life, namely my professional life. I fear that I will live out my life being single, never having been kissed. I fear that I will continue my boring old life.

I am always going to love your kindness and honesty, purity, good heart, and above all the fact that you tried liking me for me. I am scared I won’t find a person like you out there. I love the fact that you are so confident while being so humble. I will miss you like hell.

I love you, I just wish you were not my first experience, I wish I knew better. However, unfortunately, there is no time machine, this is why I will just let go and move on. But you know, even if I do move on, I know I will never ever find anyone like you and somewhere in my heart, I will always have a little remorse.
well, i wrote this letter as suggested on this website, if anyone is interested to read more about the healing process (I am just trying it out, don’t know if it will even work ):

http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm

Tags: Fake Letter, first experience, good heart, healing process, Heart Break, hell, honesty, kindness, professional life, purity, remorse, rest of my life, time machine, writing this letter

I finished a long term relationship, and i have no idea what is happening with me now. I look and feel lost.
I am sure that we will never get back together, and i need to move with my life.
I need help..
can someone answer me what comes after the shock of breaking up…
When will my healing process start…I feel agony..

Tags: agony, Healing A Broken Heart, healing process, long term relationship, shock, Term Relationship

I had dated a guy I worked with for a few months. When things started getting serious, I wanted to run. Though my family kept telling me he was a great guy and I shouldn’t run from what scares me all the time… Needless to say I put my best foot forward and let myself fall for him. Not knowing that all this time he said he felt the same and wanted to settle down with me… Then out of the blue he says it’s over and gave me no reason why…
When I tried to find out why, he would respond with "LEAVE ME ALONE"
I still think about him everyday and can’t even try to find someone else. How do I begin the healing process to something that never had real closure?

Tags: best foot, closure, healing process, out of the blue

My boyfriend and i recently broke up. We both didn’t really want to but we’ve been trying to make it work for a really long time and can’t seem to reach a happy medium where we are both happy.

anyone have any good ways to get over a breakup? how to help the healing process along? i love this guy a lot and care about him but we can’t keep being stubborn trying to make something work that isn’t going to… we’re two very different people.

Tags: happy medium, healing process, long time, ways to get over a breakup

Would it do any good to unload your feelings via phone/email to the person that dumped you or just forget about it, move on and start the healing process.

Tags: email, feelings, healing process