I’ve been in a relationship since highschool. She’s actually my first and only girl friend ever.
So we’ve been together for more then 5 Years…
The relationship seems fine and everyday is the same. A few stupid fights here N there, but we get along great most of the time, and I love her. All is good.
But recently my emotions are getting to me. My friends are hooking up with girls that they’ve had crushes on, people are getting married, and other friends are just living the single life up. They come over and hang out and my guy friends bring over just amazingly beautiful girls! Making out in front of me and I just can’t help but envy them. Being young wild and free, but I’m feeling locked down. As if I’m married and old…we as a couple don’t go out enough, don’t make love ever, and she always has to bust in the room and spew negativity. I love her, but she’s so lazy and full of drama.

She’s gained alot of weight since we’ve been together, which seems to make thing worse. She’s gotta be 250 now!?? I’m not shallow and actually like thicker built women, but I honestly don’t feel like ive ever been with a real woman ever!!! My girl is so out of touch and uninterested in me, it’s like I’m lonley.

I’m kinda a clean cut nice guy and girls always smile and say I’m really cute and a great guy, but them go home with one of my dweeby friends and bang.

I’m just having that feeling of regret and wondering if I’m doing the right thing and keeping this relationship going when deep deep down Im jealous of my friends all doing what they really want to do and dating girls and being young and wild.

I just feel lost….anyone know what I mean… Advice?

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My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help?
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…

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